Greetings everyone! I wanted to talk to you all just a moment about depression. For many of you who are either doing our love spells or are in the waiting period after having done love spells, depression can often set in. Sometimes you might be depressed because you have even had to do love spells in the first place! Sometimes you might be depressed because now that you have done them you aren’t sure when or even IF they will work for you. Sometimes you might be depressed because the person you have been working your magick on isn’t responding just yet.
No matter what the reason, though, for sure depression can have a detrimental effect on your love spells! Now I know for sure that we are all going to be sad sometimes, especially when we are not with the one person we want to be with. However, too much of that sadness really sends out a negative energy. I have people writing and telling me that they are "crying day and night" because they are not with the person they have done the love spells on. While I do feel great compassion for this, I also know that crying day and night is in no way helping to bring the person closer to you. In fact, it may be doing quite the opposite.
I would like to encourage each and every one of you to please try to do something to uplift your spirits. And, yes, I know it isn’t easy. I am not trying to sound cavalier or like everyone should have a Pollyanna mood. However, I want you to get what you want from your love spell casting! So I tell you this for your own good: Too much crying and depression is not good for your case! I know I have talked about it before, but I think it bears repeating. If you feel depressed and sad over your case, try to compartmentalize those feelings. Promise yourself an hour a day to be sad, depressed, and even crying if you need to. Then promise yourself that will be it for that day – you will always have that hour tomorrow to do it all over again. Once that hour of sadness and crying has gone by, you must promise yourself that you will then do something productive and positive even if it is take a bath and fix your hair a different way!
Obviously this isn’t always going to work. Each of us has days that we just can’t seem to shake the blues away from. But I do urge you to try and see how much better you start to feel after a few days.
Love to you all! Mambo Sam
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