• Are You in Love and Angry?

    Greetings everyone!  As you all know, of course, working with clients who are doing our love spells gives me a great opportunity to be privileged enough to see the inner workings of many, many relationships. One thing that I see a LOT of are people who are actually very angry with the person upon whom they are doing love spell work!!  🙂

    Now believe me I am not saying that their anger is unwarranted!  Quite often they have been dumped in a very unceremonious way, getting hurt, remaining hurt, feeling no resolution for their hurt.  Of course they are angry!  Many times they are in contact with this person and still get hurt by them and thus the anger grows.  But here they are trying to do love spell work which by its very nature requires that you approach it from a standpoint of unconditional and pure love!   How on earth does one resolve that?

    Many people have chosen to do white candle magick kits and the Milk of Damballah(tm) white bath to help them release and remove the anger so that they may continue on with their love spell work feeling cleansed of that anger.  But what about that underlying, I-have-tried-and-I-just-can’t-get-rid-of-this anger? You probably know and feel deep down inside that the anger your are feeling towards the person you are doing love spell work on is somehow degrading that very work!  In fact, sometimes it gets so bad in people that they get on an endless cycle of being angry with their HD (Heart’s Desire) and then being angry with themselves for being angry with their HD and then being angry that they are angry! 

    Sometimes this can just go on and on especially if they are in contact with the HD who continues to needle them with either a new relationship, or continued criticism, or other negative behaviors.  Just because you love them doesn’t mean you are not affected by their negative behaviors!  Your resentment of these behaviors can have a definite negative effect on your love spell work!

    If you feel you are in this situation then I do encourage you to acknowledge what is happening and then take as many measures as necessary to help alleviate as much of the anger as you can.  Look, we are human, and most of us are not Mother Teresa, so you can only do the best you can!  The abovementioned white candle magick and Milk of Damballah white bath are definitely the standard tools for removing negativity and certainly do work for quite a number of people.  The Pink Bubble Meditation is helpful to use to release that anger and send it away from you!

    Another choice is doing the Baron’s Purple Bath. One of the many uses of the Baron’s Purple Bath is to take negative things away and bury them!  Along with that, you can ask that your own love for this person be resurrected to its full feeling once that anger is taken and buried away. In this way, you will again have the FULL POWER of your love to put into your spell work.  Remember, the great and powerful Baron Samedi is not just the lwa of death, but of life – burying and resurrecting are his forte’.  Asking him to bury your anger, hurt, and resentment and replace them with fresh and invigorated love, forgiveness, and positivity is sure to not only make you feel better, but to strengthen the power of your love spell work!

    Love, Mambo Sam

  • The Za Za Zsu – In the Pink!

    Hello everyone!  Well, with the new Sex and the City movie in the theatres now, I am reminded of how many letters I used to receive referencing different themes and characters on the television show.  Whether you loved, hated, or could have cared less about the show, many of our clients often saw themselves or their relationships correlated in the episodes of the show.  I definitely had a love-hate relationship with the show as I wearied of otherwise intelligent women telling me that they were "so Carrie."  😉

    At any rate, there was an episode talking about the "za za zsu" in a successful relationship; that crazy, romantic, fabulous time period when intimacy between a couple was warm, exciting, and extremely close and loving.  🙂   In other words, romantic sex appeal – not just the instinct and desire to have sex with someone, but the desire to have that sex with the person who was special to you.

    I started thinking about this the other day when I was preparing candle magick kits for shipping.  Red male candle magick kits were flying out the door!   Passionate love!  And believe me there is nothing wrong with that.  But it got me to thinking, what about the romance?

    What about those pink male candle magick kits?  😉  I wanted to share with you part of a letter I received a couple of months ago from a client.  Here it is:

    "…and even though Teddy and I have been doing okay after I finished my spell kits, I really felt like we were missing romance in our life.  He is a scientist and spends his day proving and disproving scientific theory for a lab.  He can sometimes be very unromantic simply because he is someone who is very practical.  Anyway, I went ahead and got the BMS pink male candle magick kits.  When I was doing them I put some Abre Camino oil on the candle too and paid some special attention to the genital area (sorry for being so graphic).  I petitioned that the next time we were making love that he would feel warm and romantic.  I pictured us melting into each other just like the candle was melting.  About a week after I finished up the trio we were being intimate when he suddenly looked at me and said, "I feel like I am melting into you."  I was so shocked that I almost started laughing and crying at the same time.  Luckily we were so busy that he didn’t notice…"

    I thought that was a pretty amazing letter!  Just the idea of even using the petition to be melting into each other just like the candle was melting was pretty innovative, I thought.  Sometimes we get so wrapped up in trying to bring someone’s love to us, we forget that most of us want something warm and fuzzy in that love, too.   Although this particular client was already with her HD, I don’t see any reason that a person couldn’t do the pink candle magick kits in this way even if you aren’t already with them.   Bringing up romantic images of you in your HD’s mind can only help your case! 

    There is a pretty fine distinction when we are talking about love and romance.  Of course we want our partner to love us!  But I am sure plenty of you know both men and women who may love quite well, but have missed the mark in the romance department.  If you are a person who also wants to make sure that romance stays alive in the relationship you are working on, I would suggest throwing a little pink candle magick into it!  Maybe soon you will be melting in his arms, too, and feeling that za za zsu!  😉

    Love, Mambo Sam

  • Because You Needed to Know… That’s Why!

    Hello everyone!  Quite often many of our clients, at some point during their love spell casting, find out things regarding the person they are working on.  A great deal of the time these things may seem like "bad" or "undesirable" things.  However, most of the time these things are found out because you need to know.

    In some cases you find out that there is another person involved that you didn’t know about, sometimes it is something about the person’s past that may be what is keeping them from you; there can be many, many things that one finds out.

    For most people, finding out these things sends them into a tailspin.  Suddenly there is a lot of negative thinking and worry that the spells aren’t working, or that they aren’t going to get what they want, etc., etc., etc.  But the truth is that most often you NEED to know these things.  Our spell work is not meant to sweep problems under the rug and give you the illusion that everything is okay and you are getting together with the person.  Our spell work is meant to seek out and bring to light what the REAL problems are so that you can deal with them and stand a real chance of being with the person.

    Many of you have often heard me say that "spell work brings the truth to light whether you want it to or not."  It is the absolute truth.  Of course none of us wants to hear bad news or negative things, especially in regards to our relationships.  But if we are working on a difficult relationship with our spell work, then it is imperative to know what the real problems and challenges are.  How you deal with the knowledge is most important.

    What seems like "negative news" is often Les Lois (the spirits of the Vodou religion) letting you know that "this" is something you need to work on; they are showing you the heart of the challenges of your relationship and letting you know that you still need to work on this subject.  Going downhill and getting depressed and freaking out at these things really isn’t going to help.  Figuring them into your spell work and adjunct work such as candle magick work, love doll work, etc. IS the thing to do with any kind of information that you get.  So when information is brought to you about the person you are working your magick on, think about why you are getting it!

    Now don’t misunderstand me, I am completely empathetic to the fact that sometimes it just plain old hurts to find out things that you didn’t know about your intended partner.  I am not saying that you aren’t going to sad or upset.  But unless it is something horrible like he is a serial killer or pedophile (in which case you are being brought that information so that you can RUN AWAY as fast as you can), then you should use that information to properly configure your spell work to account for what you have learned.  Try as best you can to channel all that hurt and upset into something positive such as working on the situation.

    Nobody likes to hear bad news, but just try to remember that sometimes it isn’t bad news, it is just information that you need to get your case on track.  🙂

    Love, Mambo Sam

  • Father’s Day!

    Greetings everyone – and a Happy Father’s Day to all the good Dads out there.  🙂

    I cannot help by remember my own father on this special day.  He has been gone for many years, but his memory and spirit are with me always.  He is the reason for many things in my life:  My ability to cook like a professional chef (he was one, I am not!), my sense of humor, my work ethic, the way I treat people, and so much more.

    Even though my Dad never met a bottle of Chivas Regal that he didn’t like, he never sacrificed his family for a drink.  He was a hard working, hard drinking, hard playing man – an old salty dog from the Navy and a straight shooter.  He didn’t believe in lying, even though there were times would that would have been easier.   He believed in treating his employees with fairness and dignity even though most of them were Black at a time in the South where most Black employees weren’t treated well at all.   He took being called by racist names from his friends with aplomb and pragmatism simply saying they were "ignorant" and leaving it at that. 

    My Dad drove me and my friends anywhere we wanted to go; picking up a gang of pre-teen and then teen girls and putting us in his van and dropping us off at the mall, the lake, and anywhere else we wanted to go.  I almost regretted learning to drive because then Daddy didn’t need to take us anywhere anymore!

    He played poker with Mafia guys and I sat on his knee while he did it!  I ran into one of those fellas a couple of years ago in New Orleans.  He was just as old as he could be, but he still remembered me and my father!

    My Dad was, by his own admission, far from perfect as a man, but he was absolutely perfect as a father.  Thank you, Daddy!!!

    So blessings out there to all the Good Dads!

    Love, Mambo Sam

  • How Do You Get Along with You?

    Greetings everyone!   Every day I am blessed to communicate with my clients, friends, and family from Spellmaker!  Many times I am privileged to do a consultation with you or in some other way hear your story and offer you guidance and advice.

    More and more lately I find that so many of you have lost sight of who you are.  There are those of you who seem to question your choices so much that you end up not making a choice.  There are others of you who seem to have fallen into self-hate, self-criticism, and general self-loathing.  🙁   It makes me so sad to see this happening!

    So that brings up the question that is the title of this post:  How Do You Get Along with You?  Something that I believe happens, especially when you have been working on something such as a relationship case for a long time, is that you tend to lose sight of yourself!  We get so focused on working on the person we wish to have as our love that we forget that we, too, have the role of "self" to play in our own lives!

    I find this especially true of my female clients – you end up having such an earnest desire to be loved, that you forget to love the most important person – YOU!  I cannot help but think sometimes that if you put as much effort into loving yourself as you do to your love spell work then that work would come to fruition a heck of a lot faster.

    So remember, just take some time today to remember who you are, love yourself, and try to get along with YOU!

    Love, Mambo Sam

  • FREE SHIPPING and 15% off right now!

    Hello everyone!  I know a lot of us are really feeling the crunch of the high gas prices and resulting high prices for food and everything else in our lives.  Obviously, because of the high fuel prices, shipping costs have gone up and up and up! 

    However, to try to help out a little bit, we are right now offering not only 15% off all products on the website (www.spellmaker.com), but we are also offering FREE SHIPPING.  We are only able to offer this for our customers in the USA. 

    So do take advantage!  No matter how much you buy or the weight, your shipping will be absolutely free right now.

    Stay cool!

    Love, Mambo Sam

  • Products to help you grow your Intuition.

    OK, so now that I have spammed you all with articles about Intuition for the past 2 weeks, here are some recommendations of items that can help you build that intuitive muscle:

    1. This one is MY personal favorite : the LaSiren Aquamarine Shoals Blue Bath Kit. LOVE IT ! LOVE IT! LOVE IT!

    2. White Image Candle Magick kits  especially wonderful to mix a few drops of Abre Camino Oil in the Anointing Oil that comes with the candle kit and ask for any blocks there might be to your intuition to be removed.

    3. Discover Hidden Secrets Charm

    4. New Orleans Voodoo Self Improvement Doll

    5. Cosmic Voodoo Power Gris Gris Bag I actually have this bag right on hand when I do my tarot card readings 🙂 Wont read without it!

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

    Cball

  • Intuition — Your Inner Guide

    What I loved about this article was the last paragraph! (#4)! I mean, sometimes we can get one little piece of information that just doesnt fit anywhere else …. and its possible to worry it to death or make a mountain out of a mole hill 😉 Sometimes, its just a red herring.

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

    Intuition – Your Inner Guide

    by: Anne Walsh

    Have you ever thought about someone out of the blue?and then they 
    called you. Have you ever made a decision that everyone else thought 
    was crazy, but you knew was right for you..and it worked out 
    perfectly? Have you ever followed your gut instinct on something and 
    was proved gloriously RIGHT! If any of these have happened to you, you 
    have experienced the power of intuition. Most of us at some stage wish 
    we could have an inner guide that would tell us the right thing to do. 
    The good news is that we do have an inner guide, the bad news is that 
    the message can be fuzzy!

    Benefits of being guided by intuition

    So what are the benefits of following your intuition as opposed to 
    listening to the promptings of parents, partners and others? First of 
    all, this begins to give you confidence in your own judgment. It helps 
    you judge whether this person or opportunity is the right one for 
    you?even if it may not seem so on paper. Secondly I have never met 
    anyone who regretted following their intuition. Yes it may have meant 
    making a difficult decision but it WAS the right ultimate decision for 
    them. Many great business deals have been gone through on a hunch?or 
    intuition?

    Developing your intuition

    1. Recognition: I have relied on intuition for making most of my major 
    decisions but I still have difficulty sometimes distinguishing between 
    it and just a passing thought, so here are some guidelines I use?

    a. Feeling: What’s the feeling around it? If it’s gentle that’s 
    usually a sign of intuition. Something that is fear-based and urgent 
    is not intuition.

    b. Persistent: You find that you keep having the same thought about 
    something, check it out.

    c. Messages: You find that the issue crops up again in all sorts of 
    ways..it gets mentioned on the news, you hear it in passing 
    conversation.

    2. Trust. So after you have got these messages and confirmation, if 
    you wish to use this, you actually need to do something about it. You 
    must learn to trust this feeling. Follow promptings and see where they 
    lead you?

    3. Openness: Be open to where intuition can lead you. One thing I can 
    promise you..is that you will be surprised and delighted by where it 
    leads you..

    4. Sometimes it doesn’t mean anything. This is one thing I have 
    noticed about being guided by intuition. Sometimes hunches and gut 
    instincts don’t actually seem to mean anything?but we don’t know that 
    until afterwards?so accept that you may have the odd intuitive red 
    herring!

    So this week begin paying attention to your hunches. Call that friend, 
    read that book, make that call?and who knows what delightful things 
    could come to your door..

    About The Author

    Anne Walsh is a life coach based in Co. Galway, Ireland

  • Why Pay Attention to your Intuition?

    Here is another splendid article by Sonia Choquette! Dont forget to check out her weekly radio show on Hay House Radio! Hay House Radio is a wealth of great information that you can listen to for free on your computer. Check it out! Light and Love, Sister Bridget

    Why Pay Attention to your Intuition?

    One thing you will discover when you begin to nurture your intuition, 
    is that what you are truly doing is nurturing you most authentic self, 
    your spirit. Nurturing intuition is actually the art of discovering 
    and honoring who you really are. Being intuitive means looking into 
    your heart and recognizing the genuine self within. It means 
    empowering yourself with the understanding that you are a spiritual 
    being, a royal child of the light, thus keeping you from the darkness 
    and confusion of searching for yourself worth through the approval of 
    others.

    Intuition helps you to view the world through creative and receptive 
    eyes, reminding you that, behind the scenes in every way, the universe 
    is helping you succeed. When we see ourselves as we really are, 
    spiritual beings, helped by guides, protected by angels, and 
    infinitely loved by God, then being intuitive begins to make sense. 
    The universe is a hologram, aware of all of its parts at all times, 
    and each of us, being an essential part of the whole, has access to 
    its wisdom at every moment.

    Being intuitive means being in tune with the true nature of the 
    Universe, including your place in it, and will prevent you from 
    believing anything less than the truth; that as children of God, you 
    are loveable, and worthy of everything good in the Universe has to 
    offer. It will free you from the tendency to harm or repress your 
    genuine needs, feelings, and desires. In living an intuitive life, you 
    live life with an open heart. In other words, you become committed to 
    loving yourself and agree to accept the love and abundance that the 
    Universe wants you to experience.

    Following your intuition will also help you to walk away from people 
    or situations that are not good for you. It will let you know that 
    they have the right to keep themselves out of harms way by respecting 
    your natural boundaries, and identifying and avoiding negative 
    circumstances without having to justify their reasons.

    Being intuitive offers you a world that is friendly, adventurous, and 
    amusing, but most of all one that welcomes your unique essence. It 
    will lay the foundation for your ability to experience real power in 
    your lives, this power that comes from within and cannot be diminished 
    by anyone.

    Reclaiming your sixth sense and restoring it to its rightful place of 
    honor in your life will give you an invaluable gift. It will make you 
    aware of the wonder in the world. It will open your eyes and ears to 
    the glory and delight of creativity. It will arm you with confidence 
    and provide added insurance for protection. It will help you connect 
    to their real purpose and to those with whom you share your lives. It 
    will assure you of your natural place in the wheel of life and help 
    you overcome the fear of death. And above all, it will give you the 
    right to live in peace without fear, and to have the full experience 
    of expressing who you really are. For each of us who lives with this 
    wisdom in their heart, we help those who have lost there way remember 
    there true essence as well. In this way we can all become healers of 
    the world and usher in an age of peace.

    Intuition is and is waiting to be awakened in all people. In order to 
    tap into it all you must do is to make four important decisions. The 
    first decision is to be open to intuition. Being open to hearing the 
    voice of your inner teacher is like turning the radio to you spirit 
    "on".

    The second decision is to expect intuition to guide you. When you 
    enter into a state of expectation, you create a magnet that draws 
    intuition into your awareness. The third decision is to trust you 
    intuition when it does show up. One way to do this is to get a small 
    pocket notebook and record every single intuitive feeling that you 
    have over the next two weeks without censoring. If you do this, what 
    you will have is evidence that intuition can be trusted. And finally, 
    the fourth and most important decision is to act on your intuition. 
    Learn to do this by playfully inviting your intuition to guide you, 
    beginning with "where are my keys? And leading up to "What is my 
    purpose in life?"

    If you make these four decisions; be open, expect, trust, and act on 
    your intuition, you will transform a life from the ordinary "me 
    against the world" into one that is extraordinary – "me, a spiritual 
    being, -here to lovingly create and contribute with divine support." 
    This is the natural way, and as it should be.

    About The Author

    Sonia Choquette is a world-renowned revolutionary psychic, intuitive 
    and spiritual teacher. She specializes in leading others out of the 
    dark ages and into the 21st century by helping others recognize that 
    we are all endowed with a sixth sense that we can count on and need to 
    activate in order to succed in our lives. She is the best-selling 
    author of seven books: newest book – Diary Of A Psychic (Hay House 
    July 2003), The Psychic Pathway (Three Rivers Press), Your Heart’s 
    Desire (Three Rivers Press), The Wise Child (Three Rivers Press), True 
    Balance (Three Rivers Press), Your Psychic Pathway to New Beginnings 
    (Clarkson Potter/ Publishers, July 2002), Your Psychic Pathway to Joy 
    (Clarkson Potter Publishers, July 2002) and numerous audio editions. 
    Highly trained in the psychic arts and metaphsyical law, Sonia has 
    extensive background and is educated in the mysticism of East and West 
    and was educated at the University of Denver and at the Sorbonne in 
    Paris, and holds a Ph.D. in Metaphysics.

  • Intuition at Home…..

    I was soooooooooooo excited when I found this article by Sonia Choquette! I listen to her show on Hay House Radio every week! I hope you enjoy the article and check out her show as well!

    Light and Love, Sister Bridget

    Intuition at Home

    In the past few weeks I have spent a lot of time talking to many 
    people about nurturing intuition in children. In those conversations, 
    one of the most frequent messages I hear from parents is just how 
    painful life has been for them because they lost touch with their own 
    inner voice and don’t listen to their own heart in life, and how they 
    want better for their kids. In fact, the number of stories of regret, 
    lost opportunity, struggle and even sickness resulting from being led 
    by other than one’s own intuition are endless.

    The more I hear from people the more I realize just what a profound 
    wounding being out of touch with your intuition actually is. I believe 
    losing a connection with your sixth sense is just as profound of a 
    loss as losing a connection with any one of your other senses would 
    be, if not more so. Our intuition is the lifeline to our Source, God. 
    It is the voice that helps us remain in integrity with our real 
    nature, our essence. Being aware of, honoring and following the 
    guiding wisdom of our intuition is the most reliable way to create 
    lives that fulfill our deepest dreams and desires. As important as 
    intuition is, it is no wonder that losing touch with it does so often 
    bear out such unfulfilled lives. Knowing this, I believe that 
    intuition should be perceived as our first sense, not our last, and 
    should never be the sense we ignore or throw away?

    I think we lose touch with this inner voice when we are young. We lose 
    it through the million and one subtle ways in which we are told that 
    our feelings are not reliable, and cannot be trusted. Or are told that 
    what we feel is not real, or not important and cannot direct our life. 
    The injuries to our spirit, the voice of our intuition, are usually so 
    subtle that they can never be specifically identified. Rather than 
    dying a death by dramatic blows, it is my observation that intuition 
    usually dies a death of a thousand tiny pinpricks, suffered as we grow 
    up.

    The good new about our intuition is that even though some of us have 
    become disconnected to it, because it is inherent to our Spiritual 
    Nature, it is totally possible to reconnect with it in our own lives 
    as well as preserve it in the lives of our children. All it requires 
    to do this is to create the proper environment for your intuition to 
    re-enter your life.

    The first suggestion for doing this is to begin by paying attention to 
    your own feelings. As you know from your own experience, we do not 
    necessarily do what we feel when growing up, but rather we do what we 
    observe the important people in our lives doing. Therefore, if you 
    want your children to connect with their intuition, you must 
    demonstrate how to do this by connecting to yours first.

    Begin with giving attention to the feelings in your body as you move 
    through the day because this is how intuition gets your attention. 
    Does it come to your attention in your belly, your chest, your throat, 
    or somewhere else in your body? Where? Be aware. Notice.

    Next, acknowledge your own intuitive feelings as they come up in your 
    life, and share these feelings openly and without a lot of drama with 
    your children. Be certain not to put a negative or unnatural spin on 
    these feelings when you do speak about them, such as describing 
    intuition as "weird" or "bizarre" or "scary" as some people do. After 
    all, what kid wants to emulate something "weird" "bizarre" or scary?" 
    Probably not yours.

    Another thing you can do to foster intuition in your home is to ask 
    your kids how they feel about things. And then respect their feelings 
    when they do share them with you. If their feelings suggest a 
    modification in your plans, be open to changing course. Because 
    intuition works to assist you in making the best decisions possible in 
    life, it is only natural that many intuitive feelings suggest 
    re-directing your course to a better way, or to avoid potential 
    problems.

    Another suggestion is to create an atmosphere in your home that is 
    harmonious and invites everyone to share their intuitive feelings 
    without censorship, embarrassment, or a need to justify their 
    instincts in any way. When we create an atmosphere that respects the 
    unseen, but felt world as much as the physical plane, we are well on 
    our way to reclaiming the most important instinct for success that we 
    have.

    And finally, encourage your self and your children to ask for 
    intuitive guidance in life and begin to turn your awareness inward and 
    listen for it. Intuition is natural and available to anyone who 
    desires to connect with it. It is never to late to awaken your 
    intuition as well as support you child’s intuition, even if you feel 
    you have been out of touch with it for a long time. The reason this is 
    so is that intuition is NATURAL and present in anyone willing to notice.

    Nurturing intuition isn’t so much a matter of what can we do to foster 
    an awareness that isn’t present, but rather it is a matter of what can 
    we do to protect the natural yet subtle soul awareness that is present 
    in all of us. When we connect to our intuition, the world takes on a 
    friendlier place, welcoming us to all sorts of opportunities, 
    surprising us with synchronicities, protecting us from adversity and 
    directing us to the best possible course for sharing our gifts with 
    the world. This is the natural plan and the way it should be. Invite 
    intuition into your home, for your own sake and for the sake of your 
    children as well. It’s worth it!

    About The Author

    Sonia Choquette is a world-renowned revolutionary psychic, intuitive 
    and spiritual teacher. She specializes in leading others out of the 
    dark ages and into the 21st century by helping others recognize that 
    we are all endowed with a sixth sense that we can count on and need to 
    activate in order to succed in our lives. She is the best-selling 
    author of seven books: newest book – Diary Of A Psychic (Hay House 
    July 2003), The Psychic Pathway (Three Rivers Press), Your Heart’s 
    Desire (Three Rivers Press), The Wise Child (Three Rivers Press), True 
    Balance (Three Rivers Press), Your Psychic Pathway to New Beginnings 
    (Clarkson Potter/ Publishers, July 2002), Your Psychic Pathway to Joy 
    (Clarkson Potter Publishers, July 2002) and numerous audio editions. 
    Highly trained in the psychic arts and metaphsyical law, Sonia has 
    extensive background and is educated in the mysticism of East and West 
    and was educated at the University of Denver and at the Sorbonne in 
    Paris, and holds a Ph.D. in Metaphysics.