Tag: love

  • Smile it’s Monday!

    Back to work!  Hope you all had a good weekend.  Needless to say we get a ton of email here at Spellmaker.Sometimes it is hard to keep up with it all. Both Mambo and I have a tendency to hit the computer first thing in the morning to start seeing who needs what!

    Since it is Monday I thought you might need a laugh. This is a list Ifound by Michael Boyd:

    How to tell if you're an e-mail junkie


    How to tell if you're an e-mail junkie

    Date: Fri, 16 May 1997 09:57:28 +0600

    You know you are an Email/Internet Junkie If :

    1. You wake up at 3 a.m. to go to the bathroom and stop to check your e-mail on the way back to bed.

    2. You get a tattoo that reads "This body best viewed with Netscape Navigator 3.0 or higher."

    3. You name your children Eudora, Mozillia and Dotcom.

    4. You turn off your modem and get this awful empty feeling, like you just pulled the plug on a loved one.

    5. You spend half of the plane trip with your laptop on your lap…and your child in the overhead compartment.

    6. You decide to stay in college for an additional year or two just for the free Internet access.

    7. You laugh at people with 9600-baud modems.

    8. You start using smileys in your snail mail.

    9. Your hard drive crashes. You haven't logged in for two hours. You start to twitch. You pick up the phone and manually dial your ISP's access number. You try to hum to communicate with the modem…And you succeed.

    10. You find yourself typing "com" after every period when using a word processor.com

    11. You refer to going to the bathroom as downloading.

    12. You start introducing yourself as "John Doe at AOL dot com."

    13. All of your friends have an @ in their names.

    14. Your PET has its own home page.

    15. You can't call your mother…she doesn't have a modem.

    16. You check your mail. It says "no new messages." So you checkit again.

    17. Your phone bill comes to your doorstep in a box.

    18. You don't know what sex three of your closest friends are, because they have neutral nicknames and you never bothered to ask.

    19. You move into a new house and decide to Netscape before you landscape.

    20. You tell the cab driver you live at "http://1000.edison.garden/house/brick.html"

    21. You start tilting your head sideways to smile

    Love, Parran Matt

    www.spellmaker.com

  • More on Meditation and Focus!

    Happy Monday, everyone!  Now for those of you who just did the nine day Meditation and Focus exercises, you  had focal points to help with your concentration.  Most of us here are doing, have done, or will be doing spell work.  Concentration and Focus are key to good and effective spell work!  :-)  So, the exercises I gave you over the several days helped with the spiritual end of focusing.  I found a great article by Tevjan Pettinger regarding the more physical portion of focus.  It is important to remember that whether your goal is successful spell work, spiritual growth, or something such as getting a new job, a successful balance between the spiritual and physical is the most likely path to fulfillment. 

    Mr. Pettinger makes some excellent points.  Do you have tricks or tips that help you with your concentration and focus?  If so, we would love to hear them.  Leave a comment below!

    Love, Mambo Sam
    www.spellmaker.com

     THE ARTICLE:
    In concentration we marshal all our dispersed energies into focusing on just one thing. When mastered, concentration can be of unimaginable benefit in our life; through concentration we can increase our productivity and give ourselves greater peace of mind. These are some suggestions for improving your concentration.

    One-Pointedness

    Concentration means that we can focus on one thing, to the exclusion of all else. Our concentration may involve writing or working on a particular problem. Whatever our activity the most important criteria is to give all our focus, concentration and attention solely to the activity at hand. Concentration becomes hopeless when we get distracted by several different things at the same time; to improve our concentration we must stop trying to do several things at once. If you are writing an article, don’t be thinking about what to say to your boss later in the day. If we can develop one-pointedness we will develop a tremendous intensity that enables us to achieve our tasks much quicker.

    Learn to Control Your Thoughts

    The main stumbling block to concentration is the inevitable distraction we get from our own thoughts. It is random, uninvited thoughts that distract us from achieving pure concentration. The only solution is learning to control and quieten our thoughts. The first thing to be aware of is that we do have the choice to welcome or reject thoughts; we should not feel a helpless victim of our own mind. The second thing is we need to consciously watch our thoughts and prevent ourselves following any train of thought that detracts from our concentration. If we casually begin a project, it is easy to begin daydreaming and lose focus; what we need to do is be very determined to concentrate without distracting thoughts. When we have this intention and determination it becomes much easier to concentrate.

    Practice

    Concentration is an activity like any other. Clearly the more we practice, the better our concentration will become. We wouldn’t expect to be a strong runner without doing some training. Similarly, concentration is like a muscle, the more we exercise the stronger it becomes. There are specific concentration exercises we can do, such as focusing on a small point of an object; but life itself presents innumerable opportunities to sharpen your concentration. The key is to always take opportunities to heighten our powers of concentration.

    Meditation

    The practice of meditation will definitely improve our powers of concentration. Actually, when we try to meditate, it is concentration that is the first thing we need to master. A daily period of meditation gives us the chance to specifically work on concentration techniques. This can involve concentrating on a candle or just concentrating on our breathing. These exercises are simple but effective.

    Change is as Good as a Rest

    It is difficult to concentrate on one thing for an extended time period. Sometimes, the best solution is to give ourselves frequent change. If we concentrate on one task for an hour, we can then move onto something different. This change in activity enables us to use different qualities, therefore, we can maintain our powers of concentration without becoming tired of one activity.

    Physical Alertness

    The powers of our concentration depends a lot upon our physical well-being. If we are tired, unhealthy and afflicted by numerous minor ailments, concentration will be more difficult. Of course, concentration is still possible; it is just more difficult. However, we have to try to make life easy for ourselves; we need to give a high priority to our physical health – getting sufficient sleep, staying physically fit. Undertaking exercise will help develop our concentration. It will help if we lose weight, clear the mind and create a sense of dynamism. If you struggle to concentrate, we need to think of a holistic solution; good physical health and fitness will definitely help develop our powers of concentration.

  • Defiance.

    Hi everyone! Mambo and I watched a movie the other night titled, “Defiance.”  Have you seen this movie?  It is a powerful film about the human spirit, survival, and love.  It is also a true story.  If you have not seen it, I highly recommend it.


    One thing among many that really struck me was the love story component to this story.  I don’t really want to give the story away, but love grew in probably the most adverse conditions that one could experience.  It would seem that love, romantic love, would have been the last thing on peoples’ minds in these conditions.  But it existed.  Not only did the love exist, it grew, thrived, and lasted for many years between some of the couples.


    It got me to thinking – are some people lazy about love?  If everything isn’t perfect, the perfect man or woman, the perfect restaurant date, the perfect flowers and gifts, then does it mean the love is lessened?  I think a good question to ask is can you love under adverse conditions?  What happens when the “perfect” man or woman becomes less than perfect due to some terrible circumstance?  Do you walk away, or do you still see the perfection under the circumstance?


    So much emphasis is put on what someone you love has to be – what he or she has to do, give, become – that I cannot help but wonder if some people are just soft and lazy where love is concerned. To watch this movie and see these people falling in love under horrific circumstances was just mind blowing. On the other hand, I suppose that under horrific circumstances would be a great place to bond, share the fear and horror with someone.


    Anyway, if you want to see what I am talking about, watch the film!


    Love, Parran Matt

    www.spellmaker.com

  • Meditation and Focus Exercise Day 7: Who loves me?

    Hello, welcome to Day Seven of our exercise.

    Instructions:  Take a few deep breaths and relax yourself. Stare at the picture below with the thought in mind:  "Who loves me?"   Spend about 3-5 minutes staring at the picture and asking yourself the same question, "Who loves me?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down some of your impressions.  When you are done writing, stare at the picture again and ask yourself the same question, "Who loves me?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down your impressions. Repeat the process one more time.  After your final writing down of your impressions (you should have written something down three separate times), close your notebook and do not go back and read your impressions. Get up and get away from your computer for a few minutes, drink some water, or take a short walk.  Come back tomorrow and do Day Eight. 🙂

    Love,
    Mambo Samantha Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    Wholovesme

  • Meditation and Focus Exercise Day 6: How can I get what I want?

    Hello, welcome to Day Six of our exercise.

    Instructions:  Take a few deep breaths and relax yourself. Stare at the picture below with the thought in mind:  "How can I get what I want?"   Spend about 3-5 minutes staring at the picture and asking yourself the same question, "How can I get what I want?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down some of your impressions.  When you are done writing, stare at the picture again and ask yourself the same question, "How can I get what I want?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down your impressions. Repeat the process one more time.  After your final writing down of your impressions (you should have written something down three separate times), close your notebook and do not go back and read your impressions. Get up and get away from your computer for a few minutes, drink some water, or take a short walk.  Come back tomorrow and do Day Seven. 🙂

    Love,
    Mambo Samantha Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    Howcanihavewhatiwant

  • Hang in there!

     "The greater the difficulty the more glory in surmounting it. Skillful pilots gain their reputation from storms and tempests. " – Epicetus

    Since I have been answering the phone here at our www.spellmaker.com office, I have had the pleasure to speak with many of you. One thing I have noticed is how quickly some people seem ready to throw in the towel at the first sign of spells "not working." I don't see very much of the idea of hanging in there or working through the difficulties.  At the very least, hang in there until the spell work is finished and the processing period is done.  So many people want to give up even before spell work is done! 

    As Mambo always says, "It's called spell WORK for a reason, it's work." 🙂 Just because something is difficult, that doesn't make it time to give up. In fact, have some sense of adventure, of challenge, of the satisfaction of meeting something difficult and beating it. In other words, don't give up so easily!

    Best regards,
    Parran Matt
    www.spellmaker.com

  • Meditation and Focus Exercise Day 5: What do I want?

    Hello, welcome to Day Five of our exercise.

    Instructions:  Take a few deep breaths and relax yourself. Stare at the picture below with the thought in mind:  "What do I want?"   Spend about 3-5 minutes staring at the picture and asking yourself the same question, "What do I want?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down some of your impressions.  When you are done writing, stare at the picture again and ask yourself the same question, "What do I want?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down your impressions. Repeat the process one more time.  After your final writing down of your impressions (you should have written something down three separate times), close your notebook and do not go back and read your impressions. Get up and get away from your computer for a few minutes, drink some water, or take a short walk.  Come back tomorrow and do Day Six. 🙂

    Love,
    Mambo Samantha Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    Whatdoiwant

  • Poem: Destiny is Calling

    Although I am not necessarily one to read or quote a lot of poetry, I thought that this poem could make a lot of sense for some of you.  It is not easy to keep going sometimes, or even to try again if you feel you failed at something.  So, I liked this poem for all of you who feel like you got knocked out and are down for the count!  Get back up.  Try again.  Male or female, we all get knocked out once in awhile! The poem was only credited to someone going by the name of "manlypoetryman" – so that is the best I can do to give credit to the author.

    Love, Parran Matt

    Destiny is Calling…

    Finding Myself at the Place Where:

    Destiny is calling…and I will answer it one more time…

    Re-Inspire my desire…This time I will put it all on the line…

    With Determination…the highest priority on my mind…

    Wishful thinking takes over…I will punch my way out of a bind.

    Driven by my deepest fiber from within…

    I will step back into “the Ring” once again…

    This time…It will not be over…until I say when…

    And go toe to toe with my opposition…a desire of all men.

    When a man is given the Opportunity and inspired by Courage…

    Getting back into the fight as an older man…becomes a rite of passage…

    As with wine…the years behind it…help improve its’ vintage…

    Prepared for the task at hand…I’m ready to start a rampage.

    Every man has to do what he has to do…That’s true…

    Of stamina and endurance…I’m here to tell you…

    Better not throw in the towel…until I am through…

    I will not leave until I do what I have come here to do.

    Overcoming this challenge…shall be my legacy…

    At the Summit’s top…I will be what I must be…

    After taking all that life has dished out at me…

    Then you will ultimately see…That I will have the victory.

    So after struggling…and after so long of not feeling complete…

    Something or Someone will pay for every time I was beat…

    Invincible …I was not down for the count in total defeat…

    Don’t ever count me out…At the place where destiny and determination meet.

    Poem was Inspired by George Foreman's real life. He became the oldest man ever to win a Major Heavyweight Title. He knocked out a 26-year-old Michael Moorer in the 10th round on November 5, 1994. He was 45 years old.(Wikipedia.org)
  • Meditation and Focus Exercise Day 4: What do I have?

    Hello, welcome to Day Four of our exercise.

    Instructions:  Take a few deep breaths and relax yourself. Stare at the picture below with the thought in mind:  "What do I have?"   Spend about 3-5 minutes staring at the picture and asking yourself the same question, "What do I have?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down some of your impressions.  When you are done writing, stare at the picture again and ask yourself the same question, "What do I have?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down your impressions. Repeat the process one more time.  After your final writing down of your impressions (you should have written something down three separate times), close your notebook and do not go back and read your impressions. Get up and get away from your computer for a few minutes, drink some water, or take a short walk.  Come back tomorrow and do Day Five. 🙂

    Love,
    Mambo Samantha Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    Whatdoihave

  • Meditation and Focus Exercise Day 3: How can I become who I want to be?

    Hello, welcome to Day Three of our exercise.

    Instructions:  Take a few deep breaths and relax yourself. Stare at the picture below with the thought in mind:  "How can I become who I want to be?"   Spend about 3-5 minutes staring at the picture and asking yourself the same question, "How can I become who I want to be?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down some of your impressions.  When you are done writing, stare at the picture again and ask yourself the same question, "How can I become who I want to be?" After about 3-5 minutes, write down your impressions. Repeat the process one more time.  After your final writing down of your impressions (you should have written something down three separate times), close your notebook and do not go back and read your impressions. Get up and get away from your computer for a few minutes, drink some water, or take a short walk.  Come back tomorrow and do Day Four 🙂

    Love,
    Mambo Samantha Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    Howcanibecomewho