• Navaho chant

    Mambo Sam sent me this prayer a while back and it has become very special to me. I spent a few minutes each day saying it as I got up in the mornings, and thought a bit about what it meant to me as I was driving to work. A few minutes each day made such a big difference in my life, in my perspective about things. Try it and see! I hope it is as helpful to you as it has been for me.

    Light and Love

    Bridget

    Navaho chant

    House made of dawn.

    House made of evening light.

    House made of the dark cloud.

    House made of male rain.

    House made of dark mist.

    House made of female rain.

    House made of pollen.

    House made of grasshoppers.

    Dark cloud is at the door.

    The trail out of it is dark cloud.

    The zigzag lightning stands high upon it.

    An offering I make.

    Restore my feet for me.

    Restore my legs for me.

    Restore my body for me.

    Restore my mind for me.

    Restore my voice for me.

    This very day take out your spell for me.

    Happily I recover.

    Happily my interior becomes cool.

    Happily I go forth.

    My interior feeling cool, may I walk.

    No longer sore, may I walk.

    Impervious to pain, may I walk.

    With lively feelings may I walk.

    As it used to be long ago, may I walk.

    Happily may I walk.

    Happily, with abundant dark clouds, may I walk.

    Happily, with abundant showers, may I walk.

    Happily, with abundant plants, may I walk.

    Happily, on a trail of pollen, may I walk.

    Happily may I walk.

    Being as it used to be long ago, may I walk.

    May it be beautiful before me.

    May it be beautiful behind me.

    May it be beautiful below me.

    May it be beautiful above me.

    May it be beautiful all around me.

    In beauty it is finished.

    In beauty it is finished.

    Morningprayer

  • Partial Castings – what are they?

    Hi All –

    I often get emails from clients with confined living arrangements, have a lack of privacy, or privacy only on certain days of the week, who would like very much to do a dual casting, but simply cant, or are severely limited in what they can do. For these folks, we often recommend something called a "partial casting".

    If someone finds that they lack the privacy or time to do a complete kit, it is better to do at least part of it (whether they have Mambo Sam work for them or not) then to not do any of it. This is always the case, there are no exceptions. If they can work at least a little bit on their case, it is always to their benefit. Their energy and their intent towards their goal are very important in the spell work. They can go through the kit and see if they can do an abbreviated version of it. For instance, if it has bath crystals – can that part be done? Could they burn the candles for less time? (If they can burn them for three minutes rather than the 20 minutes or so – that would be better than not doing it at all.) Could the daily offering be left? Could they chant with the gris-gris bag a few minutes a day? Could they use the oils on yourself or the intended person? Could they sprinkle the herbs in an advantageous place (where the intended might walk on them)?

    If they can have Mambo Sam work on it wit them and they can complete at least some of the steps, then it will be a much stronger spell casting.. Spending a few minutes a day doing some of the steps would be better than not doing it at all. Obviously, Mambo Sam does offer solo spell casting, but she is interested in you getting the best possible result by participating in your own case. If at all possible, if you are doing an "abbreviated" version of the kit – you should make the daily offering — a cookie under a tree – put there with reverence and purity of intent is acceptable! In cases where you are doing an abbreviated version of the kit, it is probably a good idea to have Mambo Sam work with you for more effectiveness.

    Sometimes people ask me exactly what items from the kit they should use for their partial work/abbreviated version (both terms are used interchangeably) and the answer is that because everybody’s situation is different as to exactly how much privacy you have, then it’s up to the client  to look through the kit and figure out which items they  feel they can use.

    Hope this makes sense 🙂 Basically, any energy someone can put forth on their own behalf is helpful to their case!  Yes, there are situations where a client absolutely can not do any work at home on their own behalf — and it is for those folks that Mambo Sam offers the solo casting option. But if you can do even a little of your spellkit on your own, it will only help your case along.

    If you have any questions please feel free to email me at bridget@spellmaker.com

    Light and Love

    Bridget

  • Our Potions — Uses and More!

    The first and most common use of the potions is to wear them! Remember : these are very potent potions and only a drop or two is necessary to wear. Placing the potion on your skin at pulse points (those points where you can feel your pulse – such as inner wrist, behind the ear, inner elbow, behind the knees, etc.) are the best places to wear them. We use only the purest, finest natural ingredients when in them, but if you are sensitive to them being on your skin  another option is to put a few drop on a ball of cotton and put that in your pocket or bra, or putting the potion on something you are wearing. Using the potion when you are going into a situation that is appropriate for the potion you are using is most efficient. In other words, wearing a love potion when you aren’t going to be around anyone that is a potential lover isn’t going to do much good in the love department, BUT I have heard reports of clients wearing our Voodoo Love 999 into meetings and other social situations and have said that people in general were nicer and events went better than expected! A nice side effect to anything!

    Another potential use of potion is to put it on something a person you want to affect with the potion is going to touch or wear. Again, just a drop or two is necessary. Door handles, telephones, remote controls are all good ideas, if you have access to them. I once had a client write to me that she placed a few drops of one of the love potions in her HD’s shoes, and spent the entire day focusing on him walking back to her! Another client wrote and told me about covering the toilet handle at her HD’s place with potion! The possibilities are endless J

    Put the potion on a letter or card you are sending someone you want to  affect.

    Drop a couple of drops of potion where someone you want to affect with the potion will walk through it.

    Rub the potion on candles you are going to burn that are appropriate to your situation. In my last blog I covered ways to use potions with candle magick kits and on the candles in the love doll kits.

    Drop a couple of drops of potion in your bath or someone else’s. These potions make great spiritual bath oils!  Using just a capful of these potions while you soak in a bath will imbue your whole body with whatever purpose you are working on – love, luck, etc.  Time some alone time in the bath soaking in the essence of what it is that you want to accomplish.  To use:  Shower or bathe first so that you are already clean.   Run clean bathwater for yourself and put about a capful of your chosen potion in the bath water. Soak while focusing on your desires.  Don’t rinse the potion off, try to air dry after this bath, and enjoy a great magickal day!

    Use a few drops of potion in some pure, unscented baby oil or mineral oil to give a massage to someone (or yourself!) DON’T mix the potion with a scented oil.

    And, of course, make up your own ways to use the potion! Just always remember to keep your goal in mind when using the potion and you can’t go wrong!

    You can see our full line of potions here at http://www.spellmaker.com/bayou.htm

    Have  fun!

    Light and Love

    Bridget

    Cauldron

  • Potions vs. Oils

    I often get emails from clients asking about our potions. I am hoping in the next few blogs to explain a little about these.

    Sometimes people ask if using one of our potions on their candles make them much stronger. The potions ARE much stronger than the regular oils. The potions are based on very strong magickal principles. As to HOW much stronger (four times, ten times, fifty times stronger), I don’t really think there is any way to know that. But obvious wisdom says that if you use a product that is naturally stronger, you are upping the strength of the candle. Again, usage is based on your perception of your situation – unless you are advised to do so by Mambo Sam or your caseworker. When they recommend a strategy such as this, they have a good reason for it – they are either being guided, or have seen a good result in a similar situation. Many times, we recommend to other clients what we have seen work for a client in a similar situation. Certainly we want everyone to benefit from everyone else’s success!

    So, which potion would be appropriate for which candles? First and foremost, be sure to check with your caseworker before ordering! But in general, the Voodoo Love 999 (which is an EXCELLENT all around love potion to have on hand – and it smells GREAT, too) can be used on any pink or red image candles. The Voodoo Love 999 is also the potion we frequently recommend using on the straight candles in the Love Doll kits. Using the potion in this way can help boost the power of your love doll session 😉 

    For banishing work, the I Repel Thee potion is good for using on brown image candles. The Hex O Gram potion is good for these candles as well…..but be VERY VERY careful with this one ! Be sure to wear gloves when you handle it and be very careful not to spill any.

    Don’t mix potions on the same candle – by that I mean, if you start using a candle with Voodoo Love 999, then use that potion each time you use that candle until it is completed. Use the herbs that come with the candle as per the general candle instructions after applying the potion.

    Our potions can be found at www.SPELLMAKER.com/bayou.htm

    Good Luck and more candle power to you!

    Light and Love

    Bridget

    Potion

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  • Convention 2007 News and Updates!

    We here at www.SPELLMAKER.com are in full swing preparing for the Albuquerque Voodoo Convention here in beautiful Albuquerque, New Mexico, October 26-29, 2007. 

    There is still plenty of time to register and get here for this amazing event!  Come on, you can do it! It really will be worth your while.  You can meet with me, Mambo, in a personal setting.  I will teach things at the convention that I do not feel comfortable in teaching over the internet.  Plus we will have fun – eat, drink and be merry while we are learning.

    Your confidentiality is assured.  No pictures will be taken that will show anyone’s face at the convention (unless they give explicit permission).  Name tags will have whatever name YOU want on them.  No one has to know who you are, where you came from, or what you do for a living.  All convention goers will be instructed to not pry into each other’s lives.  This will be a nuturing, safe, and comfortable environment in which all may learn.

    We will have workshops, a few guest speakers, and lots of personal attention from yours truly, Mambo Sam!  I will do special blessings and cleansings on each participant throughout the weekend. Additionally, there is still time to be on the list to have a personal one-on-one session with me at a designated time during the conference.  You will have a personal appointment with me.

    If you need a roommate, once you register you can join the Convention forum and hopefully find someone.  The hotel is giving a great room rate and there are hotels nearby to the one chosen for the conference.  You can get all the information by clicking here.

    I can’t wait to see you there!

  • How to Lose a Man – Part I

    Hello everyone.  As you know I am Mambo Sam’s husband and co-owner of our business, www.spellmaker.com.  Right now I am the lone "male voice" of our Spellmaker family!  Now that is not a bad position to be in, believe me.  The ladies of Spellmaker are a mighty force to be reckoned with!

    Over the years, many times in speaking with our female clients, I see things that they could really avoid doing.  Sometimes the lady is in a troubled relationship with no clue that some of the trouble is "her."  (Now don’t get all upset with me just yet.  I do promise to later on address the issue of what "he" does to lose his relationship with you!  Believe me, I definitely see two sides to every story.  I am very much a "what is good for the goose is good for the gander" type of guy.)

    But the truth is that 75% of our clients are women – wonderful and beautiful and good women.  But the things I see some of them doing really give me cause to pause. So I am going to share with you Part I of "How to Lose a Man."  (But pay attention, men, a lot of this can apply to you, too!):

    1. Don’t bother getting to know him. Instead try to immediately turn him into what you think he should be. "Because that will work."  Do you want a puppet or a man?  If you don’t like him just the way he is, don’t be with him.  He is not a "fixer upper."  You wouldn’t want to be viewed that way, don’t do it to him.

    2. Ask his opinion and immediately do the opposite.  If you think you are "involving" him in your life by asking his opinion when you don’t really want it, you are mistaken.  All that happens is that he feels like you don’t value what he has to say.

    3. Rather than sit down and talk "it" out try to manipulate the situation in your favor.  Men do want to talk about whatever it is that is bothering you.  They don’t want to talk about it for hours, but they do want to talk about it.  Being manipulative, conniving, and whiney is unattractive (for either sex!)

    4. Withhold sex when you don’t get your way or for any other controlling reason.  If you use sex as a weapon in  your relationship, then the sexual intimacy in your relationship will cease to be about love and will be about who is controlling whom.

    5. Cheat on him, hide it, and when you get caught find some way to blame it on your man.  "You’re never there for me." 

    6. Always have to be right and when you find out you are right, rub it in his face.

    7. Don’t let him help you with anything, always be the "fiercely independent woman."

    8. Take your female friends’ side against your man and later use that to attack him. "You know what Susie said about you?  I think she might be on to something."  Your man could care less what Susie thinks about his relationship with you!  Leave her out of it.

    9. Play the jealousy game: Go out of your way to make your man jealous and then get angry when he shows it.

    10.  Make sure he knows that he never does anything right. Never be satisfied with what he gets you or does for you.  Be sure to criticize his choices where you are concerned:  "I don’t like daisies."  "That color is all wrong for me."  "I know you meant well, but…."   If he stopped at the convenience store and saw a little bouquet he thought would brighten your day, know that he meant it lovingly.  He was thinking of you even if he didn’t got to the florist and get two dozen of the finest roses. 

    So there’s a start on how to lose a man.  I will definitely post more soon and can’t wait to get started on what we guys do wrong!  😉

  • My space on MySpace.com

    Mambo is turning me into a total techie!  EEE GADS!

    First a blog. Now, I have my very own myspace page. Just a week ago, I hadnt any idea what myspace even was (well, I work alot…) and now I have page. Its kinda fun, now that I have the hang of it. BUT….so far Berkeley is my only friend!  I’m getting a little paranoid. Anyway, if anyone out there is on myspace, stop by my page and sign up to be a friend…..

    http://www.myspace.com/spellmakerbridget

    And if anyone has any tips or tricks about myspace, Im all ears 🙂

    Light and Love

    Bridget

    Heartmandala

  • Chinese Harvest Moon Festival

    Please note:  I first published this page in 2007. 

     The 2013 Harvest Moon Festival will be September 19!

    (Thank you for the reminder, Khouzhan Lucy!)

    It’s a great time to combine this ancient ritual with your own love ritual – such as doing one of the rituals to Erzulie Freda! You could certainly do her special ritual pack that we usually do on Valentine’s Day – that pack is available all year round – or any other ritual you like!

    Harvest Moon Festival Calendar 

    September 19, 2013
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    Hello everyone!  Are any of you familiar with the Chinese Harvest Moon Festival?  I have always been fascinated by this festival, and especially the “love spell” characteristics that some people attribute to it.

    The festival will be celebrated on September 19, 2013.  There is a great Chinese legend (printed below for you) that is honored during the the Harvest Moon phase every year.  It is also thought that single women can find their “soulmate” by eating Chinese Moon Cakes (recipe below), honoring the moon and its light, and  asking for their love to be brought to them!  One woman’s account is reprinted below, also, for you.

    Of course, as a Vodouisant, I always want to bring some Vodou into the mix when doing any ritual.  I could certainly see doing Erzulie’s Pink Bath or some Pink Image Candles on the night of the harvest moon, then eating the moon cakes while enjoying the harvest moon and petitioning for your lover to come to you!  It would also be a great day to be starting, ending, or be in the middle of any love spell work!

    At any rate, it is a great tradition and I wanted to share it with you all in case you wanted to work some magick on that special day.  Oh and please notice when you get to the lady’s account of her experience with the Chinese Harvest Moon Festival, she was determined to change the “fate” she was given in a reading! Read on and enjoy!

    THE CHINESE LEGEND

    I. The Lady – Chang Er 

    The time of this story is around 2170 B.C. The earth once had ten suns circling over it, each took its turn to illuminate to the earth. But one day all ten suns appeared together, scorching the earth with their heat. The earth was saved by a strong and tyrannical archer Hou Yi. He succeeded in shooting down nine of the suns. One day, Hou Yi stole the elixir of life from a goddess. However his beautiful wife Chang Er drank the elixir of life in order to save the people from her husband’s tyrannical rule. After drinking it, she found herself floating and flew to the moon. Hou Yi loved his divinely beautiful wife so much, he didn’t shoot down the moon.““““““““““““““““

     

    II. The Man – Wu Kang

    Wu Kang was a shiftless fellow who changed apprenticeships all the time. One day he decided that he wanted to be an immortal. Wu Kang then went to live in the mountains where he importuned an immortal to teach him. First the immortal taught him about the herbs used to cure sickness, but after three days his characteristic restlessness returned and he asked the immortal to teach him something else. So the immortal to teach him chess, but after a short while Wu Kang’s enthusiasm again waned. Then Wu Kang was given the books of immortality to study. Of course, Wu Kang became bored within a few days, and asked if they could travel to some new and exciting place. Angered with Wu Kang’s impatience, the master banished Wu Kang to the Moon Palace telling him that he must cut down a huge cassia tree before he could return to earth. Though Wu Kang chopped day and night, the magical tree restored itself with each blow, and thus he is up there chopping still.

     

    III. The Hare – Jade Rabbit

    In this legend, three fairy sages transformed themselves into pitiful old men and begged for something to eat from a fox, a monkey and a rabbit. The fox and the monkey both had food to give to the old men, but the rabbit, empty-handed, offered his own flesh instead, jumping into a blazing fire to cook himself. The sages were so touched by the rabbit’s sacrifice that they let him live in the Moon Palace where he became the “Jade Rabbit.”

     

    IV. The Cake – Moon Cake

    During the Yuan dynasty (A.D.1280-1368) China was ruled by the Mongolian people. Leaders from the preceding Sung dynasty (A.D.960-1280) were unhappy at submitting to foreign rule, and set how to coordinate the rebellion without it being discovered. The leaders of the rebellion, knowing that the Moon Festival was drawing near, ordered the making of special cakes. Backed into each moon cake was a message with the outline of the attack. On the night of the Moon Festival, the rebels successfully attacked and overthrew the government. What followed was the establishment of the Ming dynasty (A.D. 1368-1644). Today, moon cakes

     

    A Recipe for Easy Chinese Moon Cakes

     Makes 24

    Moon cakes that come from China are far fancier than this recipe will make, often with impressions of chinese letters on them as in the picture below, but you can make your own and not worry so much about how they look, but WHY you are making them.  There are also places that you can order them to be delivered to you if you want more “authentic looking” ones.  But really, making them, especially for magickal purposes, would be wonderful and would imbue them with your intentions!

    Mooncakes1 

    Mooncakes2 

    A former Chinese resident says, “Moon cakes are also eaten at the Moon Festival which falls in September. I lived in mainland China for two years and enjoyed the many varieties of moon cakes (not just filled with red bean paste – some had hard-boiled eggs in them, some a mixture of fruit and nuts, some lotus paste, etc.).”   

    Ingredients:

    1/4 cup sugar

    2 egg yolks

    1/2 cup salted butter

    1 cup all-purpose flour

    1 cup strawberry (or your favorite) jam (traditionally red bean paste is used so if you want a more authentic version, you can use a can of red bean paste easily found in Oriental food markets, instead of the jam).  Also making the cookies with just the imprint and putting a half of a boiled egg in them is a traditional way to do this with the egg being a representation of the moon, life, etc.

    Preheat the oven to 375 degrees.

    Combine the butter, sugar and 1 egg yolk and stir. Mix in the flour. Form the dough into one large ball and wrap it in plastic wrap.  Refrigerate dough for half an hour. Unwrap the chilled dough and form small balls in the palms of your hand. Make a hole with your thumb  in the center of each mooncake and fill with about half a teaspoon of jam. Brush each cake with the other beaten egg yolk and place on a cookie sheet.  Bake for about 20 minutes or just until the outside edges are slightly brown.

    Have fun!

               One Woman’s Account of her Chinese Harvest Moon Festival Experience

    “My story is one of Intention and the belief that you can change your life!!! On my 47th birthday I received an Ayurvedic Astrology reading of my life Past, Present and Future as a gift. I anxiously read the reading. As I read my past, it was exact, it said when my dad died, it told of the major influence he was in my life, and it spoke of my success and the life changes I had gone through. Do to its accuracy, and me still being a single woman, I quickly scanned forward to see what would happen in my love life. I read with great anticipation, until to my dismay, it stated that I would never marry. I thought that this could not be true. Because the reading came with three follow up questions, I quickly emailed the Himalayan Mountains to ask:
    What do you mean I am not getting married?
    If there were a chance for me to get married when would it be?
    Where would I meet him?

    Several days later I received my response. The Indian Seer said that first, Should I never marry I should consider myself the LUCKY one for I will only have one disappointment in my life and that would be that I never marry. Everyone else would have several disappointments and then the destined separation due to death or divorce. He went on to say that there would be a small window of opportunity for marriage from September 28th, 2004 to May 31st 2005. He said that I would meet him in the South West.

    After receiving this I was hopeful but confused. It was August 17th, 2004 and September 28th was very soon, I did not want to miss the window of opportunity. Southwest, did they mean SouthWest of where I am (Scottsdale AZ) or southwest of were I was born (Commack, NY). Am I in the Southwest? Or do I need to head to San Diego or Hawaii?

    While I was researching vacation plans, I received an email from a fung shui web site. This email told the tale of the Chinese Harvest Moon Festival. It explained that the Harvest Moon Festival for that year (2004) would be on September 28th. It further went on to explain that The Chinese belief is that the man in the moon Yue-lao also known as the “Marriage Maker” would tie an invisible red string from your ankle to the ankle of your betrothed and that no matter where in the world you were you would find each other if you do 3 things on the night of the Chinese Harvest Moon. You needed to drink green tea, eat Chinese moon cakes and listen to music and put out the intentions you have for your mate. It seemed like a coincidence that the date of September 28th showed up twice, it was the date of the festival and it was the date of the start of my window of opportunity. So, I decided I was going to celebrate the Harvest Moon Festival. I began by researching Moon Cakes and where I would buy them. When I looked them up they looked disgusting, a Sweet paste with hard boiled egg yolks inside. I thought it looked nasty, but I wanted to find the right man, my soul mate. I found a place in China town in NYC that would overnight them fresh to me. I then solidified my intention for what I wanted in a man: My intention was for a Wonderful, loving, caring, giving, affectionate, faithful, romantic supportive husband. This became my mantra.

    Determined to Change my future I realized that I needed to commit and follow through with my Harvest Moon Festival celebration to attract the right man for me. I believed that to do this, one must share their intentions with others, this makes you commit to the follow through. So, the next day I went to work and was sharing the story of Yue-lao with every single woman I could find and tell them about the importance of that day.

    As I shared with Laurie a woman who worked for me, a tall Asian man named Shan who worked down in accounting walked past the counter. I had seen him past the desk on many occasions, but we never really spoke more then, Hi, Goodbye and you’re leaving already. I decided to ask him if he had ever had a moon cake. He asked why I wanted to know and I told him the legend of Yue-lao, and explained that I was going to follow the tradition, but that moon cakes looked disgusting. He told me that he loves moon cakes. That night as I ordered my moon cakes, I decided that I would order a container for Shan as well. After the Moon cakes arrived, I saw Shan and let him know that I had something for him. I gave him the moon cakes and as the harvest moon festival approached, I prepared myself to drink the tea, listen to music, eat my moon cakes and put out the intention for the man I was to marry. I did everything I should on the night of the Moon Festival, however, I was so disappointed because it was very overcast in phoenix that night and I could not see the moon. After going outside and drinking the tea and eating my moon pie I came back into my bedroom to listen to music and put out my intention. As I disappointingly walked back into the room, I looked at the picture above my bed only to realize that the Moon was in my room the whole time, above my bed is a large picture with Chinese writing and a woman sitting on the moon. I sat backed looked at the picture and put out my intentions

    The day after the moon festival, Shan gave me an envelope with a Thank You card and three other envelopes in it. Each envelope was typed with a “Do Not Open Until” and a date on it. One was do not open until October1st, the next was Do Not Open till November 1st and the third, Do not open until Dec 1st. Being somewhat superstitious, I waited till the first of each month to open each envelope. On October 1st I opened the first one. In it was a poem from Shan that basically said I know we will be good friends and a gift certificate for a one pound box of chocolates. From October thru November, Shan and I continued with our Hi and Good Bye routine. During that month an intuit, who worked for me, told me that I would meet the man for me and that he was a cross between Pierce Brosnon and Yanni. He described him as Spanish Irish with green eyes.

    November 1st came and I opened the next envelope, this time there was another poem which basically said that he knew we would make a difference in each others life, and another gift certificate for a one pound box of chocolates. I thanked him again, and the next few weeks continued with hi and Good bye until November 18th, when Shan asked me what I did on my day off. When I told him I went out for sushi with two people we worked with to celebrate their birthdays, he said “I like Sushi, maybe we could go out some night for sushi, because going out for sushi is not something you should do by yourself”. I said sure and we set the Tuesday before Thanksgiving as the day to go out.
    We went to dinner, and talked about work. I didn’t consider it a date I just thought of it as 2 co workers going out for dinner. After dinner, Shan walked me to the car and asked if I would like to go to a movie on Thanksgiving. I declined because I had a lot of company coming over for thanksgiving dinner. He looked so sad and had puppy dog eyes, so I added that I could do it on Friday if he wanted. He agreed and on Friday we went to the movies. After the movies, we went for coffee; Shan expressed his interest in me. I told him that he was a really nice guy, but that he wasn’t the man for me. I
    explained that this intuit had told me I would meet a man, but that he was Spanish Irish a cross between Yanni and Pierce Brosnon and had green eyes, and lets face it that isn’t you I went on to say your Chinese and have brown eyes. Ever the optimist, Shan said I think my great grandmother was Irish, and “I am the right man for you, you just do not know it yet”. He proceeded to tell me that he would continue to come after me until I gave him a firm NO. The next day Shan proceeded to send me love poems with pictures and music daily.

    December 1st came and I opened the last card. Again there was a certificate for a one pound box of chocolates and a poem. The essence of this poem was that I was the woman for him
    . By the middle of December I had gone to Shan’s house. As I went to ring the doorbell, I saw 3 butterflies over the doorbell. Butterflies are my icon, I always say that the butterfly will lead me to where I need to be. I knew that night that Shan was the man for me. By the end of December we were discussing marriage, we got engaged on February 14th 2005 and we Wed in Maui on May 27th 2005. Right before the May
    31st deadline.

    When I was younger (up until 47) I said I wouldn’t get married unless I received at least a 5 cart diamond ring, then I learned that according to Vedic astrology diamonds were not good for me energetically. When I got engaged, there were no stones just a gold band and I have never taken it off. I value it with all my heart.

    Shan is the man of my intentions. He is loving, caring giving affectionate faithful, romantic, supportive and my husband. In May it will be two years and I have the best man in the world who sends me love notes daily. He has brought back my trust, the little girl in me and has opened up a whole new balanced world for me. After we married, I told Shan what I asked God for in a man and how he fulfilled my dreams. Shan told me that he also asked God for the woman he desired. When I asked him what he asked for he said a woman with a good heart that was all.

    He is Younger, Asian, Christian, Coworker and not wealthy, everything I thought I wasn’t looking for, Everything I avoided and Yet he is the PERFECT man for me. Like he said “I was looking for him and I just I did not know it”

    So Woman and men, Open your hearts, love yourself, unload the baggage and be open to the infinite possibilities of Love

    PS This year the Harvest Moon is on September 22nd, so ladies get your green tea and chinese moon cakes ready!! Get your single girlfriends together and have a party.”

  • The Care and Feeding of Gris Gris Bags

    Hi ! So, you have placed an order, gotten your spell kit,  put serious time and energy into your casting and now have this wonderful little spell bag that you have made. How long you actually need to use the gris gris bag depends on your situation. Personally, I have on occasion, worn a hole right thru the bag. Hopefully that wont happen to you! But below, please find a few pointers on how to keep your gris gris bags clean, safe, organized, and hopefully hole-free.

    Have a separate small glass jar for each bag. This can be any small jar, you don’t have to go out and buy anything special. Jam jars, canning jars, even mustard jars are fine. Soak the jar to get the label off. Wash the jar very thoroughly and very clean, including the lid.  In the jar you can store the gris gris bag along with a piece of paper that has the incantation for that particular bag. Know how sometimes it can be easy to mix up bags which are the same color? Keeping each bag separate with its specific incantation can help cut down on the confusion.

    Small taffeta favor bags can keep you from wearing your gris gris bag out! These bags are easy to find in the wedding/shower section of most craft stores. These come in different sizes and colors. Get a color that is appropriate for your gris gris bags if you can. Red or pink for love spell bags. Green for money/luck spell bags. When in doubt, white will always work fine. When the taffeta bag starts getting ratty or dirty – replace it! This will help keep your gris gris bag clean and from getting worn and torn.

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