Hello everyone! Quite often many of our clients, at some point during their love spell casting, find out things regarding the person they are working on. A great deal of the time these things may seem like "bad" or "undesirable" things. However, most of the time these things are found out because you need to know.
In some cases you find out that there is another person involved that you didn’t know about, sometimes it is something about the person’s past that may be what is keeping them from you; there can be many, many things that one finds out.
For most people, finding out these things sends them into a tailspin. Suddenly there is a lot of negative thinking and worry that the spells aren’t working, or that they aren’t going to get what they want, etc., etc., etc. But the truth is that most often you NEED to know these things. Our spell work is not meant to sweep problems under the rug and give you the illusion that everything is okay and you are getting together with the person. Our spell work is meant to seek out and bring to light what the REAL problems are so that you can deal with them and stand a real chance of being with the person.
Many of you have often heard me say that "spell work brings the truth to light whether you want it to or not." It is the absolute truth. Of course none of us wants to hear bad news or negative things, especially in regards to our relationships. But if we are working on a difficult relationship with our spell work, then it is imperative to know what the real problems and challenges are. How you deal with the knowledge is most important.
What seems like "negative news" is often Les Lois (the spirits of the Vodou religion) letting you know that "this" is something you need to work on; they are showing you the heart of the challenges of your relationship and letting you know that you still need to work on this subject. Going downhill and getting depressed and freaking out at these things really isn’t going to help. Figuring them into your spell work and adjunct work such as candle magick work, love doll work, etc. IS the thing to do with any kind of information that you get. So when information is brought to you about the person you are working your magick on, think about why you are getting it!
Now don’t misunderstand me, I am completely empathetic to the fact that sometimes it just plain old hurts to find out things that you didn’t know about your intended partner. I am not saying that you aren’t going to sad or upset. But unless it is something horrible like he is a serial killer or pedophile (in which case you are being brought that information so that you can RUN AWAY as fast as you can), then you should use that information to properly configure your spell work to account for what you have learned. Try as best you can to channel all that hurt and upset into something positive such as working on the situation.
Nobody likes to hear bad news, but just try to remember that sometimes it isn’t bad news, it is just information that you need to get your case on track. 🙂
Love, Mambo Sam