Tag: voodoo spells

  • Are You a Man Hater?

    Greetings, everyone!

    Now some of you are already thinking, “Mambo, what the heck kind of question is that? Of course I am not a man hater. I am doing spell work on the man I love and want to be with!”


    Yeah, well, guess what, that doesn’t keep you from being a man hater and it can send you down a path of very unsuccessful spell work! I am just really surprised at the things I hear coming from my female clients some time, “What else can you expect, all men are pigs” – “well, he is a man so he is going to cheat” – “he broke my heart, but that’s what men do” – and the words go on and on, usually followed by, “but I love him.”


    Really? If you are in the habit of generally trash talking men and can immediately tell me all of their faults,their nasty habits, then followed by the concession that you still want one, you are a man hater. Sure, you are in in love with a man, but that is not because you think he is wonderful, charming, witty, and handsome. It is because he happens to be a man and you love him because you think you are supposed to be with a man and don’t want to be alone. He isn’t perfect, but you can deal with his imperfections, especially if you have your girlfriends to trash talk with.


    Yes, brutal, I know. But I have a point: Even if you are not a man hater, if you are falling into the trap of constantly criticizing your desired man, thinking bad thoughts about him, hating everything that he has done to you, are you really going to be successful in doing your spell work? How can you be when there is so much hurt, resentment, and anger in your heart?


    I know we have talked about this before, that love spell work, by its very nature, must come from love! However, in speaking with some of you over the last couple of weeks, I am concerned that there is a trend towards general man bashing.


    So,ladies, I hope that you can find it in your hearts to stop this behavior if you are guilty of it. Yes, we all need to vent. We all need to get things off our chests. However, try to keep it to a minimum. If you have friends that you speak with, when the conversation turns to man bashing, try to gracefully extricate yourselves.


    Yes, we all have been hurt. We all have a “he was a bad man” story. However, remember that the more energy you put into criticizing men, the less likely you are to actually end up with a good one. I have found throughout the years that the women I have known who complained, harped, and went on and on about how terrible men had treated them continually found themselves with men who treated them terribly.


    So forgive those men who have hurt you and move forward in your life. Celebrate the man you want and bring forward in your mind and heart all of his good qualities!


    Love, light, and peace,

    Mambo Samantha Corfield

    www.spellmaker.com

  • Good Friday in New Mexico

    Hello everyone! I know many of you have heard me speak of the church here in New Mexico, Santuario de Chimayo. This little church, built in the 1800’s, sits high in the New Mexico mountains and has been nicknamed “the Lourdes of America” due to the many documented healings that have taken place there.


    There is a tradition here of the faithful walking up the mountain to the Santuario from as far as 100 miles away! This happens every Good Friday here in New Mexico with different families along the route of the pilgrimage opening their homes to the faithful who walk. There are also re-enactments of different religious events and lots of volunteers to help those who walk.


    I found an article with pictures that I thought you all might enjoy:
    Click here for article.


    Please enjoy!


    Love,

    Mambo Sam

  • Erzulie’s Oil and Incense!

    Greetings everyone!  🙂  Hope you are having a beautiful Wednesday!



    Of course as most of you know, we did our wonderful Valentine’s Ritual to the beautiful Vodou love goddess, Erzulie Freda. We love doing this ritual every year for everyone!


    This year was a little bit different in that we offered a special one-day ritual pack that you could do at home when we did the ritual here at the office. That ritual pack is still available, by the way, because it is the kind of ritual you could do anytime!


    MANY of you asked about the oil and incense that was included in that ritual pack and asked if we would carry it separately. Although it was originally our intention just to have it for the ritual pack, since so many of you asked, we are now offering it separately.


    The Erzulie’s Love Apple™ Incense was a huge hit with all of you! 🙂 It is really wonderful and the smell is just divine. So we are now including it with our other incense offerings. Right now, it is available just on the Erzulie Freda Page, but we will be putting on the other pages soon.


    The Erzulie’s All that Glitters™ Love Oil was a great hit with you, too. Many of you have asked if you could use it with your Voodoo Sex Magick products that we are now offering. Yes, you can, and you can also use the Erzulie’s incense with your sex magick.


    If you are confused on how to use these products (or any other product, for that matter), please talk to your caseworker!


    Love, light, and peace,

    Mambo Sam

  • What Does Spring Mean to You?

    Happy Monday, everyone!

    Another spring is upon us! What does that mean for you? 🙂 (And that is besides sneezing, runny nose, and itchy eyes! LOL.)


    I love spring and for me it always mean “renewal.” I try to think of new ways to look at things – where can I seek a fresh perspective on an old problem? Are there projects that I abandoned and might still be worthy of finishing? What about my attitude? Might I need an attitude adjustment coming out of the winter and into the spring sunshine?


    This is just such a wonderful time to think about renewal, rebirth, cleansing, getting a fresh start, etc. Sometimes this is a great time to get a “fresh start” even on something that you have been working on for a long time!!


    For instance, have you been doing spell work on a particular subject for what seems like a really long time? Sometimes we begin to lose perspective on that subject because we have been working at it for so long. We may have been doing so much work on it that we are now just going through the motions of the work! That is something to be on the look out for!!!


    If you have been doing your spell work for quite awhile now and you aren’t quite where you want to be, I suggest taking a little break from your work! Unless you are in the middle of one of the Creole Voodoo™ spell kits that you have to do nine days in a row with, it isn’t a bad idea sometimes to take a little break!


    For some people, just taking a few days off of working on that particular goal can bring about fresh perspective, renewed energy, etc. It can be helpful during that break to perhaps do a little bit of work on yourself – some cleansing with something such as the Milk of Damballah™ white bath, white male or female candles,, etc. can renew your spirit, resolve, and vigor greatly!!!


    It is just as important to keep yourself fresh and renewed in your spell work as it is to continue to work towards your goal. If you are worn out and feeling sort of “autumnal” – perhaps doing some spring cleaning on your spirit might be just the thing to shake your energy and your case up!


    Love, light, peace, and Happy Spring,

    Mambo Sam
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  • Feed Hungry Children – Great American Bake Sale

    Hello everyone!  In the spirit of St. Joseph's Day (see yesterday's post, please), I would like to bring to your attention, the Great American Bake Sale!  This is a really cool way to help feed hungry children.

    I found out about this on the Food Channel Network and checked into it.  The set up for this is really great in that you sign up to hold a bake sale in your area and the proceeds will benefit community programs that feed children.  But what is really great is that you can also sign up to hold a "virtual bake sale."  That is such a great idea, isn't it??  Most people may not have the time to actually put together a bake sale and host it in their community.  However, if you do the virtual bake sale, the Great American Bake Sale website helps you build your own little web page and offers a function where you can email your friends and family and ask them to contribute to your virtual bake sale. 

    If you think about it, even if someone can just contribute a dollar or two to your virtual bake sale, all those dollars add up!

    If you can host a bake sale in your community, or even host a virtual bake sale, you can offer that as a service to Les Lois.  Remember especially the lwa such as Erzulie Freda, Maman Brigitte, Baron Samedi, Papa Loko, Erzulie Dantor, Ayida Ouedo, Ayizan, and others are very concerned with the welfare and protection of children.  Doing any kind of participation in a program such as this can certainly also be a service to our beloved lwa while making a difference in American communities where hunger in children is a huge problem.  We have a tendency to think that hungry children just exist in third world countries where it "isn't our problem." 

    But if as Americans, we think that all American children are well fed and well taken care of, I am sorry to say that we are wrong.  Thousands of American children go to bed hungry and homeless every night.  I was appalled to hear that right here in Albuquerque, New Mexico (and we are not a huge city), they estimate 4,500 children to be homeless right now!!!  It is unfathomable to me that we have ONE homeless child in America, but the statistics are both staggering and alarming.  Participation in a program such as Great American Bake sale can help.  Don't be fooled into thinking that you are "just one person" and cannot help!  This particular organization has a set up to allow everyone to do something in an easy and pretty quick way!  🙂

    I am working on setting up our Sheer Goddess Great American Bake Sale page and I urge each of you to do the same.  It only takes a few minutes, it doesn't cost anything to participate (especially if you choose to do the virtual bake sale option  – then it will only cost you some of your time), and the rewards of your participation will feed a child.  Light up some candles, call upon your favorite lwa, and tell them what you are doing as a service to them and your fellow human beings.  :-)  

    If you cannot participate, I will be publicizing our Great American Bake Sale page and taking donations for a virtual bake sale over the next couple of days.  :-)  Like I said, even if you can only donate a dollar or two, it will add up!  As for my local gals and guys - Matt, Berkeley, Debie, Travis, Eshita, Eileen, Cindy, Darla, Jeanne, Ronda…and whomever I forgot,  you know who you are – haha – we WILL be doing a real bake sale coming up soon!  So start getting your recipes on! 

    Love, Mambo Sam

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  • What Do We Deserve?

    Hello everyone!
    What do we "deserve?" The dictionary definition of "deserve" goes like this:
    To earn by service; to be worthy of (something due, either good or evil); to merit; to be entitled to; as, the laborer deserves his wages; a work of value deserves praise. To serve; to treat; to benefit. To be worthy of recompense; — usually with ill or with well.

    Many times clients tell me that they "deserve" something; to be treated better by their partner, to have a better life, to have more money, etc. I recently asked a client why they felt that they deserved what they were asking me to help them obtain. I only asked the question because I am hearing a LOT lately about what people think they deserve!

    I have clients tell me, "I was a good mother to my children, now I deserve some happiness in my life." Now this one always give me cause to pause. If you decided to have children, shouldn't you be a good mother?? Does being a good mother cause you to "deserve" some sort of reward for that? Or is being a good mother part of the idea of having children? Are the children the reward? Do you deserve "more" because you were a good mother? Now don't get me wrong, I am not saying one does or does not deserve something because of being a good mother. I am actually asking you, my readers, to weigh in on this!

    Another thing I hear is, "I was a good wife to my husband. He left me anyway and now I deserve something better." So again, I feel like, well, if you are going to be a wife, should you not be a good one? Does your being a good wife mean you now deserve something better?

    Then there is the, "I am a good person, I deserve good things in my life." Okay… so you are a decent human being. Shouldn't you be? Really, isn't it up to all of us to be, at the very least, a decent human being? Should there be a decent human being award? Now if by being a good person you mean you do works of charity, help the homeless and poor, and give freely of your time to the assistance of others, then, yes, maybe there is a merit badge for that! Maybe you are more "deserving" than someone who doesn't do those things. But if you are just sitting around, living your life, minding your own business, and not harming anyone else, I am not sure that means you "deserve" more than another "good person" who happens to be starving to death in Africa.

    By the beginning of the definition of "deserve" above, to "earn by service" who amongst us is "deserving?" Should we be "earning" what we "deserve?" How do we earn it? I didn't say I had answers to these questions, maybe I just have questions! 😉

    I do know that it is really starting to make me uneasy how many people lately are telling me what they deserve. When I ask them why, they generally get pissed off at me, so I am thinking that is probably not the best approach. 🙂 But I am truly curious about the sense of entitlement some people seem to have; like the world owes them something: The mother who was good to her children (so was raising the children so horrible that she now deserves a reward for it?); the spouse who was good, etc. Because we went through tough times, does that mean we are now somehow entitled to a reward? Was our "tough time" worse than someone else's? IS there a reward for tough times?

    I DO get that we are all filled with books and talk shows and self-help gurus telling us how to feel good about our own self-worth, how to manifest our destiny, how to think positively about ourselves and our goals. But does that mean we necessarily "deserve" them OR are we in some way supposed to earn that which we think we deserve?

    Now, most of you are working on spell work from us, and we here at Spellmaker always want you to reach your goal! Most of my thought process above does not come from me thinking that you don't "deserve" to reach your goal! 🙂 Not at all! But I am concerned that just thinking that you "deserve" something is not enough to bring it to you! I am worried that too much thought of "well, I deserve this" is somewhat counterproductive and makes us all work a little less harder to achieve what we want!

    To say the least, I have really mixed emotions about this! I would love to hear your opinion!

    Love, light, and peace,
    Mambo Samantha Corfield

  • Spellmaker Community Pages!

    Hi there, everyone!<BR>

    Good morning! 🙂 I am working on a project to have a whole section of the Spellmaker website dedicated to building a community for those who wish to feel more a part of what we do.

    I would really love it if you could send me pictures of your altars or any rituals you have done and took pictures of, or any pictures you take in the future. Obviously, make sure that if you don’t want your surroundings to be recognizable, that you take your pictures in such a way that nothing personal is showing. For those of you who are out of the voodoo closet and don’t mind having your picture shown, we would love that, too! 🙂 Regardless, your name and place of residence would always be kept confidential, even if we have permission to show your picture.

    This will also include resurrection of the Spellmaker Forum, though it will have sort of a different nature to it. There are plenty of places to see and say negative things, the Forum will not be one of them. Sister Bridget is working diligently on the forum to renovate it into a happy, productive, and supportive place!

    We have a few other little goodies up our sleeves for you and can’t wait to show you around once it is done!

    Meanwhile, if you have pictures, please just send them to me at ReverendCorfield@aol.com. Almost any format will work for me. Don’t worry if you think your pictures aren’t that great! You don’t have to be a professional photographer to share.  Personally, I love altar and ritual pictures… I enjoy seeing others’, especially because I feel a little part of that ritual. 

     Every altar and ritual picture can be a source of inspiration for someone, so you never know who you will be helping along their path!

    Love,light, and peace,
    Mambo Samantha Corfield



    Parran Matt and Mambo’s Fet Ghede Altar at home, 2007.

    Fet Ghede 2007

  • Mardi Gras!

    Good morning, everyone!

    Quite a few of you have written to ask me what kind of Voodoo ritual could you do on Mardi Gras day. 🙂 I suggest doing The Three Kings ritual that we learned in chat class. If you weren’t there, I am posting it below. The Three Kings ritual revolves around the religious holiday, The Epiphany. However, traditionally, Mardi Gras day is the last day to do The Three Kings ritual. Now, of course, you can do the ritual anytime, but traditionally it is done between The Epiphany and Mardi Gras.


    This is something that I taught in our online chat classes (which are coming back soon, by the way!!!!). There were also at least three classes where we talked about the meaning of this ritual and discussed the details.


    Just briefly, The Three Kings ritual involves the Simbi family of lwa. The Three Kings Ritual is designed to work on a situation using the team work of the Simbi family of lwa and the ritual is often used on difficult situations.


    Since chat class is coming back soon, I am going to go ahead and give you the links to where the transcript archives are for all of the chat classes. If you plan on joining us for chat class, I suggest that you go over the transcripts to see what has already been covered and get yourself up to speed! 🙂 (Please remember that this is copyrighted information. The rituals you see there were written by me and are not for reproducing elsewhere. Everything there is copyrighted and owned by Parran Matt and myself. My rituals are all original, not out of some book.)


    The transcripts are located at:

    http://www.spellmaker.com/chatinformation/transcriptindex.htm


    There is a TON of information in those archives. Just be prepared that we also had a lot of fun and you have to read through us doing some goofing off, too! 😉



    Simbi Three Kings Ritual


    Simbi “Three Kings” Ritual





    Lwa Served: Simbi Dlo, Simbi Andezo, Simbi Makaya


    Ritual Usage: This ritual can be used for many purposes but is especially useful for situations that are complex in nature and need to use more “levels” of magick than other situations. This ritual represents a team effort involving strategy, stealth, and power, and therefore can be extremely effective in situations where there are a lot of factors you need to address.


    Lwa Aspects



    Simbi Dlo

    Song:

    Gwo
    Lwa, gwo pwen-m, Simbi nan Dlo (x3),
    Djab la rete bo rivaj l’ape
    gade, Simbi sa ou we, pinga ou pale.

    (Big Lwa, my big point,
    Simbi in Water,
    the “djab” (sometimes interpreted as
    evil spirit, but more as a paid Lwa —
    Lwa achte’ sent
    to do a job, very often misinterpreted as “the devil.”)
    stays
    besides the shores, he is watching. Simbi what you see, you
    don’t
    speak


    Colors: White (also blue and silver)

    Offerings: Cucumbers, whipping cream, sour cream, rice, – white foods


    Simbi Andezo

    Song:

    Simbi nan dlo, Simbi
    nan dlo, Simbi nan kay moin (x2)
    Papa Ogoun sot nan Simbi nan dlo
    Simbi nan dlo, kay li.

    Simbi (of the water), Simbi (of the
    water) stays in his house
    Papa Ogoun went to visit with Simbi (of
    the water) Simbi (of the water),
    stays in house.


    Colors: Blue, silver, white

    Offerings: Fresh and salt water in two separate vessels.


    Simbi Makaya

    Song:

    Lwa
    Simbi Makaya! Dogwe! Map lage pwen a nan men ti moun yo.
    Lwa Simbi
    Makaya! Dogwe! Map lage pwen a nan men ti moun yo.
    Si gen lavi map
    peye Houngan, Si pa gen lavi mwen konnen m pa dwe.
    Lwa Simbi
    Makaya! Dogwe! Map lage pwen a nan men ti moun yo.

    The Lwa
    Simbi Makaya! Kiss the ground! I let go the “pwen” (power
    point)
    into the hands of the children (Note: “You” are
    the children — the
    group.”)
    The Lwa Simbi Makaya!
    Kiss the ground! I let go the “pwen” into the hands
    of
    the children.
    If there is life I will pay the Houngan, If there is
    no life, I know I
    don’t owe. (Note: Basically, “if I
    do well after this, I will pay the
    Houngan, if I do poorly, I will
    not pay the Houngan.”)
    The Lwa Simbi Makaya! Kiss the
    ground! I let go the “pwen” into the hands
    of the
    children.


    Colors: Red and green – especially red.

    Offerings: Cigars, whiskey, a whip, raw meat, lots of peppers.




    Setting Up Your Altar



    First clean the space that you will use first with salted water and then with fresh water. As you are cleaning, now is the time to start concentrating on the ritual, on contacting our Simbi Team, and what it is you wish to accomplish. As you clean, begin to picture the attainment of your goal for tonight’s ritual. When you are done with cleaning the space, clean your hands with the salt and fresh water, too. You may choose to wear either the colors of all the lwa involved or white. Tie your head in a white scarf.


    For this ritual, we will set up three distinct places on your altar; one for each of the Simbi Lwa. As you face the altar, to your left, place your items for Simbi Dlo, in the middle goes Simbi Makaya, and to your right, Simbi Andezo. (If you wish to call upon Ogoun as Simbi Andezo’s friend during this ritual, you may put a small token that represents Ogoun in Simbi Andezo’s space: A butterfly, a piece of iron, etc. Just realize that this should be small, Ogoun is not the focus here, Andezo is, but you can ask Ogoun to work with Andezo on your behalf.) You may put down altar cloths in their colors if you can, just make sure you are creating three spaces, no matter how small or frugal they may be.


    Do the appropriate presentation for each item and place it in the space for the appropriate lwa, saying the lwa’s name, “for you Simbi Dlo” – and so on. If you are on a budget, this can be a simple ritual as far as offerings go: Three candles, one for each lwa; fresh and salted water for Simbi Andezo; fresh water for Simbi Dlo; at least one offering for Simbi Makaya, even if it just some pepper or a small amount of meat and hopefully a bit of whiskey. Those are the basics. You can, of course, get as elaborate as you wish from there.




    Doing the Ritual



    Now that the altar is set up, light your candles and we will turn our attention to calling in the lwa.


    First call for Papa Legba to open the gate for the Simbi Lwa. (Please note: The invocations for both Papa Alegba and the Simbi lwa are in “langaj” a fairly untranslatable language said to be the original language of the lwa. As far as pronounciation, just do your best especially in light of the number of “scholarly debates” regarding the pronouncisation issue. I feel Les Lois speak all languages and recognize these words, so no use worrying about it, just say it loud and proud if you can!)


    For Papa Legba: Par pouvwa Sen Antwan de Padou repwezante Papa Lebga Gwetor, Legba Atibon, Legba Katawoulo, Legba Avadra, Legba Gran chimen, Legba Kafou, Vye, Vye, Legba. Ago, Ago-si.


    For the Simbi Lwa, we will use one invocation that names all three lwa:



    Pa pouvwa Simbi Andeyo, Simbi Yampaka, Simbi Dlo, Simbi Maza, Simbi Makaya, Simbi Ankita, Simbi Fwi, Simbi Gangan, Simbi twa zile, Simbi travo, Neg Kouloubwa Mennen, Neg dadi maza, neg Anpaka poungwe, Anpaka malo, neg tate kite, new biki makaya, neg eskalye Bounba, neg zazi poungwe li gwendemalolo, neg laye, neg simbi laye, neg kasamanbilaye. Matifouye-yi! Majoman-sa!


    After you have done the invocations, sit quietly for a moment to welcome Les Lois to your sacred space.


    Now you will sing/chant/or otherwise recite each Simbi’s song for them. Sing them in this order: Simbi Dlo, Simbi Andezo, then Simbi Makaya. As you are singing them, or afterwards, choose one of their offerings and hold it up for them – there is no wrong way to do this. Invite each one individually to partake in their offerings. If you can, have a little bit of their offerings with them; share in some “social time” with each one. If you want to have some fun – sing some songs that you know that fit each of these lwa. I have found all of Les Lois to be very responsive to different kinds of songs – pop, rock, etc. You could sing, “The Sounds of Silence” for Simbi Dlo, any number of “sea faring” songs for Simbi Andezo, and even something like “Magic Man” for Simbi Makaya. Take as much time as you feel is right for you and each particular lwa.


    Once you are satisfied with the time that has spent, you may now begin your petitioning as we have discussed in class.
    First, begin with Simbi Dlo. Acknowledge his great skills at silence, thank him for the knowledge that “silence is golden.” Ask him to silence the things that you are choosing to work with during this ritual. When you are done, dip two fingers from your right hand into his water offering and sprinkle a few drops on the floor. Thank him for his time and consideration of your requests.


    Move now to Simbi Andezo. Acknowledge his great skills of strategy and planning. Ask him to bring your plan to life; to help make a plan; to help execute a plan – any or all as appropriate to your situation. If you have honored Ogoun on the altar, ask Simbi Andezo to confer with his friend Ogoun to bring even more power and strategy into this plan. But this about Simbi Andezo – you are not actually asking Ogoun for his help – you are asking Andezo to confer with Ogoun. When you are done, dip two fingers from your right hand into his fresh water offering and sprinkle a few drops on the floor. Dip two fingers from your left hand into his salt water offering and sprinkle a few drops on the floor. Thank him for his time and consideration of your requests.


    Move now to Simbi Makaya. Acknowledge his great magickal skills and powerfulness. Ask him to infuse his magick into the requests you have made. (See the transcripts from class about doing some extra empowering of items from your spell castings or adjunct products.) If you are a smoker (or can do a few puffs of smoke) and have offered cigars or cigarettes, light one and draw smoke into your mouth – don’t inhale (even if you are a smoker). Blow the smoke over the whole altar, as much as possible. Do this three times. If you cannot do this step, then don’t.


    Once you have done all of this, this is a great time to sit quietly with paper and pencil and write down the thoughts that come to you. You may find yourself strategizing on problems, writing out potential solutions, or just randomizing some thoughts. All of this has value and meaning. Spend as much time as you are comfortable with.


    End your ritual with a final thanks and acknowledgement of the power of the Simbi Lwa. Invite them to stay as long as they feel they need to and ask Papa to close the gate when the team is finished. They may hang around awhile because they have a tendency to get into strategy mode and like to be around your energy while they do this. It is fine to go to sleep or go about whatever you need to do. Papa Legba will be there to close the gate when all is said and done.


    If at all possible, let your candles burn out on their own. Please only do this if you can do it safely. Take all fire precautions, please, please, please. Many of you have had some close calls. Don’t take candle burning for granted.


    Remember, now that you know this ritual, you can use it anytime. We are often faced with complex issues in our lives and this ritual is particularly effective for those things that may need multi-level assistance.


    AYIBOBO!

    copyright, ©, 2008, Samantha and Matthew Corfield

  • What’s That Song??????????

    Greetings, everyone!

    So many people are still writing and asking, "What’s that song in the video on the Confidential Caseworker Page?"   The song is "You Gotta Believe" and I chose it to go along with that video because "you gotta believe!"  😉   And no, you don’t "gotta believe" in magick or spellwork or me!  The number one belief you must hold on to is a belief in yourself!  That is what the song lyrics are all about:  A belief in yourself and a belief in  your dreams and desires.  It is a song about not giving up and about seeing things through. 

    Unfortunately, I have noticed in the last few years that there is a shift in the energy of people.  So many people give up on their cases after just doing the first spell or the first candle work.  The minute they don’t get what they want, they throw up their hands and go, "Well, I knew that wouldn’t work anyway!"  It makes me wonder how they will accomplish anything in their lives if they are willing to give up so easily on something that they originally told me meant the whole world to them.

    It’s exactly like those people who tell me, "Oh Mambo, I will DO ANYTHING to get him back."  Then when I tell them that they have to spend nine days doing a spell there are like, "uh, what… oh, um, nine days… welll… I dunno!"  Sorry, but that always baffles me; anything worth having is worth working towards.  So I thought having that song as a theme song for the caseworker page was a good one!  I have reprinted the lyrics below.  Enjoy!!

    Love, Mambo Sam

    Natalie Brown You Gotta Believe lyrics

    (N. Brown/J. Rwakaara)
    V1
    You’ve been thinking about your life
    And wondering what to do
    You have some big dreams inside
    But how do you see them through
    When you don’t know where to go
    To make a start
    Tell ya what, listen to your heart
    Focus on the prize, dreams will be realized
    No matter what people say, keep going anyway
    Chorus:
    You gotta believe, believe in you
    You gotta have faith, faith in all you do
    You gotta stay strong, no matter what comes your way
    Get on your knees so you won’t stray
    You gotta believe
    V2
    Sometimes when you
    Have a dream to achieve
    Things get rough and tight
    But ya gotta believe
    That if you stay in the game
    You’ll come out on top
    So give it your all, don’t ever stop
    Focus on the prize, dreams will be realized
    No matter what people say, keep going anyway
    Bridge:
    Focus so you won’t stray
    No matter what people will say
    Keep on goin’ do your best
    Know that you will be blessed

  • Do You Really Love Him or….

    do you love the IDEA of him?  Now that could just as easily be a "her" instead of a "him" but since the majority of our clients here at Spellmaker are women who are doing love magick on men, I am going to stick with "him" for the purpose of this post.  🙂

    Every so often I work with a client who I feel really isn’t in love with the person that they are working on!  This is a hard subject to broach with a person simply because it brings up defensive talk from the client and we get no where!  The minute I start to question whether or not there is "true love" coming from the person doing the spell work, all their defenses go up!  However, when I am doing spell work on their behalf, I always see the truth and the truth is:  Sometimes you are in love with the idea of the man you want him to be, not the man himself. 

    Some of you are working on the man you think you can make him become; if he would just change a few things then he would be the ideal man for you!  Some of you are working on the man who you know is just plain old unobtainable.  Some of you are working on the man who has ripped your heart out, stomped on it, and fed it to you and yet you still think there is "something there." 

    Now admittedly, this group of clients makes up a very small percentage of clients!  Most of you are working on a valid case.  But if this post rings a bell with you and you wonder, "Is she talking about me?" then I would suggest that you take a closer look at who you are choosing to spend your precious time and money on. 

    If you are working on a man (or woman) that you feel you are going to change completely with spell work and THEN they will be great for you, you definitely need to reassess what you are doing.  Yes, spell work can effect great change in a person, but remember the changes that you are trying to make should be changes for the better for HIM not just for you.  For instance, if your intended is suffering from past emotional damage and you are trying to change the effects from that, then you are on the right track because it is good for him and then secondly good for you.  If you are doing spell work to try to make him a neatnik, wear his hair a certain way, and do a job he would probably hate because you want him to make more money, then you are on the wrong track.

    You need to be in love with the man he is and when you are trying to effect change, it has to be for his greater good first, and your benefit should be second. 

    Love, Mambo Sam