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  • How having a positive outlook effects our bodies.

    Hi There,

    This article came across my blogreader the other day, and I felt it was just too important not to pass along. Most of the references in this article are about how a positive attitude effects us in disease. But just imagine how much better we would feel if we tried to keep out attitudes positive when we are healthy!

    I hope you all find some aspect of this article helpful 😉

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

    ***begin article***

    Studies show that having a positive attitude could make you less likely to suffer heart attacks, strokes, and pain from conditions like arthritis.

    But what if you have already gotten the devastating diagnosis?

    Can an upbeat outlook make a difference?

    "It's hard sometimes when the doctors come in because they look at my scans, and I know they don't look good," explains Kristin Kettle.

    This 36-year-old mother of two has stage-four, metastatic colon cancer.

    "I've been through 13 rounds of chemotherapy within the last seven months, I think," Kristin says.

    Instead of crying, she laughs with friends at her "chemo parties." Each one has a theme, and it has nothing to do with cancer.

    But can a positive attitude affect the outcome of disease? In a
    Johns Hopkins study, researchers followed nearly 600 people with a family history of heart disease. Those with a positive outlook were half as likely to experience a heart event.

    "Attitude is all the difference in the world, and think about it: attitude is a choice," explains Dr. Robert P. Shannon, an assistant professor at the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, Florida.

    While scientific studies on cancer show mixed results, one found breast cancer patients with feelings of hopelessness are less likely to survive.

    Marilyn Wattman-Feldman says her upbeat outlook may not cure her stage-four breast cancer, but it's made her physically and emotionally stronger.

    "I had to look at everything, even the chemo treatments, and find something funny about what was going on, as hard as that was," she says.

    They are strong-minded women who haven't forgotten how to have fun, even during the fight of their lives.

    A recent study of healthy women found optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years compared to those who were more pessimistic.

    More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women.

    OPTIMISTIC HEALING
    REPORT #1576

    BACKGROUND:

    Many medical experts believe that positive thinking and a positive attitude are beneficial when it comes to your health. While it has long been conjecture, in recent years, scientists have been gathering statistical proof that the mind-body connection can improve more than just mental health.

    Once the purview of New-Age books that claim to show the path to healing, the evidence rests in the rise in clinical trials.

    GENERAL HEALTH:

    Women who are optimistic about life live longer and are healthier than those who are pessimistic, according to a new study presented at the American Psychosomatic Society's annual meeting.

    Another report in the Boston Globe reports that women who tend to be more trusting of others also live longer than those who are cynical. The study conducted by the Women's Health Initiative looked at more than 97,000 healthy women ages 50 to 74.

    Optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years than those who were more pessimistic. More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women. The study does not prove that attitudes affect health or cause illness, but researchers say the association is worth further study.

    HEART HEALTH:

    A study shows optimism is good for heart health, at least among men. University of Rochester Medical Center researchers found men who believed they were at a lower-than-average risk for cardiovascular disease actually experienced a three-times lower incidence of death from heart attacks and stroke.

    Another study out of Johns Hopkins finds people with a good attitude were half as likely as their less optimistic counterparts to experience a heart event such as sudden death, heart attack or chest pain that required surgery.

    Researchers observed the power of positive thinking even after adjusting for traditional risk factors for heart disease, including cholesterol, weight and cigarette smoking.

    "It's possible that the people with the positive attitude produce lower levels of stress hormones, which helps protect them from disease, " Diane M. Becker, Sc.D., M.P.H., senior author of the study, was quoted as saying.

    ***end article****

    Monarch1

  • Quote for today…..

    for those of my beloved clients who are struggling with waiting…..

                    "All great achievements require time."
                                     ~~~Maya Angelou

    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

  • The Journey by Mary Oliver

    This has always been one of my most favorite poems. Life is a journey – spellwork is a journey – the theme of Journeying can be applied to our lives in many ways over and over again. I read this poem for the first time when I was at a very low point in my life, and found it very empowering. I hope some part of it strikes a cord with each of you as well.
    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

                                                    The Journey
                                                         ~~~~by Mary Oliver
    One day you finally knew
    what you had to do, and began,
    though the voices around you
    kept shouting
    their bad advice—
    though the whole house
    began to tremble
    and you felt the old tug
    at your ankles.
    "Mend my life!"
    each voice cried.
    But you didn't stop.
    You knew what you had to do,
    though the wind pried
    with its stiff fingers
    at the very foundations,
    though their melancholy
    was terrible.
    It was already late
    enough, and a wild night,
    and the road full of fallen
    branches and stones.
    But little by little,
    as you left their voices behind,
    the stars began to burn
    through the sheets of clouds,
    and there was a new voice
    which you slowly
    recognized as your own,
    that kept you company
    as you strode deeper and deeper
    into the world,
    determined to do
    the only thing you could do—
    determined to save
    the only life you could save.

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  • June Full Moon ~~ Sunday, June 7, 2009

    June's full moon is known by many other names, with some interesting lore behind each.

    Full Strawberry Moon – This name was universal to
    every Algonquin tribe. However, in Europe they called it the Rose Moon.
    Also because the relatively short season for harvesting strawberries
    comes each year during the month of June . . . so the full Moon that
    occurs during that month was christened for the strawberry!

    The Green Corn Moon, The Flower Moon, The Planting Moon.

    It is sometimes known as the Full Flower Moon since in most areas of the country flowers are abundant.

    The Honey Moon as this is typically the first month in North America when honey can be harvested.

    Lotus Moon in Chinese astrology.

    Moon of the Horses in Celtic Lore.

    Native Americans did not domesticate cows, so it was these settlers who
    named the May full moon the Milk Moon. During May cows, goats, and
    sheep enjoy sprouting weeds, grasses, and herbs in the pastures and
    produce lots of rich milk, full of vitamins.

    Here is a poem about this moon:

    Flower Moon

    May Moon, Milk moon, you hide
    in the rain. Meadows are wild
    with lupine, columbine and phlox.
    Tulips and violets open their hearts.

    It is time to plant the corn. Young
    squirrels practice mating in the garden,
    all four in a tumble of spring, taking
    turns being boy, being girl. Flower Moon,

    this year you bring sorrow, and pain. Old
    friends fade; old knees complain of the rain.
    Corn Planting Moon, sixty times I have slept
    beneath you. Milk Moon, smile on me.

            ~~~~anon.

    I2mages

  • How to Center Yourself

    Here is another great article I found by the author of Emotional Freedom- Dr. Judith Orloff. I thought it might be helpful to some of you when you start feeling a little off kilter energetically.

    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    **begin article***

    How to Center Yourself

    by Judith Orloff MD

    Watch your diet. Notice what foods feel good, which do not. Your body will
    tell you what it requires. Usually, denser foods-meat, chicken, fish–have
    more of a grounding effect than grains, vegetables, or fruit. I'm not a big
    meat eater but if my body announces, "I need a hamburger," I will devour one.
    Listen to your body's signals. Notice how they fluctuate.

    Do mundane tasks. Mindfully focusing on everyday chores can bring you back
    to your body. Grocery shopping, going to the bank, paying bills, washing
    clothes, taking out the trash, or cleaning the yard can be grounding. These
    activities anchor you in the here-and-now by drawing on the luminous nature
    of the ordinary.

    Practice Anonymous Service. Do something nice for someone without taking
    credit for it. Hold the elevator for a little old lady. Let someone go
    before you in line. Serve food to the homeless. Give a charitable donation.
    Anything that shifts the focus from you to helping others. No deed is too
    small. The act of giving–especially when you're most frazzled–opens your
    heart, is regenerative.

    Spend Time in Nature. As poet William Wordsworth put it, civilization can be
    "too much with us." People, cars, the news, telephone cables matting the sky,
    all can keep us from our bodies, divorce us from what is natural. Regularly
    take at least a few hours out from your routine. Visit the beach, a forest, a
    canyon, a river. Choose a spot that moves you. Aboriginals seek out windswept
    plains for purification. Native Americans go to fresh streams to clarify
    their inner vision. (Any water source, including a bath or shower, can
    cleanse and purify.) Tibetan monks pilgrimage to mountaintops. Allow yourself
    to draw on the earth's primordial forces. Savor the beauty of a twilight,
    sunset, or dawn. Let them nourish and restore you.

    Meditate. Sitting in meditation is a life-line to your center, to the
    earth. By calming the mind, you can re-align with your essence. Close your
    eyes. Focus on your breath. Then gently extend your awareness downward to
    strata, bedrock, minerals, and soil. From the base of your spine begin to
    feel a continuity with the earth's core. Picture having a long tail that
    roots in that center. Allow the earth's energy to infuse your body and
    stabilize you. If you meditate for five minutes or an hour this is sacred
    time.

    **end article**

    more articles can be found at Dr Orloff's website drjudithorloff.com

  • Emotional Vampires ~~ Be on the lookout!

    Hey Gang!

    I have been working my way through this great book – Emotional Freedom by Dr Judith Orloff. And I do mean working – its an awesome book with exercises to work thru. I am really enjoying this book! When I saw this article it seemed perfect to pass along, and I am sure some of us can identify with the topic here.

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget Corfield

    www.spellmaker.com

    *****begin article*****

    The Emotional Vampire Survival Guide: Emotional Freedom in Action

    Adapted from Dr. Judith Orloff’s new book “Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself From Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life” (Harmony Books, 2009)

    To be emotionally free you can’t remain naïve about relationships. Some people are positive and mood elevating. Others can suck optimism and serenity right out of you. Vampires do more than drain your physical energy. The super-malignant ones can make you believe you’re an unworthy, unlovable wretch who doesn’t deserve better. The subtler species inflict damage by making smaller digs which can make you feel bad about yourself—for instance, “Dear, I see you’ve put on a few pounds” or “You’re overly sensitive!” Suddenly they’ve thrown you emotionally off-center you by prodding areas of shaky self-worth. To protect your sensitivity, it’s important to name and combat these vampires. The concept struck such a collective chord in my book Positive Energy that in Emotional Freedom I illustrate how it applies to protecting your emotions and not absorbing other people’s negativity. In the book I discuss these vampires to watch for and ways to deal with them.

    SIGNS THAT YOU’VE ENCOUNTERD AN EMOTIONAL VAMPIRE
    (from “Emotional Freedom” by Judith Orloff MD)

    • Your eyelids are heavy—you’re ready for a nap

    • Your mood takes a nosedive

    • You want to binge on carbs or comfort foods

    • You feel anxious, depressed, or negative

    • You feel put down, sniped at, or slimed

    TYPES OF EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES
    Vampire #1: The Narcissist
    Their motto is “Me first.” Everything is all about them. They have a grandiose sense of self-importance and entitlement, hog attention, and crave admiration. They’re dangerous because they lack empathy and have a limited capacity for unconditional love. If you don’t do things their way, they become punishing, withholding, or cold.
    How to Protect Your Emotions: Keep your expectations realistic. These are emotionally limited people. Try not to fall in love with one or expect them to be selfless or love without strings attached. Never make your self-worth dependent on them or confide your deepest feelings to someone who won’t cherish them. To successfully communicate, the hard truth is that you must show how something will be to their benefit. Though it’s better not to have to contend with this tedious ego stroking, if the relationship is unavoidable use the above strategies to achieved desired results.

    Vampire #2: The Victim
    These vampires grate on you with their “poor-me’ attitude and are allergic to taking responsibility for their actions. The world is always against them, the reason for their unhappiness. When you offer a solution to their problems they always say, “Yes, but.” You might end up screening your calls or purposely avoid them. As a friend, you may want to help but their tales of woe overwhelm you.
    How to Protect Your Emotions: Set kind but firm limits. Listen briefly and tell a friend or relative, “I love you but I can only listen for a few minutes unless you want to discuss solutions. Then I’d be thrilled to brainstorm with you.” With a coworker, listen briefly, sympathize by saying, “I’ll keep good thought for things to work out. Then say, I hope you understand, but I’m on deadline and must go back to work. Then use “this isn’t a good time” body language such as crossing your arms and breaking eye contact to help set these healthy limits.

    Vampire #3: The Controller
    These people obsessively try to control you and dictate what you’re supposed to be and feel. They have an opinion about everything. They’ll control you by invalidating your emotions if they don’t fit into their rulebook. They often start sentences with “You know what you need?” and then proceed to tell you. You end up feeling dominated, demeaned, or put down.
    How to Protect Your Emotions: The secret to success is never try and control a controller. Be healthily assertive, but don’t tell them what to do. You can say, “I value your advice but really need to work through this myself.” Be confident but don’t play the victim or sweat the small stuff. Focus on high priority issues rather than on putting the cap on the toothpaste.

    Vampire #4: The Splitter or Borderline Personality
    Splitters see things as either good or bad and have love/hate relationships. One minute they idealize you, the next you’re the enemy if you upset them. They have a sixth sense for knowing how to pit people against each another and will retaliate if they feel you have wronged them. They are people who are fundamentally damaged—inwardly they feel as if they don’t exist and become alive when they get angry. They’ll keep you on an emotional rollercoaster and you may walk on eggshells to avoid their anger.

    How to Protect Your Emotions: Stay calm. Don’t react when your buttons get pushed. Splitters feed off of anger. They respond best to structure and limit setting. If one goes into a rage, tell the person, “I’m leaving until you get calmer. Then we can talk.” Refuse to take sides when he or she tries to turn you against someone else. With family members, it’s best to show a united front and not let a splitter’s venomous opinions poison your relationships.

    About Judith Orloff
    Judith Orloff MD, an Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at
    UCLA and intuition expert.
    www.drjudithorloff.com

    **end article**

  • Papa Legba Oil and the Red Mummy!

    Happy Wednesday, everyone!

    We have started Papa Alegba month! 🙂 As most of you know by now, of course, we are dedicating the whole month to Papa here at www.spellmaker.com! If you haven’t checked out his page and the information on how to get in on the free rituals, please do so at www.spellmaker.com/legba.htm.


    As I have mentioned in many posts and teachings, Papa is a great communicator with the ability to speak and translate all languages and dialects. He can open many doors, including those doors of communication that are so important to all of us in all of our relationships.


    Of course, we also have the Famous Red Mummy candle magick kit that we use for communication. 😉 Now while it, naturally, comes with its own special bottle of oil, you can certainly also use some of the Papa’s Gatekey™ Oil on those red mummies, too! What better way to boost that communication than with Papa’s oil. It isn’t called “Gatekey” for NO reason! 😉 And since communication is the “key” to all relationships, certainly you can see the correlation there!


    So for those of you who have asked about putting this oil on your Red Mummy candles, the answer is absolutely yes! Oil that mummy up! It also certainly would not hurt to burn some of Papa’s Open Door™ incense with it, either!


    Love, light, and peace,

    Mambo Samantha Corfield

    www.spellmaker.com

  • Re-opening the Forum!

    Happy Tuesday, everyone!

    Happily, we will be re-opening our forum here in the next couple of days. I was going to wait until I was finished with our Spellmaker Community Pages, but we are excited to get the forum re-opened and we don’t want to wait much longer! 🙂


    My darling daughter, Sister Bridget has been working on the reformatting and re-creation of the forum so that it will be a happy, healthy, and productive place!


    The new forum will not be a place for crying, whining, and telling everyone how bad one’s life is! We found that to be extremely counterproductive and while it may have made a few people feel better to get those kinds of things off their chest, it ended up making more people unhappy until it just turned into a ball of negative energy. So, instead, we are making the forum a place of happy updates, tips and suggestions for keeping positive, uplifting quotes and stories, and teaching information about magick, voodoo, the lwa, saints, and angels, and more! 🙂


    My other darling daughter, Sister Candelaria, as well as Sister Bridget, will still have their corners in the forum. Schweety’s Feng Shui corner will still be there! Spellmaker office news and all the information about the lwa that Schweety was kind enough to upload for us will still be there! Plus, there will be lots of new categories. 🙂


    It is our intention for the Spellmaker Spirits forum to be a place of learning, peace, and happiness. It will remain a moderated forum and posts will have to be approved.(Mostly we do that because so many people troll the internet looking for places to post porno and Viagra links! So to keep the forum for the purpose for which it was intended, we will moderate posts.)


    I am really looking forward to opening the forum back up! See you there in a few days!


    Love, light, and peace,

    Mambo Samantha Corfield

    www.spellmaker.com

  • June is Papa Legba Month!

    Hey

    Incase there are any of you out there that may have missed Mambo Sam's emailing or blog, June is Pap Legba month at Spellmaker.com!

    Check out www.spellmaker.com/legba.htm  to get the low down on all the activities, free rituals and deep discounts on all items Legba!

    Have a great weekend!

    Sister Bridget

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  • Quote for today.

    "Promise me you will always remember: You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think."

        ~~~~ Christopher Robin

    Chrispooh