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  • Oslo, Norway

    Hello everyone,

    It has taken me a few days to be able to speak clearly about the tragedy in Oslo, Norway.  My first order of business was to try to check up on our friends and clients that live there.  Thankfully, I believe that we have been able to determine that everyone we know there is fine.  Sadly, of course, not everyone is so lucky to have been personally untouched.

    These kinds of events not only leave us sad, angry, and frustrated, but often wondering how one person, looking so normal, can do something so heinous.  It is always a mystery to me when I look into the pictures of these people; why, what, how did you get to be that person?  Of course, there is no easy answer.  Maybe there is no answer, easy or otherwise.

    I will not relate the details of his crimes here, but they are chilling right down to the bone.  The crimes involve things that nearly none of us could even stand to see in a fictional setting let alone know that somewhere in the world these acts happened to innocent people.  The feeling is of incredible sadness and yet still laced with wondering how this kind of person gets shaped in life.

    When we are faced with the tragedies of natural disasters, we are horrified that nature can be such an awesome force to take anyone and anything down. I have heard reporters say that we are sometimes at war with nature and nature will eventually win.  But when it comes down to one human being causing such death and destruction, where do we look?   Upon whom do we lay blame? Surely we cannot blame Mother Nature here.

    There are no easy answers to any of this.  Most of the time we end up just feeling helpless and frustrated, not knowing how to direct our energies to most help.  One way to help is to join with us here at Spellmaker in praying for whatever peace and help can be given to those affected by this tragedy in Norway.  The Spellmaker Prayer Group will be devoting a portion of the prayer meeting on Thursday, July 28 to praying for those victims and families in Norway.  Please join them if you can – even if you cannot join in on the meeting, praying at the same time they meeting is going on will combine our collective energies. 

    Also, remember, the prayer group takes requests for your prayer needs, too!  Our prayer group offers prayers for all that we know about, it is very easy for you to be included.   Just follow the link above for instructions.

    Take care of yourselves and each other!  Have a safe, blessed, and peaceful week.

    Love, Mambo Sam, www.spellmaker.com

    Peacedove
     

  • Making Healthy Decisions – Part 8

    Hello everyone,Continuing on with our series on Making Healthy Decisions the question of today is:

    What Would Make Me Genuinely Happy?

    On the surface, this sounds like a no-brainer.  For some, getting a relationship back together is number one on their list!  For others, a new home, more money, better job, etc. is on their list.  For some, getting into a relationship is on their list.

    However, I am going to encourage you to rework that list!  I am not saying that all of those things above might not make you happy.  But is that what it would take to make you genuinely happy?  I guess a question within a question is "What is happy?"  That is a subject too big to tackle right here! Generally speaking, I do think it is a question to consider within the question of what would make you genuinely happy.

    I see so many folks working towards a relationship that they are sure is going to solve all their problems and,as they ride off into the sunset, they will be immediately happy.  Looking beyond that initial sunset, to see what that life would REALLY be like with that person is something that I often see overlooked.

    But in a broader sense of the subject of seeing what would make you genuinely happy, it's good old list time!  :-)  I highly encourage everyone to make that list!  If it is  just a one-word list that says, "Johnny" then you need to look beyond that, seriously.  What other things will make you happy?  How can you attain them?  If you are unhappy with your present circumstances and want them to change, what are you willing to do to change them?  How big of a role are you willing to take in your own happiness… your genuine happiness?  Will you listen to and/or take advice?  Will you explore all your options? How are you willing to try?

    Don't forget the small things, too!  Include them on your list! How many of these happy-makers did you do yesterday, last week, this year? Which ones can you indulge in today? When you're facing a challenge, ask what would make you happy in this situation.

    Cast a wide net!  You may have "buying a new car" on your list, but if you also remember that "dinner with friends"  and "playing with my dog" are great for you, you get to be happy every day–and that's important. What would make you happy now (that wouldn't make you unhappy later)? Do that!

    Then, take the decision you are trying to make and see what about it will or will not make you genuinely happy!

    Love, Mambo Samantha Corfield, www.spellmaker.com

    Happy
     

  • Making Healthy Decisions – Part 6

    Good morning everyone!  As we continue on with our series on making healthy decisions, I wanted to stop for a moment and clarify what this series is all about.  Many of my readers are those engaged in more esoteric studies – spells, spiritual growth, magickal endeavors, etc.  Those readers are tending to put this exercise in that category.  While it can be used in that way to some degree, this is meant to be about every day decision making.  Some of the information may be useful in spell casting, but really it would be more useful deciding when or if to do spell casting, not so much to assist you with the actual process. 🙂

    Our next question to ask ourselves when making a decison is: 

    What Really Matters?

    This can be extremely beneficial.  Taking the time to figure out what really matters to you is crucial to making a good decision.  For some of us, we think that everything matters equally – we are passionate about every little thing. On the surface, this can seem admirable; when you look a little deeper you will see that this means that we treat all things equally.  It is very difficult to live successfully in this way.  Prioritzing things in your life will make you more organized, let you know when to pick your battles (and not everything is worth a battle – really, it isn't), and allow you to let go of certain things in order to accomplish other, more important, things.

    For most people,  beings with emotional capabilities will come first – children, spouses, parents, friends, pets, etc. For some, they themselves will come first.  After those obvious choices, what really  matters after that?  Understanding what your priorities are and how your decision impacts them will allow you to weed out things that don't matter and leave you with a clearer understanding of what your decision needs to be.

    For instance, is your job the means by which you take care of the things that are most important (money) or is there another way that you care for those things (emotionally, perhaps)?  If you say yes to the former, then job decisions are going to be weighed against the impact on others. If you say yes to the latter, then job decisions may be based entirely on other criteria.

    Therefore, deciding what really matters to you will help you in making a healthy  decision.  🙂

    Love, light, and peace,

    Mambo Samantha Corfield, www.spellmaker.com

    Decisionsahead
     

  • Madrid, NM.

    Below are a few pictures from an afternoon this spring in Madrid, NM. Pronounced Maaaaaah-drid 🙂 Marran, Parran and myself had a really wonderful lunch, and did a bit of shopping in this "recovered" ghost town that is now the home of many little shops and art galleries. The weather was just lovely and it was a splendid day. Thank you MaMere & MaPere!

    Enjoy the pics!

    Love, Sister Bridget

    ABQSpring2011 185 The Mine Shaft Tavern. The movie "Wild Hogs" with Tim Allen and John Travolta was filmed here.

    ABQSpring2011 183  Locomotive engine parked behind the Mine Shaft.
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    ABQSpring2011 184 MaMere and I at a shoppe which was located in a rail car. I got a lovely little pouch to keep my prayer beads in.

     

  • Making Healthy Decisions – Part 3

    Hello everyone!
    Today we are continuing our series on methods to use for helping make healthy decisions. Today's question to ask yourself is:
    What Are My Values?

    While some values might be considered universal and subjective, each of us have our own set of values germane to only us. In order for your decision to please you long term, you are going to have to make it happen within the parameters of your own set of values. At this point in the decision-making process, it is our values that come into play, leaving alone what others might think (we will get to that later).

    First we must decide how our decision impacts our core values. For some, honesty might come first; for others stretching the truth might seem perfectly acceptable. Those two people are going to come to their decisions differently and most likely with a different outcome. There is no judgment here as to right or wrong, you must decide what is acceptable within your value set.

    Most all of us know what is okay with us and what is absolutely not okay with us. Looking to this set of values will help you make the decision so it falls in accordance with sitting well with you later on! If the decision is going to lead you down a path heretofore unacceptable to you then either you are experiencing a drastic change in values or you are making the wrong decision! Most like, it will be the latter.

    If you don't have a stable set of core values, you may want to look to establishing that for yourself. Most people already have, but every once in awhile I have a client tell me that they are unsure what is okay or not okay with them. While it is great to be flexible, there should be a basic set of values keeping you strong! 🙂

    Love, light, and peace,

    Mambo Samantha Corfield, www.spellmaker.com

  • Poem for today…..

    "Possibility"
    by Ralph Masrton

    "In the seed, there is a forest waiting to grow.
    On the artist's canvas, a masterpiece is waiting to be painted.
    In the engineer's workstation,
    a technical breakthrough is waiting to be developed.
    Everywhere there is possibility.
    Every moment of every life is filled with possibilities,
    and the next moment as well.
    Every problem has a possible solution.
    Every goal has a possibility of achievement.
    Right now, right this moment,
    your life has possibilities that you never even considered.
    Possibilities you can follow to overcome the challenges you face.
    Possibilities that can bring joy and fulfilment.
    There is a pathway leading to wherever you want to go.
    All you need to do is find it and start the journey.
    Today does not have to be like yesterday.
    There are plenty of other possibilities.
    Consider your possibilities. Follow your possibilities.
    Open yourself to what could be, and make it so."

    Butterfly (2) 

  • Making Healthy Decisions – Part 2

    Hello everyone!  As promised, we are moving on with our series about Making Healthy Decisions.  🙂

    Today's question to ask yourself when making a decision is:

    What Does My Body Have to Say About This?

    We hear a lot about "gut" decisions.  Really, that is no joke!  40 trillion cells can't be wrong!  :-)  When you are working on a decision, take some quiet time and just sit and listen to what your body is telling you.  Even if you want something badly, how are you feeling physically?  Does your heart get aflutter with anticipation?  Do you feel sick to your stomach?  Are your limbs tingling?  Does your decision make you smile, cry, laugh?

    Take some time to note the feelings you get from your body about your decision. If your decision fills you with dread, you might want to take some time to try altering the decision in your mind and then noting how your body feels about it!  If your body doesn't feel good about the decision, try reworking it until you notice feelings of relief, smiles, even laughter!  :-) 

    You are hard-wired with instinct and abilities to help yourself make a decision.  Most of us have been taught to ignore those very things that were given to us!  Try starting out by just listening to and feeling your body in different states of emotion – how does it feel when something is good for you?  What are the sensations within your body?  How does it feel when something is bad for you?  What physical manifestations do you get?  Learning to discern what your body is telling you is the first step to receiving your body's own physical guidance for you! Learning to then TRUST that guidance will be the next step.  That will only come with practice!

    Practice can be simple or complex.  One very easy way to practice is to watch movies or TV shows!  Watch a movie that is funny, inspirational, or in some way positive to you.  Pay attention to how your body feels – note each part of your body and the sensations that are there.  Continue on with a movie or show that is sad or makes you angry or feels in some way negative to you (not that being sad is always negative).  Again, pay attention to what your body's reactions are.  Make note of these sensations so that you will recognize them when it comes to decision making.

    Try it! 🙂

    Love, light, and peace,

    Mambo Samantha Corfield, www.spellmaker.com

    Listen-to-Your-Gut
     

  • We’ll miss you, Clarence!

    As many of you have heard by now, Saxaphone Great Clarence Clemons passes away over the weekend from complications of a stroke. As one who grew up listening to Clarence, I know I will miss his music and his philosphy greatly. He was wonderfully talented and I know his music will live on for years and years to come. We will miss you, Big Man!

     

    "In the mental calmness of a spiritual life, I have found that the answers to the whys in our lives are able to come to you. In my music I find the same thing."
    "It's a matter of choosing what is most important to you and putting that first. Once you have recognized your true purpose in life, this becomes much easier. "

    You're a Friend of Mine by Clarence Clemmons

    Striking out?
    Well count me in
    I'm gonna stand right by your side through thick or thin
    Ain't no doubt
    Gonna win
    A walk through hell ain't bad compared to where we've been

    Oh you can depend on me
    Over and over… over and over
    Know that I intend to be
    The one who who always makes you laugh until you cry
    And you can call on me until the day you die

    Years may come and go
    Here's one thing I know
    All my life
    You're a friend of mine

    That argument I can't forget
    We fought so hard I don't think I've recovered yet
    The girls we knew
    Who thought you were cool
    I never introduced my favorite ones to you

    Oh you can depend on me
    Over and over… over and over
    Know that I intend to be
    The one who who always makes you laugh until you cry
    And you can call on me until the day you die

    Years may come and go
    Here's one thing I know
    All my life
    You're a friend of mine

    Oh you can depend on me
    Over and over… over and over
    Know that I intend to be
    The one who who always makes you laugh until you cry
    And you can call on me until the day you die

    Years may come and go
    Here's one thing I know
    All my life
    You're a friend of mine

    Oh you can depend on me
    I'll be fine
    cause you're a friend of mine
    yeeaah
    I'll be fine
    cause you're a friend of mine

  • Quote for today…..

    "When you wake up in the morning, Pooh," said Piglet at last, "what's the first thing you say to yourself?"

    "What's for breakfast?" said Pooh. "What do you say, Piglet?"

    "I say, I wonder what's going to happen exciting today?" said Piglet.

    Pooh nodded thoughtfully. "It's the same thing," he said.

    Have an exciting day!

    Love, Sister Bridget

  • Happy Father’s Day!

    Happy Father's Day to all Dads out there! I would like to take a moment to say a special gratitude to Parran Matt for all that he does for our Family and our House. Love You, MaPere!
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    "Other things may change us, but we start and end with family"
    ~ Anthony Brandt