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  • Something to think about………..

    “Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.”

     

    ~~~~ William James

     

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  • Quote for the day.

    Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you.  They are not perfect but are always perfect for you.  ~Author Unknown

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    Happy Sunday, All!

    Love,

    Sister Bridget

  • The Journey to Love.

    Hey there!

    Here is a lovely story from the relationship site I have read many articles on: http://www.relationship-institute.com I found this story very moving. It is almost like a parable. I would VERY MUCH like to hear your take on this and what this story meant to you – what was your take home message from this? Please do post your comments!

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget Corfield

    The Journey to Love
     
    One fine summer's day a handsome young man named Dick and a beautiful young woman named Jane met and decided to go on a trip together.  They had heard of a miraculous place called Love, where they would feel the most magical and wonderful feelings they had ever felt, where all of their deepest dreams and desires would be fulfilled, and where they would live happily ever after. Since they weren't sure where Love was, they went to a travel agent to ask for directions. The travel agent took their money and led them to a special shimmering spiral path that got higher yet deeper with every step.  "Have fun, my dears! And oh yes, you may skip if you like!" Dick grabbed Jane's hand and they skipped around the spiral, laughing and singing as they went.
     
    Suddenly their euphoria was interrupted by a bedraggled older man crawling on his hands and knees. "Go back! Go back while you still can! Don't go any further! I lost everything I had in Love!"
     
    What an odd, strange man thought Dick and Jane. Whatever was he talking about? How could you possibly lose anything in Love? He was just too peculiar to take seriously, so they skipped right by him, their singing drowning out his pathetic, pleading voice.
     
    The sun was shining brilliantly, and fragrant wildflowers were blooming abundantly all around them as they merrily skipped along the path to Love. 
     
    They soon came upon a middle-aged couple, walking slowly toward them. The couple walked about fifteen feet apart yet in some grotesque way seemed to be walking together, though curiously their eyes never met. Each looked bored, apathetic, even depressed. Their bodies were alive but their souls seemed to have died a long, long time ago.
     
    Dick smiled and greeted the couple. "Lovely day, isn't it?" he beamed. No response, just a dull blank stare. Jane took up the cause. "Have you been to Love?" The woman raised her eyebrows slightly. The question seemed to bring a faint smile to her lips. She nodded her head weakly but said nothing. The man was now walking ahead of her.
     
    Dick and Jane held each tighter, then laughed a nervous giggle. Their exuberance clearly a decibel lower, they shrugged their shoulders and moved on. They KNEW that Love was the most wonderful place in the whole wide world. They congratulated themselves on their great judgment, and expressed sadness that not all couples were as smart as they.
     
    The terrain became a bit steeper, and a few clouds began to appear in the sky as a smiling, handsome, charismatic man walked toward them. "Hello fine sir," Dick said. "Have you been to Love?"  "Oh yes, it's a wonderful place indeed!" Relieved, Jane said, "Oh that's great to hear because we've met a few quirky people who didn't seem to really like Love that much." The man continued. "Well, to tell you the truth, I never go past this point myself. I can't see a good reason to go any farther. But I do enjoy the journey from the beginning to here so much, I just keep going back and doing it over and over again. I love Love!"
     
    Dick looked puzzled. "But is this Love? Are we there yet? The path continues as far as I can see!" The man laughed loudly. "No you're right, technically you're not even close to Love. But hey, don't get hung up on details. Come back to the beginning with me. Start all over again with someone new. The weather's always great and the scenery is gorgeous!"
     
    Dick was tempted, but Jane insisted they go on. After all, they were different than all the others. They KNEW what Love was and how to get there. And she certainly didn't want to go to Love with anyone other than Dick. 
    Soon the skies grew dark and menacing, and an intense thunderstorm filled the sky with sound and fury. They desperately looked for shelter. A friendly couple appeared out of nowhere, who offered them an umbrella and invited them into a dry cave to share some tea and conversation. Dick and Jane instantly felt safe and open with this warm and engaging couple. They realized the man was blind, and they felt sorry for him. Yet he seemed so happy! And he radiated the calm aura of one who can see the deepest truth in any situation.
     
    "Have you two been to Love?" Jane asked. The man laughed. "Oh yes, in fact we're there right now! But it's a long journey, you see, and you must be prepared." Dick responded. "What do you mean prepared? We were just told to follow this path." The blind man went on. "Well for any journey to be safe and successful, be it to Love, Chicago or Tibet, you need a trusty road map and guidebook, to benefit from the learnings of those who have gone before you; you need a reliable vehicle to get you there; you need people you can call for help if you should get sick or break down before reaching your destination; and you need enough extra supplies to protect you so you'll survive when the going gets rough. Do you have these things?" A twinkle seemed to emanate from his eye.
     
    Jane stammered. "Well, we…I mean we sort of…" Dick jumped in. "Oh yes, we're very ready for this journey."
     
    The blind man smiled as the sky began to clear. "Well good then. Because if you're prepared, the journey to Love will be the most wonderful journey of your life. I wish you all the best." He extended his hands outward. They embraced for a long moment, and Jane thanked the couple for their kindness. Dick opened the umbrella, grabbed Jane's hand, and together they headed out into the light rain. Without saying a word, perfectly in sync, they turned and slowly began walking back, back down the path together, gently squeezing their interlocked hands.
  • You have the ability to make someone’s day!

    There's one sad truth in life I've found
    While journeying east and west –
    The only folks we really wound
    Are those we love the best.
    We flatter those we scarcely know,
    We please the fleeting guest,
    And deal full many a thoughtless blow
    To those who love us best.
    ~Ella Wheeler Wilcox

    So, what are you waiting for ????? Do something nice for someone you love today!

    (and if it is your HD run it past your caseworker first!)

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

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  • Squirrel Armor — Really.

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    I'm not really sure the WHY of all this – but if your want to read more about it, you can here.

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    It just made me laugh, and want to go watch Monty Python 😉

    Have a Great Day!

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget Corfield

  • How having a positive outlook effects our bodies.

    Hi There,

    This article came across my blogreader the other day, and I felt it was just too important not to pass along. Most of the references in this article are about how a positive attitude effects us in disease. But just imagine how much better we would feel if we tried to keep out attitudes positive when we are healthy!

    I hope you all find some aspect of this article helpful 😉

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

    ***begin article***

    Studies show that having a positive attitude could make you less likely to suffer heart attacks, strokes, and pain from conditions like arthritis.

    But what if you have already gotten the devastating diagnosis?

    Can an upbeat outlook make a difference?

    "It's hard sometimes when the doctors come in because they look at my scans, and I know they don't look good," explains Kristin Kettle.

    This 36-year-old mother of two has stage-four, metastatic colon cancer.

    "I've been through 13 rounds of chemotherapy within the last seven months, I think," Kristin says.

    Instead of crying, she laughs with friends at her "chemo parties." Each one has a theme, and it has nothing to do with cancer.

    But can a positive attitude affect the outcome of disease? In a
    Johns Hopkins study, researchers followed nearly 600 people with a family history of heart disease. Those with a positive outlook were half as likely to experience a heart event.

    "Attitude is all the difference in the world, and think about it: attitude is a choice," explains Dr. Robert P. Shannon, an assistant professor at the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, Florida.

    While scientific studies on cancer show mixed results, one found breast cancer patients with feelings of hopelessness are less likely to survive.

    Marilyn Wattman-Feldman says her upbeat outlook may not cure her stage-four breast cancer, but it's made her physically and emotionally stronger.

    "I had to look at everything, even the chemo treatments, and find something funny about what was going on, as hard as that was," she says.

    They are strong-minded women who haven't forgotten how to have fun, even during the fight of their lives.

    A recent study of healthy women found optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years compared to those who were more pessimistic.

    More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women.

    OPTIMISTIC HEALING
    REPORT #1576

    BACKGROUND:

    Many medical experts believe that positive thinking and a positive attitude are beneficial when it comes to your health. While it has long been conjecture, in recent years, scientists have been gathering statistical proof that the mind-body connection can improve more than just mental health.

    Once the purview of New-Age books that claim to show the path to healing, the evidence rests in the rise in clinical trials.

    GENERAL HEALTH:

    Women who are optimistic about life live longer and are healthier than those who are pessimistic, according to a new study presented at the American Psychosomatic Society's annual meeting.

    Another report in the Boston Globe reports that women who tend to be more trusting of others also live longer than those who are cynical. The study conducted by the Women's Health Initiative looked at more than 97,000 healthy women ages 50 to 74.

    Optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years than those who were more pessimistic. More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women. The study does not prove that attitudes affect health or cause illness, but researchers say the association is worth further study.

    HEART HEALTH:

    A study shows optimism is good for heart health, at least among men. University of Rochester Medical Center researchers found men who believed they were at a lower-than-average risk for cardiovascular disease actually experienced a three-times lower incidence of death from heart attacks and stroke.

    Another study out of Johns Hopkins finds people with a good attitude were half as likely as their less optimistic counterparts to experience a heart event such as sudden death, heart attack or chest pain that required surgery.

    Researchers observed the power of positive thinking even after adjusting for traditional risk factors for heart disease, including cholesterol, weight and cigarette smoking.

    "It's possible that the people with the positive attitude produce lower levels of stress hormones, which helps protect them from disease, " Diane M. Becker, Sc.D., M.P.H., senior author of the study, was quoted as saying.

    ***end article****

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  • Quote for today…..

    for those of my beloved clients who are struggling with waiting…..

                    "All great achievements require time."
                                     ~~~Maya Angelou

    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

  • The Journey by Mary Oliver

    This has always been one of my most favorite poems. Life is a journey – spellwork is a journey – the theme of Journeying can be applied to our lives in many ways over and over again. I read this poem for the first time when I was at a very low point in my life, and found it very empowering. I hope some part of it strikes a cord with each of you as well.
    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

                                                    The Journey
                                                         ~~~~by Mary Oliver
    One day you finally knew
    what you had to do, and began,
    though the voices around you
    kept shouting
    their bad advice—
    though the whole house
    began to tremble
    and you felt the old tug
    at your ankles.
    "Mend my life!"
    each voice cried.
    But you didn't stop.
    You knew what you had to do,
    though the wind pried
    with its stiff fingers
    at the very foundations,
    though their melancholy
    was terrible.
    It was already late
    enough, and a wild night,
    and the road full of fallen
    branches and stones.
    But little by little,
    as you left their voices behind,
    the stars began to burn
    through the sheets of clouds,
    and there was a new voice
    which you slowly
    recognized as your own,
    that kept you company
    as you strode deeper and deeper
    into the world,
    determined to do
    the only thing you could do—
    determined to save
    the only life you could save.

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  • June Full Moon ~~ Sunday, June 7, 2009

    June's full moon is known by many other names, with some interesting lore behind each.

    Full Strawberry Moon – This name was universal to
    every Algonquin tribe. However, in Europe they called it the Rose Moon.
    Also because the relatively short season for harvesting strawberries
    comes each year during the month of June . . . so the full Moon that
    occurs during that month was christened for the strawberry!

    The Green Corn Moon, The Flower Moon, The Planting Moon.

    It is sometimes known as the Full Flower Moon since in most areas of the country flowers are abundant.

    The Honey Moon as this is typically the first month in North America when honey can be harvested.

    Lotus Moon in Chinese astrology.

    Moon of the Horses in Celtic Lore.

    Native Americans did not domesticate cows, so it was these settlers who
    named the May full moon the Milk Moon. During May cows, goats, and
    sheep enjoy sprouting weeds, grasses, and herbs in the pastures and
    produce lots of rich milk, full of vitamins.

    Here is a poem about this moon:

    Flower Moon

    May Moon, Milk moon, you hide
    in the rain. Meadows are wild
    with lupine, columbine and phlox.
    Tulips and violets open their hearts.

    It is time to plant the corn. Young
    squirrels practice mating in the garden,
    all four in a tumble of spring, taking
    turns being boy, being girl. Flower Moon,

    this year you bring sorrow, and pain. Old
    friends fade; old knees complain of the rain.
    Corn Planting Moon, sixty times I have slept
    beneath you. Milk Moon, smile on me.

            ~~~~anon.

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  • How to Center Yourself

    Here is another great article I found by the author of Emotional Freedom- Dr. Judith Orloff. I thought it might be helpful to some of you when you start feeling a little off kilter energetically.

    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    **begin article***

    How to Center Yourself

    by Judith Orloff MD

    Watch your diet. Notice what foods feel good, which do not. Your body will
    tell you what it requires. Usually, denser foods-meat, chicken, fish–have
    more of a grounding effect than grains, vegetables, or fruit. I'm not a big
    meat eater but if my body announces, "I need a hamburger," I will devour one.
    Listen to your body's signals. Notice how they fluctuate.

    Do mundane tasks. Mindfully focusing on everyday chores can bring you back
    to your body. Grocery shopping, going to the bank, paying bills, washing
    clothes, taking out the trash, or cleaning the yard can be grounding. These
    activities anchor you in the here-and-now by drawing on the luminous nature
    of the ordinary.

    Practice Anonymous Service. Do something nice for someone without taking
    credit for it. Hold the elevator for a little old lady. Let someone go
    before you in line. Serve food to the homeless. Give a charitable donation.
    Anything that shifts the focus from you to helping others. No deed is too
    small. The act of giving–especially when you're most frazzled–opens your
    heart, is regenerative.

    Spend Time in Nature. As poet William Wordsworth put it, civilization can be
    "too much with us." People, cars, the news, telephone cables matting the sky,
    all can keep us from our bodies, divorce us from what is natural. Regularly
    take at least a few hours out from your routine. Visit the beach, a forest, a
    canyon, a river. Choose a spot that moves you. Aboriginals seek out windswept
    plains for purification. Native Americans go to fresh streams to clarify
    their inner vision. (Any water source, including a bath or shower, can
    cleanse and purify.) Tibetan monks pilgrimage to mountaintops. Allow yourself
    to draw on the earth's primordial forces. Savor the beauty of a twilight,
    sunset, or dawn. Let them nourish and restore you.

    Meditate. Sitting in meditation is a life-line to your center, to the
    earth. By calming the mind, you can re-align with your essence. Close your
    eyes. Focus on your breath. Then gently extend your awareness downward to
    strata, bedrock, minerals, and soil. From the base of your spine begin to
    feel a continuity with the earth's core. Picture having a long tail that
    roots in that center. Allow the earth's energy to infuse your body and
    stabilize you. If you meditate for five minutes or an hour this is sacred
    time.

    **end article**

    more articles can be found at Dr Orloff's website drjudithorloff.com