“Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.”
~~~~ William James
Hey there!
Here is a lovely story from the relationship site I have read many articles on: http://www.relationship-institute.com I found this story very moving. It is almost like a parable. I would VERY MUCH like to hear your take on this and what this story meant to you – what was your take home message from this? Please do post your comments!
Light and Love
Sister Bridget Corfield
There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west –
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.
~Ella Wheeler Wilcox
So, what are you waiting for ????? Do something nice for someone you love today!
(and if it is your HD run it past your caseworker first!)
Light and Love
Sister Bridget
I'm not really sure the WHY of all this – but if your want to read more about it, you can here.
It just made me laugh, and want to go watch Monty Python 😉
Have a Great Day!
Light and Love
Sister Bridget Corfield
Hi There,
This article came across my blogreader the other day, and I felt it was just too important not to pass along. Most of the references in this article are about how a positive attitude effects us in disease. But just imagine how much better we would feel if we tried to keep out attitudes positive when we are healthy!
I hope you all find some aspect of this article helpful 😉
Light and Love
Sister Bridget
***begin article***
Studies show that having a positive attitude could make you less likely to suffer heart attacks, strokes, and pain from conditions like arthritis.
But what if you have already gotten the devastating diagnosis?
Can an upbeat outlook make a difference?
"It's hard sometimes when the doctors come in because they look at my scans, and I know they don't look good," explains Kristin Kettle.
This 36-year-old mother of two has stage-four, metastatic colon cancer.
"I've been through 13 rounds of chemotherapy within the last seven months, I think," Kristin says.
Instead of crying, she laughs with friends at her "chemo parties." Each one has a theme, and it has nothing to do with cancer.
But can a positive attitude affect the outcome of disease? In a
Johns Hopkins study, researchers followed nearly 600 people with a family history of heart disease. Those with a positive outlook were half as likely to experience a heart event.
"Attitude is all the difference in the world, and think about it: attitude is a choice," explains Dr. Robert P. Shannon, an assistant professor at the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, Florida.
While scientific studies on cancer show mixed results, one found breast cancer patients with feelings of hopelessness are less likely to survive.
Marilyn Wattman-Feldman says her upbeat outlook may not cure her stage-four breast cancer, but it's made her physically and emotionally stronger.
"I had to look at everything, even the chemo treatments, and find something funny about what was going on, as hard as that was," she says.
They are strong-minded women who haven't forgotten how to have fun, even during the fight of their lives.
A recent study of healthy women found optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years compared to those who were more pessimistic.
More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women.
OPTIMISTIC HEALING
REPORT #1576
BACKGROUND:
Many medical experts believe that positive thinking and a positive attitude are beneficial when it comes to your health. While it has long been conjecture, in recent years, scientists have been gathering statistical proof that the mind-body connection can improve more than just mental health.
Once the purview of New-Age books that claim to show the path to healing, the evidence rests in the rise in clinical trials.
GENERAL HEALTH:
Women who are optimistic about life live longer and are healthier than those who are pessimistic, according to a new study presented at the American Psychosomatic Society's annual meeting.
Another report in the Boston Globe reports that women who tend to be more trusting of others also live longer than those who are cynical. The study conducted by the Women's Health Initiative looked at more than 97,000 healthy women ages 50 to 74.
Optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years than those who were more pessimistic. More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women. The study does not prove that attitudes affect health or cause illness, but researchers say the association is worth further study.
HEART HEALTH:
A study shows optimism is good for heart health, at least among men. University of Rochester Medical Center researchers found men who believed they were at a lower-than-average risk for cardiovascular disease actually experienced a three-times lower incidence of death from heart attacks and stroke.
Another study out of Johns Hopkins finds people with a good attitude were half as likely as their less optimistic counterparts to experience a heart event such as sudden death, heart attack or chest pain that required surgery.
Researchers observed the power of positive thinking even after adjusting for traditional risk factors for heart disease, including cholesterol, weight and cigarette smoking.
"It's possible that the people with the positive attitude produce lower levels of stress hormones, which helps protect them from disease, " Diane M. Becker, Sc.D., M.P.H., senior author of the study, was quoted as saying.
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for those of my beloved clients who are struggling with waiting…..
"All great achievements require time."
~~~Maya Angelou
Light and Love
Sister Bridget Corfield
www.spellmaker.com
This has always been one of my most favorite poems. Life is a journey – spellwork is a journey – the theme of Journeying can be applied to our lives in many ways over and over again. I read this poem for the first time when I was at a very low point in my life, and found it very empowering. I hope some part of it strikes a cord with each of you as well.
Light and Love
Sister Bridget Corfield
www.spellmaker.com
June's full moon is known by many other names, with some interesting lore behind each.
Full Strawberry Moon – This name was universal to
every Algonquin tribe. However, in Europe they called it the Rose Moon.
Also because the relatively short season for harvesting strawberries
comes each year during the month of June . . . so the full Moon that
occurs during that month was christened for the strawberry!
The Green Corn Moon, The Flower Moon, The Planting Moon.
It is sometimes known as the Full Flower Moon since in most areas of the country flowers are abundant.
The Honey Moon as this is typically the first month in North America when honey can be harvested.
Lotus Moon in Chinese astrology.
Moon of the Horses in Celtic Lore.
Native Americans did not domesticate cows, so it was these settlers who
named the May full moon the Milk Moon. During May cows, goats, and
sheep enjoy sprouting weeds, grasses, and herbs in the pastures and
produce lots of rich milk, full of vitamins.
Here is a poem about this moon:
May Moon, Milk moon, you hide
in the rain. Meadows are wild
with lupine, columbine and phlox.
Tulips and violets open their hearts.
It is time to plant the corn. Young
squirrels practice mating in the garden,
all four in a tumble of spring, taking
turns being boy, being girl. Flower Moon,
this year you bring sorrow, and pain. Old
friends fade; old knees complain of the rain.
Corn Planting Moon, sixty times I have slept
beneath you. Milk Moon, smile on me.
~~~~anon.
Light and Love
Sister Bridget Corfield
www.spellmaker.com
**begin article***
by Judith Orloff MD
Watch your diet. Notice what foods feel good, which do not. Your body will
tell you what it requires. Usually, denser foods-meat, chicken, fish–have
more of a grounding effect than grains, vegetables, or fruit. I'm not a big
meat eater but if my body announces, "I need a hamburger," I will devour one.
Listen to your body's signals. Notice how they fluctuate.
Do mundane tasks. Mindfully focusing on everyday chores can bring you back
to your body. Grocery shopping, going to the bank, paying bills, washing
clothes, taking out the trash, or cleaning the yard can be grounding. These
activities anchor you in the here-and-now by drawing on the luminous nature
of the ordinary.
Practice Anonymous Service. Do something nice for someone without taking
credit for it. Hold the elevator for a little old lady. Let someone go
before you in line. Serve food to the homeless. Give a charitable donation.
Anything that shifts the focus from you to helping others. No deed is too
small. The act of giving–especially when you're most frazzled–opens your
heart, is regenerative.
Spend Time in Nature. As poet William Wordsworth put it, civilization can be
"too much with us." People, cars, the news, telephone cables matting the sky,
all can keep us from our bodies, divorce us from what is natural. Regularly
take at least a few hours out from your routine. Visit the beach, a forest, a
canyon, a river. Choose a spot that moves you. Aboriginals seek out windswept
plains for purification. Native Americans go to fresh streams to clarify
their inner vision. (Any water source, including a bath or shower, can
cleanse and purify.) Tibetan monks pilgrimage to mountaintops. Allow yourself
to draw on the earth's primordial forces. Savor the beauty of a twilight,
sunset, or dawn. Let them nourish and restore you.
Meditate. Sitting in meditation is a life-line to your center, to the
earth. By calming the mind, you can re-align with your essence. Close your
eyes. Focus on your breath. Then gently extend your awareness downward to
strata, bedrock, minerals, and soil. From the base of your spine begin to
feel a continuity with the earth's core. Picture having a long tail that
roots in that center. Allow the earth's energy to infuse your body and
stabilize you. If you meditate for five minutes or an hour this is sacred
time.
**end article**
more articles can be found at Dr Orloff's website drjudithorloff.com