Category: Power of the Positive

  • What Happens Tomorrow?

    …..this is such a common question I hear from clients. It is so easy in the process of magick to get caught up in the minutia of day to day events, and lose our sight of the long term goal.

    "S/he un-friended me on FB"

    "S/he has a new friend on FB"

    "S/he saw me online but did not chat with me"

    "S/he drove past me but did not wave"

    etc etc etc

    the list could go on, but you get the idea (PS these are REALLY very common things I hear from folks, I am in no way singleling anyone out at all – please dont think that). While in the moment, and with the emotional state we can be in with casting and processing (Yup – the spell CASTER does some processing as well) I can see how these events listed above, and others, can make one thing the world is falling apart…..but if we just take a beat, and a few deep breaths, and set our sights on the long term goal again, things will resume there proper perspective – I promise! Waiting is hard – I often think it is the hardest part of things – but it is also the extremely important! The calmer and more centered and more positive you can stay in the waiting peroid, the better shape you will be in physically, emotionally, and spiritually when your results begin to manifest 😉 That is NOT to be underrated. You cant give from an empty cup, and there arent any awards for handwringing, either. Make the best of the waiting period, keep your eye on the GOAL LINE, not on the ant on the blade of grass at your feet right now, and you will get to the finish line a healthier, fuller YOU.

    Hmmmm – not sure where that rant came from, but I feel better now 😉

    Anyway, here is a song I found (its a goodie) to help you keep your eye on the goal, and let go of the stress of today.

    What Happens Tomorrow by Duran Duran

    Child, don't you worry
    It's enough you're growing up in such a hurry
    Brings you down the news they sell you
    To put in your mind that all mankind is a failure

    But nobody knows what's gonna happen tomorrow
    We try not to show how frightened we are
    If you let me I'll protect you however I can

    You've got to believe
    it'll be alright in the end

    Fighting, because we're so close
    There are times we punish those who we need the most

    No, we can't wait for a saviour
    Only got ourselves to blame for this behaviour

    And nobody knows what's gonna happen tomorrow
    We try not to show how frightened we are
    It would seem lonely, if you were the only star in the night

    You've got to believe
    it'll be alright in the end

    You've got to believe
    it'll be alright again

    time is a river
    a silent icy river
    pulls us all
    running deep
    deep and fast enough to get lost down in the flow
    thrashing around me
    tiny lives mean everything

    And nobody knows what's gonna happen tomorrow
    So don't let go, now we've come this far
    Hope I have peace
    Understand me
    you're never alone

    We've got to believe
    it'll be alright in the end

    nobody knows

    You've got to believe
    it'll be alright my friend

    So don't let go

    Unless we believe
    it'll be alright again

    Nobody knows

    ~~end song~~

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  • Great motivational song — Working on a Dream.

    Hey there!

    Following in the fine footsteps of my dear Sister DJ Candi, I am posting the lyrics to this great song the I heard the other day. Its not so much a song to be used during spellwork, but one to be used before beginning session, to help get you revved up and your energy lifted. Its also a great song to play while driving with the windows down on a warm summer day!

    Working On A Dream by Bruce Springsteen

    Out here the nights are long, the days are lonely
    I think of you and I'm working on a dream
    I'm working on a dream

    Now the cards I've drawn's a rough hand, darling
    I straighten the back and I'm working on a dream
    I'm working on a dream

    Come on!

    I'm working on a dream
    Though sometimes it feels so far away
    I'm working on a dream
    And I know it will be mine someday

    Rain pourin' down, I swing my hammer
    My hands are rough from working on a dream
    I'm working on a dream

    Let's go!

    I'm working on a dream
    Though trouble can feel like it's here to stay
    I'm working on a dream
    Well our love will chase trouble away

    Alright!

    [whistling interlude]
    That's professional whistling right there!

    I'm working on a dream
    Though it can feel so far away
    I'm working on a dream
    Our love will make it real someday

    The sun rise up, I climb the ladder
    The new day breaks and I'm working on a dream
    I'm working on a dream
    I'm working on a dream
    I'm working on a dream

    Hey!

    I'm working on a dream
    Though it can feel so far away
    I'm working on a dream
    Our love will make it real someday
    I'm working on a dream
    Though it can feel so far away
    I'm working on a dream
    And our love will make it real someday

    S

  • Take time to……..

    This poem goes right hand in hand with what is happenin' over on Mambo Sam's blog. I hope you enjoy it and are doing well with Mambo's exercises~

     

    Take time to…. by Anon.

    Take time to think; it is the source of power.
    Take time to need; it is the foundation of wisdom
     
    Take time to play; it is the secret of staying young.
    Take time to be quiet; it is the opportunity to seek thy soul.
     
    Take time to be aware; it is the opportunity to help others.
    Take time to love and be loved; it is God's greatest gift.
     
    Take time to laugh; it is the music of the soul.
    Take time to be friendly; it is the road to happiness.
     
    Take time to dream; it is what the future is made of.

    Take time to meditate; it is the greatest power on earth.

     

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  • You have the ability to make someone’s day!

    There's one sad truth in life I've found
    While journeying east and west –
    The only folks we really wound
    Are those we love the best.
    We flatter those we scarcely know,
    We please the fleeting guest,
    And deal full many a thoughtless blow
    To those who love us best.
    ~Ella Wheeler Wilcox

    So, what are you waiting for ????? Do something nice for someone you love today!

    (and if it is your HD run it past your caseworker first!)

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

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  • How having a positive outlook effects our bodies.

    Hi There,

    This article came across my blogreader the other day, and I felt it was just too important not to pass along. Most of the references in this article are about how a positive attitude effects us in disease. But just imagine how much better we would feel if we tried to keep out attitudes positive when we are healthy!

    I hope you all find some aspect of this article helpful 😉

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

    ***begin article***

    Studies show that having a positive attitude could make you less likely to suffer heart attacks, strokes, and pain from conditions like arthritis.

    But what if you have already gotten the devastating diagnosis?

    Can an upbeat outlook make a difference?

    "It's hard sometimes when the doctors come in because they look at my scans, and I know they don't look good," explains Kristin Kettle.

    This 36-year-old mother of two has stage-four, metastatic colon cancer.

    "I've been through 13 rounds of chemotherapy within the last seven months, I think," Kristin says.

    Instead of crying, she laughs with friends at her "chemo parties." Each one has a theme, and it has nothing to do with cancer.

    But can a positive attitude affect the outcome of disease? In a
    Johns Hopkins study, researchers followed nearly 600 people with a family history of heart disease. Those with a positive outlook were half as likely to experience a heart event.

    "Attitude is all the difference in the world, and think about it: attitude is a choice," explains Dr. Robert P. Shannon, an assistant professor at the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, Florida.

    While scientific studies on cancer show mixed results, one found breast cancer patients with feelings of hopelessness are less likely to survive.

    Marilyn Wattman-Feldman says her upbeat outlook may not cure her stage-four breast cancer, but it's made her physically and emotionally stronger.

    "I had to look at everything, even the chemo treatments, and find something funny about what was going on, as hard as that was," she says.

    They are strong-minded women who haven't forgotten how to have fun, even during the fight of their lives.

    A recent study of healthy women found optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years compared to those who were more pessimistic.

    More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women.

    OPTIMISTIC HEALING
    REPORT #1576

    BACKGROUND:

    Many medical experts believe that positive thinking and a positive attitude are beneficial when it comes to your health. While it has long been conjecture, in recent years, scientists have been gathering statistical proof that the mind-body connection can improve more than just mental health.

    Once the purview of New-Age books that claim to show the path to healing, the evidence rests in the rise in clinical trials.

    GENERAL HEALTH:

    Women who are optimistic about life live longer and are healthier than those who are pessimistic, according to a new study presented at the American Psychosomatic Society's annual meeting.

    Another report in the Boston Globe reports that women who tend to be more trusting of others also live longer than those who are cynical. The study conducted by the Women's Health Initiative looked at more than 97,000 healthy women ages 50 to 74.

    Optimistic women had a 14-percent lower risk of death from any cause after eight years than those who were more pessimistic. More cynical women had a 16-percent higher risk of dying than more trusting women. The study does not prove that attitudes affect health or cause illness, but researchers say the association is worth further study.

    HEART HEALTH:

    A study shows optimism is good for heart health, at least among men. University of Rochester Medical Center researchers found men who believed they were at a lower-than-average risk for cardiovascular disease actually experienced a three-times lower incidence of death from heart attacks and stroke.

    Another study out of Johns Hopkins finds people with a good attitude were half as likely as their less optimistic counterparts to experience a heart event such as sudden death, heart attack or chest pain that required surgery.

    Researchers observed the power of positive thinking even after adjusting for traditional risk factors for heart disease, including cholesterol, weight and cigarette smoking.

    "It's possible that the people with the positive attitude produce lower levels of stress hormones, which helps protect them from disease, " Diane M. Becker, Sc.D., M.P.H., senior author of the study, was quoted as saying.

    ***end article****

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  • How to Center Yourself

    Here is another great article I found by the author of Emotional Freedom- Dr. Judith Orloff. I thought it might be helpful to some of you when you start feeling a little off kilter energetically.

    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget Corfield
    www.spellmaker.com

    **begin article***

    How to Center Yourself

    by Judith Orloff MD

    Watch your diet. Notice what foods feel good, which do not. Your body will
    tell you what it requires. Usually, denser foods-meat, chicken, fish–have
    more of a grounding effect than grains, vegetables, or fruit. I'm not a big
    meat eater but if my body announces, "I need a hamburger," I will devour one.
    Listen to your body's signals. Notice how they fluctuate.

    Do mundane tasks. Mindfully focusing on everyday chores can bring you back
    to your body. Grocery shopping, going to the bank, paying bills, washing
    clothes, taking out the trash, or cleaning the yard can be grounding. These
    activities anchor you in the here-and-now by drawing on the luminous nature
    of the ordinary.

    Practice Anonymous Service. Do something nice for someone without taking
    credit for it. Hold the elevator for a little old lady. Let someone go
    before you in line. Serve food to the homeless. Give a charitable donation.
    Anything that shifts the focus from you to helping others. No deed is too
    small. The act of giving–especially when you're most frazzled–opens your
    heart, is regenerative.

    Spend Time in Nature. As poet William Wordsworth put it, civilization can be
    "too much with us." People, cars, the news, telephone cables matting the sky,
    all can keep us from our bodies, divorce us from what is natural. Regularly
    take at least a few hours out from your routine. Visit the beach, a forest, a
    canyon, a river. Choose a spot that moves you. Aboriginals seek out windswept
    plains for purification. Native Americans go to fresh streams to clarify
    their inner vision. (Any water source, including a bath or shower, can
    cleanse and purify.) Tibetan monks pilgrimage to mountaintops. Allow yourself
    to draw on the earth's primordial forces. Savor the beauty of a twilight,
    sunset, or dawn. Let them nourish and restore you.

    Meditate. Sitting in meditation is a life-line to your center, to the
    earth. By calming the mind, you can re-align with your essence. Close your
    eyes. Focus on your breath. Then gently extend your awareness downward to
    strata, bedrock, minerals, and soil. From the base of your spine begin to
    feel a continuity with the earth's core. Picture having a long tail that
    roots in that center. Allow the earth's energy to infuse your body and
    stabilize you. If you meditate for five minutes or an hour this is sacred
    time.

    **end article**

    more articles can be found at Dr Orloff's website drjudithorloff.com

  • Mohawk Indian Prayer

    Hey All-
    I think that thinking its finally spring yet its 20 degrees outside is getting to my head! Cabin fever of the worst kind. The calender says its Spring, and it is light much later already, but its still cold and snowy. Blech! I love this prayer below, and have been saying it every day hoping it will hurry the grass to green up soon! ( I know, but a girl can dream, cant she?)
    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget

    Mohawk Indian Prayer

    Oh Great Spirit, Creator of all things;
    Human Beings, trees, grass, berries.
    Help us, be kind to us.
    Let us be happy on earth.
    Let us lead our children
    To a good life and old age.
    These our people; give them good minds
    To love one another.
    Oh Great Spirit,
    Be kind to us
    Give these people the favor
    To see green trees,
    Green grass, flowers, and berries
    This next spring;
    So we all meet again
    Oh Great Spirit,
    We ask of you.

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  • Prayer for today.

    Hi There,
    I received this prayer in my inbox today from a dear client. Reading it made me feel so empowered I just had to pass it along…….

    St. Theresa's Prayer:

     'May today there be peace within. May you trust that you are exactly where you

     are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of

     faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you have received, and

     pass on the love that has been given to you. May you be content with yourself

     just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your

     soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and every

     one of us.'

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    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget

  • Writing your Personal Mission Statement – stick to the basics

    Hi There!
    Earlier in the year, I posted about Personal Mission Statements. Basically, this is a paragraph of about 3 to 5 sentences, that reflects your core beliefs and goals for your life. Think of your mission statement as a living, breathing entity, that will change and grow as you change and  grow nd discover new things about yourself along your life's path. This is hardly something that is written in stone, but a work in progress, just as we are works in progress 😉 Below are some general guidelines to help get you started:

    1. Focus on the positive! Write your phrases as what you want to be , not about what you don't want to be. If you find you have written something negative, rephrase it in a positive manner.
    2. Think about the qualities, actions, characteristics and habits that you have in you that you admire, or that you would like to strive towards.
    3.
    Create a mission statement that will guide you in your
    day-to-day actions and decisions. Make it a part of your
    everyday life.
    4.Think about how your mission statement effects every area of your life – relationships, career, family, financial. Your mission statement is meant to bring balance into your life, and should positively effect every area of your life.
    5. Be sure to include an emotional component! Describe positively how you want to FEEL inside about your self and your life!
    6. Start with an affirmative word like "I will…." or "I am….."
    7. Take as much time as you need. Life is not a sprint, but a marathon.  Take some time in thoughtful reflection about who you are and where you are and what your goals are.

    Here are some phrases that you could possibly use to help you get started:

    "I will  live each day with …[ fill in the blank ]… so that …[what is your goal]. I will do this by …(put specific habits or behaviors here]."

    "I am known by …[ people in your life ]… as someone who is …[fill in the blank]…;  "

    Sooooo……give it a ripple, and if you like, post your statement in the comments section of this blog, and we can all work on them together, and help each other out.

    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget

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  • New Beginnings……it’s never too late.

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    Happy 2009! With the Inauguration earlier this week, and so much talk on the tv and news and web about reinventing America, about banding together and helping each other, it really got me thinking about new beginnings and what that means to me.

    The more and more I thought about it, I dont believe its EVER too late for a new beginning, to begin reinventing oneself, to head for a path full of light rather than dark. Sometimes I have been stuck in quite a funk, or a rut, or what have you, just like many of the people that write me (Believe me when I tell you I HAVE been where you are, and I do know what you are going thru!). This time of year is especially bad, as it is when we often see New Years Resolutions go by the wayside, the days are short, and in many areas, the weather is bad. It can be a very low time for people. And the whole Resolution gig – who came up with that? Not anyone who lived in today's chaotic world!

    After surfing the net a bit, I came across the idea of something called a Personal Mission Statement. Some of you business-minded folks might know about Mission Statements as they relate to businesses and corporations. Well, a Personal Mission Statement isn't all that much different. It is a mission statement, or collection of affirmations about how you want to live your life. What values guide you? What long term goals do you desire? Think of a personal mission statement as a new years resolution that you have a lifetime to work towards – that if you stray from your path, the next day you get up and dust yourself off and turn your compass back towards your mission statement.

    Over the next few blogs, I will go over the steps to writing a personal mission statement, and if you have any questions, please do post them in the comments. You can even post your results after each step if you like 😉 I think that would be encouraging to others as well! I am really looking forward  to this process, and I hope you enjoy it.

    On a side note – those of you with the Winter doldrums have no fear — February is coming! I know, I know, I hear you, February is still Winter……. BUT it is also the month of the Spellmaker Family month long ritual to Erzulie Freda! And that ALWAYS warms things up where ever you may be! Keep your eyes pealed for an email from Mambo Sam about Erzulie Fest 2009!

    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget