Hey Y'all!
Mambo Sam has graciously posted the instructions for the Sobo ritual along with suggestions for other work that can be done to help in these difficult financial times as well. Remember, no purchase is necessary to participate.
Light and Love
Sister Bridget
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Sobo Ritual Dec 9th 2008
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How Do They Do That? Spellmaker Potions!
Hello my dear spell-casting friends! đ
Very often people want to know how we do things around here at the Spellmaker offices! So I thought I would start a series of posts that let you know a little bit about how we make certain items and what kind of care goes into the products that we send you.
One of our most popular products are our Bayou Vodou Potions! These are extremely strong and powerful wearable (never drinkable) potions. The very history of the potions is so wonderful and dear to my heart that m My Aunt Fannie (who has now passed away) is the original creator of the potions that we use today. I have had my own hand in them, of course, but for the most part I have kept as close as possible to her original formulae.
It took me quite a bit of time to reproduce the forumale in the first place. Aunt Fannie wasn’t trying to be difficult, I promise you, but there was a lot of, "Well, honey, I think I put about, oh, I don’t know, an ounce or two of rose oil in this one… or wait.. no, well, yes, I think it was definitely an ounce or two." LOL. So that took quite a bit of time to get it down to what we both remembered.
So how do we make them? đ Like the majority of our products, we mix them right here in our office. I used to make them a gallon at a time, but I actually like making a smaller batch. I don’t even know why! Maybe I just like to make them!! LOL. That way if I only make a quart at a time I have to do it more often. đ Most often I make them from start to finish. Occasionally Parran Matt makes them up and does his part of the consecration and then I do my part of the consecration. We find it especially powerful on the love potions if we do our consecration together. It feel really awesome to put a little bit of our own love in a product that is meant to help other people attain their happiness.
Following my hard-won written forumale, we mix the oils in one at a time and allow each one to "rest" on top of the next one. Each potion contains 7 or more different oils. Many herbal and flower oils are used. After all the oils are added, the bottle is very gently rotated to blend the oils without bruising them. Hand blending of delicate oils without the usage of any metal tools keeps them as clear as possible (although some clouding is usually inevitable) and is said to help them retain their inherent ingredients.
After they are mixed and blended, they are consecrated. They are then bottled up into their individual containers and await your order! đ
I really wanted to share with you all a picture of my Aunt Fannie. Unfortunately, there are some of her family members who are less than enthusiastic about her memory (she did pass a few years ago) being linked with voodoo. SO, I set out to look for a picture of someone in a movie or something that might be a pretty good representation of what she looked like. WELL, you could have knocked me over with a feather when I found a picture of a painting by a Mr. Francoise Duparc that to me looks exactly like Aunt Fannie looked in her elder years (well, not the outfit, but the face and eyes are just incredibly like hers).
I was not familiar with Mr. Duparc’s work until now, but I thank him so much for this painting because it just so looks like my dear Auntie, the original creator of the potions that some of you are wearing as you read this!
Love, Mambo Sam
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~~~Healing Requests~~~
Hi There!
Along with being an Initiated Daughter of Marran Samantha Corfield and Parran Matthew Corfield in New Orleans Voodoo, I am also have been studying and practicing Reiki for many years. I am a Reiki Master and Teacher of both Usui-Tibetan and Karuna Reiki. If you would like to read more about Reiki, I have several articles posted here on my blog.
To submit a request, simply send me an email at bridget@spellmaker.com with your name and/or the name of the person (or animal- I love to work with pets as well!) you are requesting healing for. Every day, I will spend some time sending Reiki to everyone on the list.
Requests will be “cleaned out” on the first of each month unless you request otherwise. You are welcome to resubmit your request for as many months as you wish.
If you have any questions, please dont hesitate to ask.
Newly added to the Spellmaker.com arsenal of healing power offered is our Free Group Prayer Rituals. Check them out! You are welcome to join us in prayer or simply send in your request by email. Please see http://www.spellmaker.com/prayer.htm for details.
Also, please remember that Sister Candelaria’s prayer list and Mambo Sam’s Metaphysical Healing list are available for healing requests as well. Each method is different, each is powerful. If you or a loved one is in need, please do not hesitate to send in your requests.
Light and Love and In Service,
Sister Bridget
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Happy Easter!
While I realize that not everyone may celebrate Easter, let me say if you do, please have a happy and safe day. Enjoy your family, friends, and especially yourself.
The religious aspect of this holiday may be a Christian one to most, but there are also pagan aspects of the holiday. While Easter primarily serves as a day of remembrance and rejoicing over the Resurrection of Christ, many of the traditions and symbols of Easter are actually based on pagan traditions and symbols.
Since Easter has always taken place during the spring, it became interwined with pagan celebrations of the arrival of spring and renewal of life. In Europe and Asia, this time was dedicated to goddesses of fertility and birth. In Saxon mythology one of the main goddesses was known as "Oestre" or "Eastre." Quite a few authors and historians consider this goddess’s name to be the origin of the name "Easter."
What about those Easter eggs and rabbits? These are meant to symbolize reproduction and were thought to invoke the fertility of spring. Even the painted eggs and egg-hunts originated from pagan ceremonies of various cultures! Eggs were painted and hidden even by the Babylonians as part of the rites of the beginning of spring with vigorous contests proving strength and ability.
Just something to think about while you are enjoying those chocolate bunnies!
Love, Parran Matt
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Readings by Sister Bridget
As the initiated daughter of Mambo Samantha Corfield and Parran Matthew Corfield, Sister Bridget has received sacred tools and spiritual blessings of a true New Orleans Voodoo family directly from Mambo Sam and Parran Matt. This will aide her greatly in assisting you with these readings.
Sister Bridget was initiated into the family of Mambo Sam and Parran Matt as a Priestess of Ogoun. Under the guidance of Ogoun and teachings of her initiation, Sister Bridget can offer you different types of readings as well as being able to burn a special Voodoo lamp (with complete ritual) to Ogoun on your behalf. Information on all of readings and ritual offerings are below. If you still have questions after reading all the information, please write directly to Sister Bridget at bridget@spellmaker.com and she will gladly answer all questions.
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911readings now available! please see www.spellmaker.com/bridget.htm
TAROT READINGS: While she does specialize in love readings, Sister Bridget can read for you on any subject that you desire. If you have done spellwork with us here at Spellmaker, she can also help you in obtaining guidance regarding the effects, efficacy, and possible challenges of your spellwork.
Readings are offered either by email, in a secure chatroom, or by phone. (Please note that doing your reading in the chatroom does allow Sister Bridget to send you a transcript of the reading for future reference. This is highly recommended) Explore the world of tarot with Sister Bridget! We promise you will not be disappointed in her skill, spiritual gifts, and kindness.
PENDULUM OF OGOUN READINGS: You may now also order either separately or with your tarot reading, a Pendulum of Ogoun reading with Sister Bridget. Sister Bridget will use her sacred pendulum to Ogoun, along with “answer charts” in order to get you guidance directly from Ogoun. With these pendulum readings it is important to know that this is Ogoun’s answer to your question, not Sister Bridget’s interpretation of information for you. She is going to ask the question directly to her power guardian lwa, Ogoun, and get the answer from the pendulum as it is guided by Ogoun. When you order a pendulum reading, please plan on discussing with Sister Bridget how to frame your questions to get the most accurate answer.
To order a reading please see http://www.spellmaker.com/bridget.htm . Be sure to follow the link in the confirmation email to fill out the form with your information.
Help with phrasing questions for Tarot:
For sure, we when coming into a reading, as a client you will have things you desire clarification on. Knowing how to phrase questions well will help you get the most possible benefit from your reading. Here are some basic guidelines.
The Tarot will give you an overview of a situation and let you know what will happen if you choose to either do nothing and continue the way you are going, or take another path. The tarot itself is more about insight and guidance that black and white answers. Open ended questions seem to work best. Here are some examples:
Can you give me insight into …
What do I need to understand about …
What is the meaning of …
What is the lesson or purpose of …
What are the circumstances underlying …
How can I improve my chances of …
How might I …
What do I need to know about . . . ?
What internal and external influences are affecting my goal to�
What is the next step I need to take to achieve . . . ?
What is standing in the way of my . . . ?
How can I best overcome the obstacle of . . . ?
How can I be a better . . . ?
Which is the best choice between . . . ?
Asking closed ended questions limits the scope of advice that the cards can lend. Yes and No questions can be asked, but that then leaves us asking yet another question about what to do next. The cards themselves do not give specific names, places or dates. Although, general time frames can be interpreted by a skilled reader đ (We can address timelines in another post!) And always, if you are having trouble framing a question, just describe what it is you wish to know about, what information you are seeking, and we can work together on phrasing your question. No worries!
Keep in mind that there are always challenges and obstacles in life and the Tarot never gives an inevitable outcome but, rather, a possible one based on the circumstances presently surrounding your question. Readings of any kind should be used as a tool to help you in deciding what to do next, what you can work towards changing, and what you decide to accept as your destiny. In other words, if you get a reading that doesn’t seem particularly good, what can you do to change that? If you couldn’t potentially change your future, then we at Spellmaker wouldnât be here working so hard for you and with you!
Light and Love
Sister Bridget
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Love Potion Number 9 – Redux
At: http://www.spellmaker.com/potion9.htm
Hello All!
If you missed making Love Potion #9 on September 9th – you are in luck! You dont have to wait until next fall to make a batch! There are a couple of alternatives, one of which is 11/11. If you do one of the alternatives, you have to up or down the ingredients appropriately. For instance, if you do it 11/11
at 11:00 a.m. – then you have to use 11 of each of the ingredients, say the incantation 11 times, stir the ingredients 11 times…. well, you get the picture đGood Luck!
Love Potion #9
* 9 oz. sweet red wine (or use cherry soda, cherry Kool-Aid or cherry juice for non-alcoholics)
* 9 basil leaves
* 9 red rose petals
* 9 cloves
* 9 apple seeds
* 9 drops vanilla extract
* 9 drops strawberry juice
* 9 drops apple juice
* 1 ginseng root, cut into 9 equal pieces (or use 3 powdered ginseng capsules)You also need:
* 9 pink votive candles
* Cheesecloth
* Wooden Spoon
* airtight contaner to hold the potion (big enough for at least 10oz fluid)By the light of 9 pink votive candles, put these nine
ingredients into a cauldron on the ninth hour of the ninth day of the
ninth month of the year. Stir the potion nine times with a wooden spoon,
each time reciting the following magickal incantation:LET THE ONE WHO DRINKS THIS WINE
SHOWER ME WITH LOVE DIVINE.
SWEET LOVE POTION NUMBER NINE
MAKE HIS/HER LOVE FOREVER MINE.Bring the mixture to a boil and then reduce the heat and let it
simmer for nine minutes. Remove the cauldron from the heat and allow the
potion to cool off. Blow nine times upon the potion, bless it in the names of
The nine love goddesses: Inanna, Ishtar, Astarte, Hathor, Nephthys,
Aphrodite, Venus, Freya, Arianrhod.And then strain it through a cheesecloth into a clean container.
Cover and refrigerate it untill you are ready to serve it to the man
or woman from whom you desire love and affection.**(Do not allow anyone other than your beloved to look at, touch, or drink
the love potion.)~~
A word of warning: This potion is extremely potent and should be used
with caution. Its results have been reported to be very intense, long-
lasting, and often difficult to control or reverse. So please be absolutely
sure before you give it to an intended lover that he or she is the right
one for you and vice versa.WARNING: Webmistress accepts no responsibility for effects or
consequences of casting spells found on this Website. Cast spells responsibly.Q&A on Love Potion #9
This potion keeps fairly well – up to a year covered tightly and refrigerated.
Yes, you light nine (or eleven) candles even though it is daytime.
Just about every grocery store has ginseng root and cheescloth.
Yes, the person has to drink it, putting it on door handles and such
is useless.Yes, it can be mixed with something else to drink – such as wine or
soft drinks – just use a few drops.At: http://www.spellmaker.com/potion9.htm
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About Sister Bridget…..
Welcome !
I am an initiated daughter of Mambo Samantha and Parran Matthew Corfield in New Orleans Voodoo. I am a Founding member of the family, as well as a Priestess of Ogoun. I am also in charge of the caseworkers at Spellmaker.com as well as a long time caseworker myself.
I have been working with Spellmaker clients for many years now. You can read about my own experiences as a Spellmaker client here.
Mambo Sam set up this blog for clients to get to know our staff better, so here I am to tell you some things about myself. My full time job is in health care. I work from home in the evenings doing my casework, rituals and tarot readings . I have also been taught by my mother, Mambo Sam, the art of Voodoo Lamps.
My favorite flower is the Sunflower (altho Roses are great, too!) My favorite authors are Caroline Myss, Gary Zukav, Brian Weiss, Stephen King, Nora Roberts and Jane Austen. I like scarey movies and sappy movies. I believe chocolate should be a food group! Have you ever tried See’s Awesome Peanut Brittle bars??? They really are awesome! My favorite drink is the Hurricane and well, anything with rum. I drink alot of ice tea, especially late at night while I’m trying to clear out my inbox đ For music I like Steve Halpern and Deuter and also the Bruce’s (Springsteen and Hornsby)and Jimmy Buffell because wherever Jimmy is, it is warm and there are drinks. I am an animal lover. I have 2 dogs, 2 cats, a couple of bunnies and a parrot. Did you know I have a myspace page ? I am on Facebook and Twitter (@sisterbridget) well. Please stop by and sign up as a friend!
Thanks so much for stopping by and reading about me. If you have any questions at all or if I can help you in anyway, or just want to say “Hi” please drop me an email at bridget@spellmaker.com
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Chinese Harvest Moon Festival
Please note: I first published this page in 2007.
The 2013 Harvest Moon Festival will be September 19!
(Thank you for the reminder, Khouzhan Lucy!)
It’s a great time to combine this ancient ritual with your own love ritual – such as doing one of the rituals to Erzulie Freda! You could certainly do her special ritual pack that we usually do on Valentine’s Day – that pack is available all year round – or any other ritual you like!
Harvest Moon Festival Calendar
September 19, 2013
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September 26, 2015Hello everyone! Are any of you familiar with the Chinese Harvest Moon Festival? I have always been fascinated by this festival, and especially the “love spell” characteristics that some people attribute to it.
The festival will be celebrated on September 19, 2013. There is a great Chinese legend (printed below for you) that is honored during the the Harvest Moon phase every year. It is also thought that single women can find their “soulmate” by eating Chinese Moon Cakes (recipe below), honoring the moon and its light, and asking for their love to be brought to them! One woman’s account is reprinted below, also, for you.
Of course, as a Vodouisant, I always want to bring some Vodou into the mix when doing any ritual. I could certainly see doing Erzulie’s Pink Bath or some Pink Image Candles on the night of the harvest moon, then eating the moon cakes while enjoying the harvest moon and petitioning for your lover to come to you! It would also be a great day to be starting, ending, or be in the middle of any love spell work!
At any rate, it is a great tradition and I wanted to share it with you all in case you wanted to work some magick on that special day. Oh and please notice when you get to the lady’s account of her experience with the Chinese Harvest Moon Festival, she was determined to change the “fate” she was given in a reading! Read on and enjoy!
THE CHINESE LEGEND
I. The Lady – Chang Er
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The time of this story is around 2170 B.C. The earth once had ten suns circling over it, each took its turn to illuminate to the earth. But one day all ten suns appeared together, scorching the earth with their heat. The earth was saved by a strong and tyrannical archer Hou Yi. He succeeded in shooting down nine of the suns. One day, Hou Yi stole the elixir of life from a goddess. However his beautiful wife Chang Er drank the elixir of life in order to save the people from her husband’s tyrannical rule. After drinking it, she found herself floating and flew to the moon. Hou Yi loved his divinely beautiful wife so much, he didn’t shoot down the moon.II. The Man – Wu Kang
Wu Kang was a shiftless fellow who changed apprenticeships all the time. One day he decided that he wanted to be an immortal. Wu Kang then went to live in the mountains where he importuned an immortal to teach him. First the immortal taught him about the herbs used to cure sickness, but after three days his characteristic restlessness returned and he asked the immortal to teach him something else. So the immortal to teach him chess, but after a short while Wu Kang’s enthusiasm again waned. Then Wu Kang was given the books of immortality to study. Of course, Wu Kang became bored within a few days, and asked if they could travel to some new and exciting place. Angered with Wu Kang’s impatience, the master banished Wu Kang to the Moon Palace telling him that he must cut down a huge cassia tree before he could return to earth. Though Wu Kang chopped day and night, the magical tree restored itself with each blow, and thus he is up there chopping still.III. The Hare – Jade Rabbit
In this legend, three fairy sages transformed themselves into pitiful old men and begged for something to eat from a fox, a monkey and a rabbit. The fox and the monkey both had food to give to the old men, but the rabbit, empty-handed, offered his own flesh instead, jumping into a blazing fire to cook himself. The sages were so touched by the rabbit’s sacrifice that they let him live in the Moon Palace where he became the “Jade Rabbit.” IV. The Cake – Moon Cake
During the Yuan dynasty (A.D.1280-1368) China was ruled by the Mongolian people. Leaders from the preceding Sung dynasty (A.D.960-1280) were unhappy at submitting to foreign rule, and set how to coordinate the rebellion without it being discovered. The leaders of the rebellion, knowing that the Moon Festival was drawing near, ordered the making of special cakes. Backed into each moon cake was a message with the outline of the attack. On the night of the Moon Festival, the rebels successfully attacked and overthrew the government. What followed was the establishment of the Ming dynasty (A.D. 1368-1644). Today, moon cakes A Recipe for Easy Chinese Moon Cakes
Makes 24
Moon cakes that come from China are far fancier than this recipe will make, often with impressions of chinese letters on them as in the picture below, but you can make your own and not worry so much about how they look, but WHY you are making them. There are also places that you can order them to be delivered to you if you want more “authentic looking” ones. But really, making them, especially for magickal purposes, would be wonderful and would imbue them with your intentions!
A former Chinese resident says, “Moon cakes are also eaten at the Moon Festival which falls in September. I lived in mainland China for two years and enjoyed the many varieties of moon cakes (not just filled with red bean paste – some had hard-boiled eggs in them, some a mixture of fruit and nuts, some lotus paste, etc.).”
Ingredients:
1/4 cup sugar
2 egg yolks
1/2 cup salted butter
1 cup all-purpose flour
1 cup strawberry (or your favorite) jam (traditionally red bean paste is used so if you want a more authentic version, you can use a can of red bean paste easily found in Oriental food markets, instead of the jam). Also making the cookies with just the imprint and putting a half of a boiled egg in them is a traditional way to do this with the egg being a representation of the moon, life, etc.
Preheat the oven to 375 degrees.
Combine the butter, sugar and 1 egg yolk and stir. Mix in the flour. Form the dough into one large ball and wrap it in plastic wrap. Refrigerate dough for half an hour. Unwrap the chilled dough and form small balls in the palms of your hand. Make a hole with your thumb in the center of each mooncake and fill with about half a teaspoon of jam. Brush each cake with the other beaten egg yolk and place on a cookie sheet. Bake for about 20 minutes or just until the outside edges are slightly brown.
Have fun!
One Woman’s Account of her Chinese Harvest Moon Festival Experience
“My story is one of Intention and the belief that you can change your life!!! On my 47th birthday I received an Ayurvedic Astrology reading of my life Past, Present and Future as a gift. I anxiously read the reading. As I read my past, it was exact, it said when my dad died, it told of the major influence he was in my life, and it spoke of my success and the life changes I had gone through. Do to its accuracy, and me still being a single woman, I quickly scanned forward to see what would happen in my love life. I read with great anticipation, until to my dismay, it stated that I would never marry. I thought that this could not be true. Because the reading came with three follow up questions, I quickly emailed the Himalayan Mountains to ask:
What do you mean I am not getting married?
If there were a chance for me to get married when would it be?
Where would I meet him?Several days later I received my response. The Indian Seer said that first, Should I never marry I should consider myself the LUCKY one for I will only have one disappointment in my life and that would be that I never marry. Everyone else would have several disappointments and then the destined separation due to death or divorce. He went on to say that there would be a small window of opportunity for marriage from September 28th, 2004 to May 31st 2005. He said that I would meet him in the South West.
After receiving this I was hopeful but confused. It was August 17th, 2004 and September 28th was very soon, I did not want to miss the window of opportunity. Southwest, did they mean SouthWest of where I am (Scottsdale AZ) or southwest of were I was born (Commack, NY). Am I in the Southwest? Or do I need to head to San Diego or Hawaii?
While I was researching vacation plans, I received an email from a fung shui web site. This email told the tale of the Chinese Harvest Moon Festival. It explained that the Harvest Moon Festival for that year (2004) would be on September 28th. It further went on to explain that The Chinese belief is that the man in the moon Yue-lao also known as the âMarriage Makerâ would tie an invisible red string from your ankle to the ankle of your betrothed and that no matter where in the world you were you would find each other if you do 3 things on the night of the Chinese Harvest Moon. You needed to drink green tea, eat Chinese moon cakes and listen to music and put out the intentions you have for your mate. It seemed like a coincidence that the date of September 28th showed up twice, it was the date of the festival and it was the date of the start of my window of opportunity. So, I decided I was going to celebrate the Harvest Moon Festival. I began by researching Moon Cakes and where I would buy them. When I looked them up they looked disgusting, a Sweet paste with hard boiled egg yolks inside. I thought it looked nasty, but I wanted to find the right man, my soul mate. I found a place in China town in NYC that would overnight them fresh to me. I then solidified my intention for what I wanted in a man: My intention was for a Wonderful, loving, caring, giving, affectionate, faithful, romantic supportive husband. This became my mantra.
Determined to Change my future I realized that I needed to commit and follow through with my Harvest Moon Festival celebration to attract the right man for me. I believed that to do this, one must share their intentions with others, this makes you commit to the follow through. So, the next day I went to work and was sharing the story of Yue-lao with every single woman I could find and tell them about the importance of that day.
As I shared with Laurie a woman who worked for me, a tall Asian man named Shan who worked down in accounting walked past the counter. I had seen him past the desk on many occasions, but we never really spoke more then, Hi, Goodbye and youâre leaving already. I decided to ask him if he had ever had a moon cake. He asked why I wanted to know and I told him the legend of Yue-lao, and explained that I was going to follow the tradition, but that moon cakes looked disgusting. He told me that he loves moon cakes. That night as I ordered my moon cakes, I decided that I would order a container for Shan as well. After the Moon cakes arrived, I saw Shan and let him know that I had something for him. I gave him the moon cakes and as the harvest moon festival approached, I prepared myself to drink the tea, listen to music, eat my moon cakes and put out the intention for the man I was to marry. I did everything I should on the night of the Moon Festival, however, I was so disappointed because it was very overcast in phoenix that night and I could not see the moon. After going outside and drinking the tea and eating my moon pie I came back into my bedroom to listen to music and put out my intention. As I disappointingly walked back into the room, I looked at the picture above my bed only to realize that the Moon was in my room the whole time, above my bed is a large picture with Chinese writing and a woman sitting on the moon. I sat backed looked at the picture and put out my intentions
The day after the moon festival, Shan gave me an envelope with a Thank You card and three other envelopes in it. Each envelope was typed with a âDo Not Open Untilâ and a date on it. One was do not open until October1st, the next was Do Not Open till November 1st and the third, Do not open until Dec 1st. Being somewhat superstitious, I waited till the first of each month to open each envelope. On October 1st I opened the first one. In it was a poem from Shan that basically said I know we will be good friends and a gift certificate for a one pound box of chocolates. From October thru November, Shan and I continued with our Hi and Good Bye routine. During that month an intuit, who worked for me, told me that I would meet the man for me and that he was a cross between Pierce Brosnon and Yanni. He described him as Spanish Irish with green eyes.
November 1st came and I opened the next envelope, this time there was another poem which basically said that he knew we would make a difference in each others life, and another gift certificate for a one pound box of chocolates. I thanked him again, and the next few weeks continued with hi and Good bye until November 18th, when Shan asked me what I did on my day off. When I told him I went out for sushi with two people we worked with to celebrate their birthdays, he said âI like Sushi, maybe we could go out some night for sushi, because going out for sushi is not something you should do by yourselfâ. I said sure and we set the Tuesday before Thanksgiving as the day to go out.
We went to dinner, and talked about work. I didnât consider it a date I just thought of it as 2 co workers going out for dinner. After dinner, Shan walked me to the car and asked if I would like to go to a movie on Thanksgiving. I declined because I had a lot of company coming over for thanksgiving dinner. He looked so sad and had puppy dog eyes, so I added that I could do it on Friday if he wanted. He agreed and on Friday we went to the movies. After the movies, we went for coffee; Shan expressed his interest in me. I told him that he was a really nice guy, but that he wasnât the man for me. I explained that this intuit had told me I would meet a man, but that he was Spanish Irish a cross between Yanni and Pierce Brosnon and had green eyes, and lets face it that isnât you I went on to say your Chinese and have brown eyes. Ever the optimist, Shan said I think my great grandmother was Irish, and âI am the right man for you, you just do not know it yetâ. He proceeded to tell me that he would continue to come after me until I gave him a firm NO. The next day Shan proceeded to send me love poems with pictures and music daily.December 1st came and I opened the last card. Again there was a certificate for a one pound box of chocolates and a poem. The essence of this poem was that I was the woman for him
. By the middle of December I had gone to Shanâs house. As I went to ring the doorbell, I saw 3 butterflies over the doorbell. Butterflies are my icon, I always say that the butterfly will lead me to where I need to be. I knew that night that Shan was the man for me. By the end of December we were discussing marriage, we got engaged on February 14th 2005 and we Wed in Maui on May 27th 2005. Right before the May 31st deadline.When I was younger (up until 47) I said I wouldnât get married unless I received at least a 5 cart diamond ring, then I learned that according to Vedic astrology diamonds were not good for me energetically. When I got engaged, there were no stones just a gold band and I have never taken it off. I value it with all my heart.
Shan is the man of my intentions. He is loving, caring giving affectionate faithful, romantic, supportive and my husband. In May it will be two years and I have the best man in the world who sends me love notes daily. He has brought back my trust, the little girl in me and has opened up a whole new balanced world for me. After we married, I told Shan what I asked God for in a man and how he fulfilled my dreams. Shan told me that he also asked God for the woman he desired. When I asked him what he asked for he said a woman with a good heart that was all.
He is Younger, Asian, Christian, Coworker and not wealthy, everything I thought I wasnât looking for, Everything I avoided and Yet he is the PERFECT man for me. Like he said âI was looking for him and I just I did not know itâ
So Woman and men, Open your hearts, love yourself, unload the baggage and be open to the infinite possibilities of Love
PS This year the Harvest Moon is on September 22nd, so ladies get your green tea and chinese moon cakes ready!! Get your single girlfriends together and have a party.”




