Author: Sister Bridget Corfield

  • Positive Affirmation Rewiring The Brain

    So, how do affirnations work?

    Positive Affirmation Rewiring The Brain

    A simple definition of positive affirmation states “An affirmation is a form of autosuggestion in which a statement of a desirable intention or condition of the world or the mind is deliberately meditated on and repeated in order to implant it in the mind”.

    Is this just some New Age or Far Eastern idea of meditating and planting seeds of reality disillusionment, or is the idea of affirmation, backed by Neural Science?

    Although the idea of the use of positive affirmation and meditation is often associated to some New Age “hocus pocus”, nothing could be farther from the truth.

    These ideas are based on sound solid medical facts, and deal with the science of your mind and neural biology.The joining or wiring together of brain cells, is often referred to as, "cells that fire together, wire together", and the theory explains that, when we learn, groups of cells that are activated together, grow a stronger connection.

    This grouping of common brain cells gives us our learned behaviour, it allows us to walk, talk, run, write, sing, in fact any learned activity we do, seemingly without thinking.

    But it goes much deeper than that, every bodily function and every aspect of our personality is in the wiring of these groups of brain cells.

    Even before you were born your brain arranged cells or neurons in particular orders, testing and rewiring its circuits, routing and rerouting its electrical signals. The day you were born, you were programmed to function, to pump and clean blood, control an army of defence cells, feel hunger, digest and dare I see it, fill a nappy.

    From this day on you started to make use of your senses, collecting data, analysing and testing. You started to recognise smell, sound, taste and sites and form Neuron Circuits to help you identify these things again.

    Was the smell good, how did I react to that taste, was this sound pleasant and did this look nice. Whatever the reaction was the first time around, will probably be the same again, the circuit is formed, the cells are structured, the brain is wired.

    You test reaction and response, that’s why babies cry, you test taste and texture, you learn about pain, fear, love and laughter, and each action and re-action is wired in for future use.

    So how does this process work?

    The process of wiring habit, pattern or memory into your brain is in two steps.

    As I have already mentioned, “At birth, you start to make use of your senses, collecting data, analysing and testing”, this is the first process of learning. This is the action of the objective or conscious mind, testing, retesting and programming data.

    The second step takes place once all the data has been passed, and all responses verified, this is then belief, we know the fact to be true and the response to be appropriate and we then pass the fact to the subjective or subconscious mind, to be programmed in biologically.

    So why do we need a Positive Affirmation, if we are passing facts to our subconscious?

    Quite simply, to evolve our intellect, to achieve, to overcome and to grow as a human race. Now that’s quite a statement, but I’ll go further, “Positive Affirmation is the key to all advancement and all achievement, without exception”.

    You see there is quite a biological flaw with our outstandingly clever bodies, wiring facts into our brain means that we can achieve and remember almost anything. The analysis of data, testing of response and the programming of our circuits seems a flawless system, but there is one big, giant monster of a stumbling block.

    What happens if the data was wrong and the response defective or inappropriate?

    So how do we overcome faulty facts? Well to coin a phrase, it’s just like riding a bike!

    But seriously it is, just like riding a bike, and how you learnt to achieve this marvellous feat is the answer to the problem.

    Riding a bike is one of the most unnatural things to do, your subconscious is already in charge of your balance and speed, the data has been tested, retested analysed and programmed as fact. You know how to stand up, walk and run. But a bike? Balance on a couple of square centimetres and propel yourself forward at three times the speed? I don’t think so!

    “But you know it can be done, you practise, you tell your body to take the pain each time you fall, you are determined, you will achieve, overcome and ride this bike”.

    This is a Positive Affirmation at work!

    To help you see this as a positive affirmation let me make the statement personal lets go back to our time learning to ride a bike and say the statement to ourselves, as if we were still learning.

    “But I know it can be done, I will practise, and tell my body to take the pain each time I fall, I am determined, I will achieve, overcome and ride this bike”.

    A powerful Positive Affirmation!

    Now lets imagine that you live in 1790 and a Frenchman gave you his new invention “The Celerifere”, this was one of the earliest bikes, with no steering.

    Your beliefs and programming about balance and speed would be the same as they were when you actually learnt to ride a bike, but your experience would be different. You would never of seen one, never have witnessed it work and I’m sure you would believe, that the idea of a bike seemed an outrageous way to move.

    How then, would your “Positive Affirmation” read?

    It would probably go something like this.

    “But I’m not sure if this can be done, I don’t know how much I can practise, and take this pain each time I fall, I will never do this, I can’t achieve or overcome and ride this bike”.

    Hardly a Positive Affirmation, but an Affirmation all the same.

    OK, so it’s easy to see how we can use a Positive Affirmation to achieve a physical goal, but it surely can’t make me earn more money, find love or be happy.

    Or can it?

    This is the second flaw in our biological make up.

    Your subconscious does not think, it only accepts, it cannot decide. Your subconscious discharges chemicals into your bloodstream every time certain circuits are activated, and you will perceive these chemicals as emotion, but your subconscious doesn’t feel, it does not know whether these chemicals are good or bad, wanted or unwanted

    If you’re in debt you will be all to familiar with the dread of the arrival of the postman, the feeling of another bill, another demand and then the bill arrives, the letter is opened, yet another demand or final notice, and you experience the feelings of despair and depression.

    The event is anticipated and the relevant circuit is activated, the corresponding chemical is released and you perceive the chemical as emotion, as dread. The event happens and another circuit is activated, the corresponding chemical is released, and you perceive the chemical as emotion, as despair or depression.

    But this then grows more powerfully as our bodies start to crave this chemical rush, and just like the smoker, who’s body crave the rush of nicotine or the drinker the rush of alcohol, your body is crying out for the rush of proteins that give you these emotions of dread, despair and depression and you will keep moving towards the things your body needs.

    Our subconscious, does not analyse this, it does not know that you do not want this result, why should it? After all, you are the trainer, you set this in motion by practising the event every morning, you analysed it, and passed it on, therefore it must be true.

    This is why the abused, seems to move from one abuser to another, or the failure to more failure and the broken heart to the heartbreaker.

    Whether you believe in the Law of Attraction or not, if you cannot see that like attracts like, surely you can see that what you think you like, you will keep moving towards by default. By your very own actions, you are what you think about.

    You have today, built your destiny for tomorrow, and you will continue to become the things you fear the most, that is, until you respond, until you stand up and shout out.

    “I know it can be done, I will practise, and tell myself each time I fall, I am determined, I will achieve, I will overcome and ride towards my chosen destiny”

    "I will be, what I will to be”

    What a Positive Affirmation.

    With Gratitude and until next time

    John Peace and Victoria Welch

    The Complete Law of Attraction Guide
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  • Happy Valentine’s Day!

    Hey!

    Happy Valentine’s Day!

    I would like to share with you my all time hands down favorite love poem. This poem really resonates with me, and totally sums up love for me…….

    How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
                        I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
                         My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
                           For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
                            I love thee to the level of every day’s
                          Most quiet need; by sun and candle-light.
                           I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
                          I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
                            I love thee with the passion put to use
                         In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith
                           I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
                        With my lost saints,–I love thee with the breath.
                        Smiles, tears, of all my life!–and, if God choose,
                            I shall but love thee better after death.

                                           

      ~~~~Elizabeth Barrett Browning

    Have a great day, all! Do something special for yourselves. Let your love light shine today 🙂
    Light and Love
    Sister Bridget

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  • The Great Valentines Challenge!

    Hey there!

    Welcome to Febuary! As you know by now, the Spellmaker New Orleans Voodoo Family is working on a month long ritual for Erzulie Freda and your love wishes! Now, its time for you all to start spreading the love yourselves! Mambo Sam has put together some product packages to help you get started. BUT…. I think it would be really great if each and every one of you reached out and sent everyone you can stand (and maybe a few folks you cant stand) a greeting. I know, I know, just hear me out, tho. I heard on the radio the other day a doctor talking about what a bad time of year this was for alot of people, how with the weather and the holiday bills, and the lonliness alot of folks feel after the holidays, that there are a great number of people out there just feeling down. So, what better way to cheer someone up than to send them a cute or funny or even serious valentine greeting. It doesnt have to be anything elaborate, it can even be something as simple as an e card. But its really quite possible that the *only* greeting someone gets could be from YOU! So, spread some smiles in the next couple of weeks. You will make alot of people feel better, including yourself 😉

    Here are a couple of free e card sites that I found that might be helpful:

    http://www.123greetings.com/

    http://www.happydaycards.com/ValentineCards.html

    http://www.freewebcards.com/cards/valentines/

    Get Busy! Spread the Love!

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

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  • How’s it going???

    Hey there!

    How is it going? Are you all still busy taking out the trash – both physically and energetically? So far, I have totally cleaned out my kitchen, all the cupboards and drawers have new shelf paper, all my cups and dishes and pots and pans are in nice neat rows. The floor is sparkly clean. I have also cleaned out the dining room, which was in pretty good shape — just got some new curtains made and cleaned the rugs 🙂 So, my downstairs is nearly done! Yippeeee!

    So, whats next?  I mean, once we have all cleaned up our enviornments physically, what can we do magickally to complete the cleansing? We have quite a few options:

    Marie Laveau House Blessing Kit is a one time use kit which takes a few hours but will give you a really thorough cleansing and blessing of your home space. It can also be used at an office or workspace (so long as no one is around 🙂 ) or just in one room (like the room you sleep in or spend the most time in)

    Do you have any leftover incense cones from your candle magick kits? Either the Black Banishing Incense or the Chango’s Mystic Chrysalis Incense would be very good for removing negativity from a space or cleansing. The Black Banishing is the obvious one. But the Chango’s is for change – so you would focus on releasing the old and icky stuff and getting ready for new and wonderful stuff (this is the change). Burn a cone or two in each room, in just the room that you spend the most time in. As Always — Never leave burning incense unattended!

    Marie Laveau House Blessing  Solution can be purchased seperatley. It can be used to clean your voodoo workspace, or use it as a *touch up* around the house to clean up spots that might feel funky or are just dirty.

    So, please please please let me know how you are doing with the takin out of the trash!

    Stay tuned, because soon we start the inviting in or the totally wonderful!

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

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  • Hay House Radio

    Hay House Radio is by far one of the best kept secrets on the internet!

    Hay House Radio is an internet radio station — you listen to the programs on your computer or you can download the programs into ITunes and then listen to them on your Ipod.  And best of all, its FREE!

    Many popular authors you are familiar with have weekly shows on Hay House Radio:. Esther and Jerry Hicks, Louise Hay, Caroline Myss, Doreen Virtue and many others.

    There are literally hundreds of hours of programs for the taking. Lots of good information. I personally listen to Sacred Contracts by Caroline Myss, Angel Therapy by Doreen Virtue, and Your Soul’s Compass by Joan Borysenko. I listen to them on my Ipod while I drive back and forth to work.

    Check it out! You will be glad you did!
    Light and Love,

    Sister Bridget

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  • And in with the New!

    Hey there fellow Spellcasters!

    Its almost Febuary! Now that we have cleaned up our enviornment, a bit physically and energetically, its time to start inviting in new and wonderful things.

    If you havent already heard, this year will be Spellmaker’s third year of holding a special ritual for Erzulie Freda for all who would like to participate.   I am very excited this because this year the ritual will be a family event!  The whole family – Marran Sam , Parran Matt, Sister Candi and myself will each be working hard petitioning Erzulie on your behalf. It is such an honor and a priveldge to be able to assist every one in this great month long event.

    Marran Sam has put together some packages of items for folks who would like to add some of their own energy to their cause. Of course, so purchase is necessary to participate. But for those who want to, the special packages are helpful and specially priced.  Marran Sam has even put together some suggestions and helpful tips on how to use these items.

    So, I have been busy takin’ out the trash myself for the last few weeks! For Christmas my father have me a gift certificate for LLBean. I just LOVE Bean! So, tonight I decided to use my gift certificate and get me some things that are , well, lovely!

    So, what did I get?

    A wreath made of dried roses in the shape of a heart.  I am putting this wreath in my kitchen, where it can be seen as soon as I come in thru the door from the outside. So that the first thing everyone sees when they come in are roses!

    A set of flannel sheets with tiny candy hearts on them.  Who can resist???

    And a really lovely pink bathrobe.  No way to not feel warm and fuzzy wearing this robe 😉

    And my personal "plan of attack" for Febuary magickally (aside from the ritual being done by our family):

    Erzulie Pink Bath on Feb 1st.

    I have a quite a few straight pink spell candles and two bottles of Erzulie Marriage Oil and some Love Magnet Incense.     With this combo of products, I can send ALOT of warm, pink fuzzy thoughts all over for a long long time!

    Sweet Feelings Bath Crystals and Phraeda’s Tea Rose lotion are on the bathroom shelf! My plan is (as of now, until real life hits me hard in Feb.) to use the Pink Bath Crystals and tea rose lotion every morning in Feb (OK, stop laughing, really, Im going to give this a good ripple!)

    So, that’s my plan as it stands now. I have already ordered a couple of Sheer Goddess gift baskets to send to two friends that are alone this Valentines Day, and wanted them to know someone was thinking of them. And they get the added benefit of Erzulie’s lovely energy as they use the products themselves! So, maybe next year, they wont be so alone!

    So, that is my plan of attack (or maybe something else?) for next month.

    Let me know what you are planning. Leave me a comment and lets get some chatter going here!
    Light and Love,

    Sister Bridget

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  • Anam Cara

    I am in the middle of the great book about Celtic Wisdom and Spirituaity called Anam Cara. The title itself means "Soul Friend".  The author, John O’Donoghue , passed away earlier this month. I was listening to an interview with him on NPR and was very sad to hear about his death. I wish I had found his books and poems sooner. They are really quite wonderful. Here is one poem I especially enjoy:

    Beannacht
    ("Blessing")

    On the day when
    the weight deadens
    on your shoulders
    and you stumble,
    may the clay dance
    to balance you.

    And when your eyes
    freeze behind
    the grey window
    and the ghost of loss
    gets in to you,
    may a flock of colours,
    indigo, red, green,
    and azure blue
    come to awaken in you
    a meadow of delight.

    When the canvas frays
    in the currach of thought
    and a stain of ocean
    blackens beneath you,
    may there come across the waters
    a path of yellow moonlight
    to bring you safely home.

    May the nourishment of the earth be yours,
    may the clarity of light be yours,
    may the fluency of the ocean be yours,
    may the protection of the ancestors be yours.
    And so may a slow
    wind work these words
    of love around you,
    an invisible cloak
    to mind your life.
    .
    John O’Donoghue
    ~ Echoes of Memory ~

    Anamcara

  • That Famous Speech.

    Happy Martin Luther King Day!

    I know you all have heard the quote from Dr King’s speech …."I have a dream". And those of you who have done the Lady Samantha Hex Removal Kit   are familiar with the very last line of the speech, but how many of us have really read thru the whole thing, and weighed the meaning and power of these words?

    They are here for you to consider:

    Dr King’s Speech

    I say to you today, my friends, so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

    I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal.”

    I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

    I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

    I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

    I have a dream today.

    I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification; one day right there in Alabama, little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

    I have a dream today.

    I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.

    This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

    This will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with a new meaning, “My country, ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim’s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.”

    And if America is to be a great nation this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire.

    Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York.

    Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania!

    Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado!

    Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California!

    But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia!

    Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee!

    Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

    And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual:

    “Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”

    ~Martin Luther King, Jr., August 28, 1963, Washington, DC

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  • Quote for the day!

    At first dreams seem impossible, then improbable, then inevitable.
      Christopher Reeves

    Superman

  • Feng Shui Tips for Your Dining Room

    We’re getting there , folks! How are you doing? Let me know!

    Light and Love

    Sister Bridget

    Dining

    Feng Shui Tips for Your Dining Room
    by Stephanie Roberts

    In ancient cultures, "breaking bread" together, whether as a family or with strangers, was a honored way to build community. More recently, potluck dinners, pancake breakfasts, and company picnics have continued this tradition. We haven’t done so well at maintaining this important ritual in our homes, however.

    Today, the dining room is often one of the most neglected rooms in the house; either it is a formal space that is rarely used, or it has been taken over for use as a home office or projects space. Busy schedules and multiple-careers can make it almost impossible for families to share dinner together on a regular basis. From a feng shui perspective, we are missing out on an important and once-sacred aspect of life. Paying attention to the feng shui of your dining space can help to remedy that.

    A cramped dining room can create a feeling of pressure in family relationships and interfere with good digestion. Too much heavy, dark, old furniture – especially when it is squeezed into too small a space – also creates a heavy, dark feeling and blocks the flow of chi. Boxes and bags of clutter have a similar effect. The older the clutter, the more stuck the energy will feel. De-cluttering your dining room is an important first step in improving the feng shui of this space.

    The dining room is an exception to the feng shui guideline of aiming to leave some open space in the center of every room. Here the dining table itself should occupy the center position, with equal space on all sides (if possible), and plenty of room for each person to sit down at and get up from the table.

    The flow of energy through the dining room should be gentle but not stagnant. It’s good to have two doors to the dining room to allow chi to circulate, but if doorways on opposite walls are directly in line with each other chi will move straight through the room too quickly. A faceted crystal ball or crystal chandelier over the center of the dining table will help to balance chi in the room, and also helps people with eating disorders embrace healthier habits.

    A mirror is also helpful for improving chi flow in the dining room. Make sure that the mirror reflects something attractive: a nice piece of furniture, a view out a window, or painting or other artwork. A mirror that reflects what’s on the table visually doubles your food, and symbolically doubles your money. Keep in mind, though, that if your dining table is covered with clutter or unfinished projects the mirror will doubling the mess and workload.

    If your family is managing to dine together but the conversations tend to focus on the past rather than sharing current issues, try clearing all old objects from the dining room. Boxes of old papers and photographs especially will contribute to holding the energy of this room in the past. Getting rid of them will encourage your family to open up about what’s happening in their lives right now. If you want to keep a few ancestral treasures or portraits in the dining room, place them together in the Family sector of the room rather than distributing them throughout the space.

    EATING IN PEACE

    The dining room should be a calm and peaceful place. Warm, soothing earth tones such as soft yellow, peach, and beige are good colors for this room. Curtains soften the cutting chi of mini-blinds, and a thick rug or carpet adds a soothing texture that helps to absorb sound and keeps the atmosphere of this room tranquil. If you don’t have a formal dining room, do what you can to make the area where you have your meals as separate and quiet as possible.

    Lighting is an important element in creating a good dining atmosphere. Use candles, lower wattage bulbs, or a dimmer switch to bring the energy level down a little, especially at the end of a hectic day.

    If your evening meals often feel rushed or if time pressures from the day carry over into the dinner hour, try removing all clocks and calendars from the dining room and reposition those in other rooms so they can’t be seen from the table. This will help you slow down and enjoy a calmer dining experience.

    At least once a week turn off the TV and allow yourself to enjoy the process of physical nourishment without any distractions other than conversation with your family. Good manners dictate turning your cell phone off when you dine at a restaurant; why not apply this rule at home, too? Treating the dinner hour as a special time for relaxation and nurturing is a good feng shui practice, and will help both your mood and your digestion.

    Your beautiful table linens and good silverware should be used from time to time, so you can enjoy them in the present instead of always waiting for some future date. Plan a special sit-down-together dinner with your partner or family one night a month (or more often, if you can). Making this a regular event reinforces how special your loved ones are to you. Using a tablecloth, rather than individual placemats, encourages closeness among family members.

    Take a moment before beginning the meal to give thanks for the abundance on your table and for the family and friends who are sharing the meal with you. Saying grace before the meal – in whatever form you choose – fills the dining room with the energy of love and appreciation.

    Excerpted from “The Pocket Idiot’s Guide to Feng Shui” by Stephanie Roberts (Alpha Books, 2004)

    Copyright © 2004 Stephanie Roberts